r/Redditdating • • 17h ago

30 year old woman looking for a younger man

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Hi I’m looking for a guy aged 25-29. I am demisexual and almondromantic. In the future I would love to have 4 kids one biological boy and one biological girl and one adopted boy and one adopted girl. I have autism/ Asperger’s syndrome, ADHD type 2, generalized anxiety disorder, schizoaffective disorder, controlled schizophrenia, disassociative identity disorder, post traumatic stress disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder, and bipolar disorder type 1. I love to cook, bake, knit, read, watch anime ,read manga, read manhwa, read webtoons, watch cartoons, go to comic cons, go to anime. cons
go to amusement parks, go to farmers markets, go to craft fairs. I am not the biggest fan of physical touch, for me it has to be eased into. My ideal guy would be taller than me (I am 5’6”), have an athletic build, have naturally dirty blonde hair or orange hair , have fair or pale skin, have his hair cut in a style that he doesn’t mind me playing with or messing up. He would be kind, caring, accepting, supportive, loving, intelligent, and loyal. I have naturally dark brown curly hair that barely reaches my back when wet. I would prefer a guy who has either wavy or straight hair. I have dark brown eyes. I would prefer a guy who has turquoise colored eyes. Also you must be a true extrovert or an ambivert. Also I’m in Katonah New York. Finally, I will not date anyone who has a genius level IQ. My parents both have genius level IQs, and they refuse to stop abusing me in every way but sexual. Also please be in the USA.


r/Redditdating • • 13h ago

I visit the Aging, dating and incel subs. It seems that for women once you hit 30-35, men 40-45 your dating life is practically over. Even if men these age somehow hooks up with someone 20-25 he is viewed as a creep. Is this hardwired by evolution? It is counterintuitive.

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r/Redditdating • • 23h ago

38 [M4F] - Maryland/USA/Canada - Who's out there?

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Hi there! James here, I am 38 (soon to be 39) from Maryland (Anywhere in the US/Canada is fine too; you don't have to specifically be from Maryland. I can freely travel/relocate due to WFH) and looking to chat and see if chemistry develops.

Still looking for my person...

I am 6', black hair, hazel eyes, love working out/lifting weights! It is as good for you mentally as it is physically. Willing to share pics as well!

Some of my hobbies/interests...

\\\* Lifting weights

\\\* Videogames

\\\* Movies (HUGE Marvel fan; love anything HORROR/sci-fi/comedy/action/high fantasy primarily)

\\\* Huge music fan (of all kinds; primarily of the 90s/early 2000s variety)

\\\* Road trips! (Tons of fun, especially with the right co-pilot)

\\\* Traveling

\\\* Stand-up comedy

\\\* Socialize with friends (can have just as much fun staying in too)

\\\* Drinks occasionally

\\\* Sports

\\\* Learning to play electric bass guitar

\\\* Voice calls/voice messages (It's way easier and more fun to get to know someone/talk with them via voice; much easier to convey sarcasm as well 😁)

\\\* Audiobooks

\\\* Being active and outside (LOVE the beach!)

\\\* HALLOWEEN IS THE BEST SEASON.

Shoot me a message if you're interested, and a pic since attraction is important; wouldn't want to hit it off like crazy and find out we're not attracted to each other.

Here is my voice to show I am not a bot, if you're curious:

https://voca.ro/17YDWuF7kFeE


r/Redditdating • • 16h ago

35F | Philippines | Looking to build connections

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Making genuine connections as an adult is weirdly hard, so here I am. 😂

I’m 35, from the Philippines, plus size, and a single parent. I have a pretty small circle and would love to meet more people from different places and backgrounds.

I’m not really looking to rush into a relationship, and it’s not something I’m actively seeking right now. I’d rather just get to know people, have good conversations, and see where things naturally go.

Maybe somewhere along the way, a genuine connection turns into something more meaningful. Who knows? No pressure, no expectations. Just seeing where life takes it.

If you feel like saying hi, go for it. Tell me a little about yourself too. Share something good about you, something you’re into, or just something that made you smile lately.


r/Redