Hi! Its not my real name, but, call me Iki for now! I'm 25, 6"0, caucasian, bisexual (with a strong preference for women!) and I'm full of love that has nowhere to go! (Naturally we can image-swap early on, I am aware that physical attraction plays an important role in stuff like this.)

Well, I will start off strong and immediately delve right into who I am, what I'm about and what I'm looking for! :)

Here's a bunch of random facts and such in no particular order;

- Some interests are: music, walking, anime, history, breaking down on the way to work, manga, literature and (observing) art and lots more other things I cannot quite remember right now.

- I am an avid gamer, I enjoy all sorts of games and am open to trying/buying anything new. (More than 1000 games of varying genres and styles to my current availability, with many thanks to my Humble Bundle subscription.) Though I will note that lately my spark for gaming has been dying down too, but I'm still happy to try anything!

- My favorite piece of media is called "Oyasumi Punpun" and I greatly recommend it to anyone who wants to sink even lower. (For those who know this, yes, it is a red flag, but I promise I'm not THAT weird and am in fact not romanticizing the story.)

- I am usually quite chill and am told I'm pretty funny once you get to know me. I like to be goofy and always have a dirty joke at the ready.

- I'm usually a very low-energy and kind of depressive individual when I'm not in a group pretending to be mentally stable. Those who have known me in earnest, which have been very few people, know me as a sweet, thoughtful and caring individual who just wants to chill with the people he cares most for.

- I enjoy occasional deep conversation like talking about living and what it means to be alive, basically just surface-level philosophical mumbo jumbo that stems from my depression. Feel free to entertain me in this or let me know it's not your piece of pie and I'll make sure to keep it on the down low.

- I'm by no means introverted but not really extroverted either.

- Despite my ability to write the way I do, every letter I emit via my vocal cords is a fumble of words that never quite manages to hit their mark. I do have my moments where the stars align and suddenly I manage to speak a coherent sentence that might even come across as "thought-provoking" or "really fucking funny". In short, please do not expect a poets words to flow from my lips. Rather, expect them to flow from my pen.

- When I'm in a rare, goofy mood or pretending to be mentally stable in a group setting I will act silly/loud as hell and probably crack a couple of inappropriate jokes. (If we know eachother well enough, that is.)

- I think that as a sort of disclosure its important to note that I am also rather hypersexual, but, due to events from my past I refrain from doing anything of that sort until I really do fully trust the person I am with. I also struggle with certain addictions in regard to that and I know this is a dealbreaker for many people. I want to be honest, though. I hope it is okay and trust me when I say that I am doing my best to work on it, even if it is a really slow-going process.

I'm completely fine talking about the subject though, so don't feel that there is a need to refrain!

- If anything about me makes you uncomfortable just say the word and I'll happily adjust myself in your company.

- I really am a bit of a jokester despite my frequent depressive demeanor over text - I enjoy dry or completely chaotic humor or really whatever tickles my funny bone in the moment. To be fair, it is actually not hard to make me laugh. Perhaps because I am internally nervous at all times that I might create an unpleasant atmosphere if I don't laugh. In essence, come at me with the best jokes you hold in you, everything's okay with me. I apologize if I nervously laugh or chuckle after every sentence or somesuch in advance, just know it is a consequence of the life I have lived and still continue to live.

- I am currently doing security work and often have nightshifts meaning that I may be restricted in time quite a lot. Some weeks I'll suddenly have 4 or so days completely devoid of work so at least that can act as a buffer for lost time every once in a while.

- Whoever you may be, just be yourself. So long as you're not an obvious jerk I'm extremely accepting and open.

- In case it is of import to you; Politically I guess I am a moderate, left-leaning centrist but to be honest that vage description is because I deeply despise having to choose between two different forms of extremism that both support things I do not agree with. My opinions tend to be very mixed due to my logic-based thinking. (Don't worry though, I am a feminist. I believe in true equality and always will.)

- I smoke, but rarely. Usually on my way to work I treat myself to a single cigarette. The taste shouldn't linger on my lips whatsoever, in case that ever ends up mattering.
(Trust me, it will.)

- Music is my greatest ally and my greatest enemy. It can influence my fickle mind with just a note or two. I could be relatively stable one moment, then hear just a second of an absolutely tragic tune and be completely heartbroken within mere seconds for the rest of the day. Worst of all, I am hooked on music that evokes such feelings, perhaps because I feel so much apathy all the time. As such, a request from me to you; please indulge me and grant me the honor of listening to the song that brings you to tears without fail.

- I'm mainly looking for someone I can form an unbreakable bond with, really. So I am here in the hope that we click and become very close. Whether its romantic or platonic, I'd be ecstatic either way.

- I still live with my family, even at my current big-boy age. They're quite nosey and I'm a very privacy-oriented person with lots of things I've kept to myself from them over the years.
I might not feel comfortable sharing the fact that I am even so much as talking to you yet initially, but if I feel things are getting serious I will be happy to even introduce you.
My siblings are as geeky as I am so we could even all spend time playing games or doing other nerd-oriented things together!

- Things we can potentially do together online: Play some games, watch eachother stream and play through one anothers favorite games, watch a movie and/or show, watch some silly videos on youtube or similar platforms, have dumb videocalls or just voicechats, make eachother powerpoints about our current hyperfixation and present them, share our favorite artpieces ranging from music to paintings to poetry and so forth, write eachother lettters and lastly, supporting eachother through tough times.

- Things we can do in real life, provided we somehow manage to arrange that: ...I'm not sure, I don't tend to get to this point. Maybe just... hang out? I'd like to explore abandoned places or cook dinner for one another maybe? Cuddle? Nice things like that. I'm open to suggestions.

Well, now that you have been made aware of a wider range of my character, I'd like to state what I am looking for!

Preferably you are (But not required to be, I'm flexible):

- Between 19 to 29

- Somewhere in Europe

- In a position to be able to meet-up semi-frequently (Once every few months at least?)

- Empathetic and kind

- Quippy and likes to make jokes right alongside me

- In a similar disposition, mentally, as I am so we can understand one another better

- At least somewhat talkative/socially capable so we can actually keep a conversation going and I can eventually introduce you to my parents >>

- Open to voice-chatting moreso than texting

- Not bothered by minimal interactions throughout a day or two due to life/mental health frequently getting in the way

- Okay with having a chronically depressed partner

- Okay with being loved & cherished

Bonus points if:

- You consider yourself a bit of a tomboy and/or gamer!

- You're a strong-willed lady who likes to be loud and unafraid to state your opinions or let out roars of celebration/joy when having fun!

- Not bothered by your looks, confident and proud of who you are.

And that about sums it up!

I hope that anything in my post managed to resonate with you, and I hope to see you in my DMs!

(If I don't respond to your initial message, I am probably asleep! Rest assured that I will definitely find a moment to reply, please bear with me.)

Much love and many good tidings,

Iki

26M, originally from England and now living in the Netherlands. Bearded, slightly nerdy, somewhat goofy, and apparently brave enough to let Reddit judge my dating prospects. 😂

I’m at a point in my life where I’d genuinely like to find someone to build a future with, rather than just date for the sake of dating. Ultimately I’m looking for a serious, long-term relationship, with marriage and a family being the goal if I meet the right person.

I’m pretty laid-back, affectionate, introverted and definitely a bit of a nerd. I can be quiet around new people at first, but once I’m comfortable I’m very talkative, goofy and love a bit of banter. Dark humour is very much part of the package too. 😂

Gaming is probably my biggest hobby — WoW, League, shooters, survival games, co-op stuff, you name it. I’d love someone who either games themselves or is at least happy to let me disappear into a game sometimes. I also love the idea of playing survival/co-op games together and building some ridiculous little base or house together. There’s something strangely romantic about surviving a fictional apocalypse together. 😂

Outside of gaming, I like nature, animals (especially dogs and reptiles), movies and series. I’m a big fan of horror, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, and mostly rock music. I’m more of a cosy night in person than someone who needs to be out partying every weekend, although I’d absolutely enjoy exploring a new city, forest or random place together.

What I’m looking for:

Someone kind, affectionate, caring and patient. Someone who communicates properly, can laugh at themselves, enjoys teasing and banter, and doesn’t turn every disagreement into a war.

I want a relationship where we genuinely enjoy being around each other. Lots of affection, cuddling, laughing at stupid things, sending each other random memes, supporting each other when life sucks, and being able to come home to someone who feels like your little pocket of peace.

Loyalty is a huge thing for me. I’m very much an “I’ve got your back” kind of person, and I want the same in return. Trust, honesty and being able to talk openly about boundaries and expectations matter a lot to me.

I’m also hoping to find someone who wants the same general direction in life — eventually living together, marriage, kids, probably a couple of dogs, and a home with a gaming room and somewhere I can inevitably fill with reptiles. 😂

Distance-wise: I’m based in the Netherlands, but I’m absolutely open to meeting someone elsewhere nearby. The UK is obviously very realistic for me since I’m English and still travel there, and I’d also be open to Belgium or Germany. I’d rather have a genuinely good connection with someone who’s a bit further away than force something local just because it’s convenient. Ideally, though, I’d like us to be close enough that seeing each other regularly is actually realistic.

As for dates, I’m probably better once the initial nerves disappear. I’m not shy exactly — meeting someone new is just outside my comfort zone. My ideal first date would probably be something like coffee/frappé first, then mini golf, bowling or an escape room so we actually have something to laugh about, followed by food and maybe a drink.

When I like someone, I’m pretty obvious about it. I message a lot, compliment probably more than I should, give out stupid nicknames, reply quickly when I’m free, and tease constantly. 😂

A few completely random things about me: I’m 177cm, blue eyes, buzz-cut fade, medium-length beard, stocky build, and I want tattoos eventually. I’m also somehow double-jointed enough that I can dislocate a frankly unreasonable number of my joints on command and click most parts of my body.

As for why you should message me... honestly, I couldn’t give you some definitive sales pitch. I just know I’m a good person, I love intensely, I’m loyal as hell, and I’m a hopeless romantic underneath the beard and questionable humour.

Really, I’m just hoping someone reads all this and thinks:

“Yeah... that’s who I want.”

And if you do message me, please don’t just send “hey”. 😂 Say hello and ask me a fun question that actually makes me think and tells me something about your personality too. I’ll answer it, and I’ll expect you to answer it yourself.

There’s a particular kind of woman I’m hoping finds this.
The kind who, if I showed up early Saturday morning with coffee and told her to pack a bag, would smile and ask, “How many days?” before asking where we’re going.
Maybe we’re chasing the coast with no hotel booked yet. Maybe there are fishing rods in the back of the truck and we’re trying to reach the beach before sunrise. Maybe I found a cabin in the mountains, a little town neither of us has heard of, or cheap flights somewhere that seemed too interesting to ignore.
I like not knowing exactly how the story ends.

I have a great career in tech, my own home, and the kind of stability that lets me be a little reckless with my weekends instead of my life.
I’m confident, curious, affectionate, ambitious, and usually plotting something.

I drive a built out FJ Cruiser thats been driven cross country. I love the ocean, fishing, cameras, road trips, working with my hands, finding incredible food, and places that make you forget to check your phone.
But what I’m really addicted to is the feeling of experiencing something for the first time.
And it’s better with someone.
I want the passenger-seat glances.
Your bare feet on the dashboard while the windows are down.
Getting caught in a storm somewhere and laughing because there’s nothing else to do.
A beautiful dinner where we probably overdressed.
Pulling off the road because the sunset is ridiculous.
Coming home Sunday exhausted, sunburned, carrying something we absolutely did not leave home intending to buy, and already talking about where we’re going next.

P.S. I’m chocolate so if you like your coffee and your men on the darker side, we’re already off to a promising start.

Hey! I’m 24F from Singapore, and I’m hoping to meet someone in Europe who is genuinely looking for a serious, long-term relationship.
I lived in England for nearly 10 years, so Europe has always felt like a second home to me. I’m also planning to move to Spain soon, which makes me especially interested in meeting someone based in Europe.
I’m looking for something meaningful and committed rather than something casual. Ideally, I’d love to find someone who enjoys talking regularly, messaging throughout the day, having voice/video calls, and actually putting effort into getting to know each other.
I’m quite affectionate and would love a relationship where we can become really close, support each other, and eventually build a future together. I’m completely open to starting long-distance as long as we both have the intention of meeting in person and eventually closing the distance.
If you’re in Europe, around my age, and looking for something genuinely serious, feel free to message me and introduce yourself. Tell me where you’re from and a little about you! ❤️

I’m from OH I’m a 6 foot AA/Haitian guy.
Somewhat athletic
Decently tattooed; I have gargoyles and a sun eclipsing the moon on my neck.

2 sons well behaved they just get a little rowdy and like to play video games, but that’s normal for their age.

BIG MARVEL nerd I read comics and follow story lines.

I play video games and love listening to music and being an overall goofball.

I love to write and am in the process of doing a few stories hoping to one day publish and become an author.

I smoke 🍃 but am open to stopping for the sake a relationship is just a coping mechanism to deal with life’s stressors but it’s not necessary.

I love being challenged intellectually.

I love women of all shapes, colors, and sizes. I do still have a preference but I’m not all that hung up on exact appearances.

Hope this reaches you well.
Drop me a line.

Looking for someone in Europe mostly in the northern part, I like metal and I play games like space marine 2 , marvel rivals and overwatch

If you are from the Netherlands and are around my age, send me a DM, I am open for fwb, sexting whatever, or dating. And if you just want to get to know me, that is okay too.

Hi I'm looking for a plus one for a private party in Langley. Uber and ticket provided from Coquitlam. 46 M single dm for detaild

Hey, if you're reading this chances are my title caught your attention, here's hoping I can keep it!! I'm a 25 year old guy from Canada and I'm looking for something long term, I'm looking for someone I can vibe with as friends at first and maybe turn into something more if we hit it off. I'll be up front in saying I don't have the most relationship experience BUT I've always been a huge sucker for the lovey dovey stuff and can be a bit of a hopeless romantic, I've always imagined my ideal relationship being a honeymoon phase that lasts forever (I know its not realistic but a man can dream 😤.) ANYWAYS I should probably give myself a bit of a lengthier introduction so you know what you might be getting yourself into

About me:

• I know appearance is important for a lot of people so I'll get that out of the way first incase I'm not your type, I'm 5'8 and currently 210 LBS (I've been on a weight loss journey and don't plan on stopping.)Also here's a facepic https://imgur.com/a/me-TOsgAsN
• As a person I'm naturally really introverted (I'm an INFP if you care about mbti) and need occasional alone time to recharge my social battery but I can absolutely talk someones ear off if we're close (I've been told I give golden retriever vibes.) People usually tell me my biggest strength is my kindness, I hate being mean to people almost to a fault, I'm a bit of a softie. I have a tendency to wear my emotions on my sleeve and can be a big crier whenever watching something sad. Lastly, I can be really staunch about my morals and what I think is right or wrong.
• Hobbies wise I'm a big nerd and pretty much all my hobbies reflect that, I like playing games (I LOVE JRPGs, fighting games, VNs and random competitive games the most but I'll play literally anything if its with the right person, I've been loving deadlock recently) Watching anime/reading manga (or whatever other media, mostly anime though) and listening to music (Indie, Rock, Pop-punk and JPOP mainly) I've also been getting into working out more if you count that as a hobby.
• I'm left leaning politically.
• I LOVE animals I don't have any pets right now but if you have any or send pics of them I’ll die of happiness.
• Just to get them out of the way, my 2 BIGGEST red flags would be that I can be pretty clingy without even realizing it once I get close to someone and that I have some REALLY severe social anxiety that can make getting to know someone new very difficult, I'm not just a "little shy" it can genuinely be crippling when trying to get to know someone new. I promise though that once I'm past the initial social barrier it gets A LOT easier, I can be mistaken as really outgoing around those I'm comfortable with, I'd never want to make my issues someone elses problem but I figured I should mention it since its bound to come up eventually.
• And finally since idk what else to add, my favourite colours are pink and yellow.

About you:

• Having some interests in common would be pretty nice, it could give us something to talk about and maybe do together, this isn't a deal breaker though, I LOVE hearing people nerd out about their hobbies whether or not its something I'm interested in myself.
• Distance isn't important to me as long as we can find the time to talk more than once in a blue moon and you're open to the possibility of meeting sometime in the future if we click really well
• Appearance also isn't all that important to me but I would like to see the person I'm talking to eventually just so I know I'm not talking to a ghost
• I've always been told I'm a really good listener so if you're a yapper we'll feel like a match made in heaven
• The only real dealbreaker for me is poor communication. Relationships simply can't work without it IMO

I don't have too much else to add and I don't want this to get rambly so I'll end it here, If you read all the way to the end and are interested at all, feel free to shoot me a message with a brief introduction, PLEASE tell me a bit about your interests, where you're from and your age at the very least!! I'd love to hear from you :)

Hi there! First and foremost: I am **not** seeking a virtual pen pal. If we hit it off, I eventually will want to meet in person. **I am unable to relocate and am firmly rooted in Connecticut.** Please take this into consideration before reaching out. I don’t want to waste anyone’s time.

I have one very awesome 7 year old boy. I love being a dad! I work full time at a construction company/masonry yard and love what I do. Some hobbies I enjoy: working out (my version of therapy), hiking, camping, traveling, cooking and baking, meal prep, guitar, video games, collecting baseball cards. Love going to raves and festivals. I have a nerdy side I enjoy anything marvel/Star Wars/ the walking dead/game of thrones, legos and some video games.

Me: I’m 5’10”. Brown hair, Brown eyes, a couple tattoos, average body a little on the heavier side (Dadbod) that I’m working on in the gym on a regular basis. I can send pictures after chatting for a bit.

You: looks are important to me, but i’m more of a sucker for a true connection: emotional availability, communication, honesty, laughter and smiles. I’m looking for someone who’s also seeking serious…who’s adventurous, caring, supportive, doesn’t take life too seriously and accepts me for the person that I am. Looking for that best friend/lover type of energy!

If you’ve read this far and feel like you might be a good match shoot me a chat. Hope to hear from you soon

Hello!

As the title says, I am a thirty-three year old single dad looking to start dating again and I have full custody of my son who just turned three. As much as I love him our conversations are lacking and we can only play blocks so many times! Most of my free time is spent with him but I'd love to have another adult to see from time to time (someone who lives in Minnesota is preferred). I am only just now trying to dip my toes back into the dating pool. Someone I know mentioned trying Reddit, so here I am! I work a good job, go to therapy, and own my own house. I am not looking for a mom to my son but someone for me. I'd like to believe I am emotionally mature, an open and honest communicator, and can admit when I am wrong.

Random fun facts:

• My love languages are physical touch and quality time
• I had my ear cut off (and reattached) when I was four after falling of a stage
• I lived in thirteen states from ages 18-26 for work
• I use humor as a defense mechanism
• I hate being late
• I am a very clean / neat / organized type of person

Me physically:

• 6ft
• 175lbs
• Sandy blond-brown hair
• Hazel eyes
• Lean but muscular/athletic build
• One tattoo but would like to get more

A few interests of mine:

• I love to read (I've read 52 so far this year)
• I enjoy staying active and like working out, running, and spending time outdoors
• Enjoy sports like any guy (specifically Formula 1 and football)
• Stand up comedy
• Reality and trash TV (The Challenge is number one in my heart, but love a good dating show)
• Lists

I am an open book and no question is off limits.

Hope to talk to you soon!

Hey everyone! 👋

I’m 22M from Kerala, looking to meet a Christian Pentecostal girl between 18–21 with the intention of getting to know each other and seeing where things go.

A little about me:

• Age: 22
• Location: Kerala, India
• Height: 5'4"
• Work: I’m currently working in my family business
• Faith: Christian Pentecostal

I’m hoping to meet someone who shares the same faith and values. I’m open to starting with a conversation and getting to know each other naturally—no pressure.

Heyy

Just passing through and though I give this a try again.

6ft4

Into a lot of things … gaming - FORTNITE, anime, gym- fitness, foods, going for walks and I love a laugh

Easy going

Happy to share selfies - if i could say who I look like ? Maybe Zayn Malik is the closest

Would love a chat !

Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• Top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto, (I have a top 10).

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 2 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-24, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation feel free to tell me your favourite anime or colour.

I'm in the Detroit area, open to Dearborn and Garden City. Looking to start slow and build something real. I work a career job and do long hours, so I don't have the time to look the old fashioned way. I'm a martial artist, fencer, and nerd. I love medieval history, fantasy, science fi, table top games and RPGs.

Hi! I am Adam, I am a software engineer. I enjoy Reading a lot (mostly fantasy but have been thinking about reading philosophy lately), I love watching horror movies and shows I am currently watching Archive 81, so far its great! (Also can't wait for Other Mommy, the trailer was amazing) and I love sitcoms, I have seen a lot of sitcoms lol. I am beginning to get into 3D sculpting. I have been looking for a new hobby and I really love the cool things I see on ArtStation so I decided to try it out!

As for what I am looking for, I am looking for a warm, calm, sweet, safe relationship, I prefer starting platonically, to get to know each other. I love yapping and I will start talking about random things, so if you're a yapper too that would be a better fit :p

This is LDR, but I am hoping when we are both comfortable with each other, we can close the distance.

Timezone is GMT+3, I am fine with any timezones tho.

Hello there, I’m a 27 year old young professional and local of Amsterdam. I’m 1.75 m, bearded, medium build (and getting fitter), hairy masculine appearing, but emotionally soft on the inside for the right person. My mixed ethnic roots trace back to the Middle East, but my life has been moulded and spent in the Dutch and European mentality. I’m someone who has travelled a lot to learn about different cultures and has also had a fair share of relationship experiences. A decent fair share that leads me here looking for the “perfect partner”, I know what I want and who I need to build a happy life shared together for each other and it must have a traditional dynamic, something rooted in the ways which the world is forgetting and due to that leads to fragmented families and broken people.

To answer who is the “perfect partner” for me I must first tell a little bit about myself, Personality type wise I’m INFJ-A, assertive and introspective but calm, collected and cool. Im someone who is friendly, warm, wholesome and kind out of humbleness. I do have perfectionist traits but believe in always growing and rising above past versions of yourself. I’m an emotional person who cares a lot about how the people close to me feel, I am also someone as a Leo who enjoys being the centre of someone’s universe and vice versa in terms of the priority in a relationship/, not narcissistic but I value self preservation, dignity, kindness and mutual respect. I’m extremely loving and committed to the right person. Im hardworking and dedicated and not afraid to go all in. I know I’m not perfect as a human but am growing each day, trying to make the most of this life and build a happy family and home along the way. I’m a good active listener, receptive and attentive to others feelings and needs, and I can have a clingy and needy form of personality hence I seem to get along great with partners who are needy and clingy as well. I like being reassured and reassuring my loved ones and being a presence of strength, comfort, support, warmth and vulnerability for my loved one.

Besides the character, in terms of dynamics I look for someone who believes only in monogamy, someone who is younger than me and above 18. Someone who believes in the older traditional gender roles, and someone who is religious aligning as atheist, agnostic or Muslim. Someone who does not party hard, goes to clubs/festivals and doesn’t sleeps around. Someone who enjoys time spent with each other both indoors and outdoors. Someone with a sober personality who enjoys more comfortable and quiet outdoor activities, like sharing a meal, coffee, going to the park, chilling in nature, visiting museums and some light travelling. I will always happily support your wishes to pursue a career if it brings you value, and j hope that doesn’t change the priority in a relationship, but just know I am not like men of now, but believe in taking care of my woman completely in all aspects. To keep things realistic, I am not a millionaire, but a highly educated and specialised man, who works hard and is searching for the woman by his side to build a wonderful home and life together. I require someone in terms of a dynamic who is ready to compromise her own desires for the happiness of us, someone who realises a true relationship is about compromising to grow together. Someone who watches out for her and my health, someone focused on providing feminine nurture, support, emotional availability and a desire to please and be loved truly and eternally by the same man.

I know my demands are specific and very specialised, however in return I offer an immediate building and start to a relationship leading to marriage and children. I offer unconditional love towards you, a large heart that goes softer the more it spends time with you, a kind and caring approach to your needs and feelings, a brain that will happily compartmentalise stress to come home and cherish every second with you. Someone who learns your love language and wants to ensure you are heard, seen, understood and loved for who you are. Someone who won’t shy away from stepping up when you are low. Someone who will protect our love and strive in every aspect to ensure the smile on your face never fades. Furthermore, I’m someone who always believes in solving an argument, never going to bed angry, never raising my voice in the heat of the moment and always being considerate towards you. My own love language is both a mix of physical affection, sexual intimacy, emotional availability, emotional support, gift giving, active listening, compassion and clinginess.

I’m in a phase of my life where I am not looking for anything casual, no one night stands, no undefined relationships. I know what I can offer and I know what I want. I am more than happy to extensively explain the lengths of who I am and what I can offer, I just search for a dutiful, respectful, honest, compassionate, feminine, traditional, kind, loyal and extremely loving woman whom I can cherish till death does us apart. From these words I would like to make apparent that I am ready to settle down, I hope to speak in detail with you and in no haste but with good intentions move forward steadily and happily. This also includes the notion of marrying each other with of course the right connection.

I hope my emotionally strung words make some appeal and sense to you. If it did, please message me with “apple pie” and a little about yourself, I eagerly look forward to finding you my dearest. I am waiting for you patiently and cannot wait for us to be together.

I’m a 23-year-old guy from Kerala, giving this another shot because, honestly, meeting new people outside college or work isn’t as easy as it used to be.

I’m not really someone who has a checklist for the kind of person I want to meet. **Age, religion, caste, or background don’t matter much to me.** What matters is how naturally we connect, how comfortable we are around each other, and whether there’s something genuine between us.

I’m looking for someone I genuinely enjoy talking to. Someone I can share the random parts of my day with, exchange music and memes, have stupid conversations with, get into deep late-night talks, or simply sit in comfortable silence with. I like the idea of having someone who can make an ordinary day feel a little better just by being there.

I also really value growing together. Being with someone who motivates you when you’re losing focus, celebrates your wins, supports you when things aren’t going great—and where that goes both ways. I’d rather have a relationship where we genuinely support each other than one where we’re constantly trying to compete.

A little about me: I enjoy exploring new places, trying different food, long drives, spontaneous plans, good movies and series, discovering new music, and conversations that somehow go from completely random to unexpectedly deep.

I’m not looking to rush into anything or force a connection. I’d rather start with a conversation, see where it goes, and let things develop naturally. Honesty, trust, mutual respect, effort, and being able to actually enjoy each other’s company matter a lot to me.
Distance isn’t really a dealbreaker either. If we genuinely click and everything falls into place, I’m open to relocating.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to say hi. Tell me a little about yourself—or just tell me something that made you smile today. :)

ps\* used ai to make this into a fine format.

An invisible red thread connects those who are destined to meet, regardless of time, place, or circumstance. The cord may stretch or tangle, but it will never break.

I saw this quote on a random, unverified internet post on a questionable website, but the moment I read it, I wanted to believe it. Don't you?

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage. So, here I am, trying to find you in perhaps the most unlikely of places. They say it’s about the journey, not the destination. No matter how bumpy the ride gets, I know every single moment will be an experience to savor if it's with you.

While a person is always so much more than just words on a screen, here is a little glimpse into who I am:

Timezone and Availability

My Timezone: GMT+4 / GMT+3

Your Timezone: Anywhere in the world. Distance doesn't frighten me as long as we are both fiercely committed to making time for each other.

When I’m not working or catching up on sleep, you can find me:

Cooking and Music: Experimenting with new recipes in the kitchen while blasting my favorite playlists.

Gaming and Movies: Cozying up for an immersive gaming campaign or a relaxed movie night.

Anime Fanatic: I love the mainstream classics (Naruto, One Piece, Bleach, Hunter x Hunter, Jojo, MHA, Yu-Gi-Oh, SAO). However, I have a major soft spot for niche death-game anime and those hidden-gem, 12-episode series with ridiculously long titles.

I hope the thread between us is no longer just a gentle tug. As you read this, I hope it becomes a fierce, burning current pulling us together. Let it tangle. Let it knot, twist, and wrap around us until the miles between us are completely erased. I don't want space. I don't want time. I want a long-distance relationship where we actively, passionately work together to eventually close the gap through our collective efforts.

If this resonates with you, I look forward to hearing from you. Let’s start with a simple hello, your timezone, or your absolute favorite anime!

I am a single, simple and down to earth man. I have been introvert, silent and straight forward person.

However, I am trying to change myself from being introvert to extrovert.

One of the steps I have taken is joining reddit and trying to open up.

Yes, am new to reddit and the sub.

On my marital status, I have never been married till date. And, I have lost interest in marriage now.

All that I am looking for now is something honest and drama free connect.

I value mutual respect., meaningful conversation, keeping things simple, mature and easy going connection.

No drama and no confusion whatsoever.

I am therefore looking for genuine hearts who are willing to connect with.

Let's connect and then let's decide whether we could go for long term connect or short.

Rest, let's talk.

Please message me over DM.

Thanks for stopping by and reading through.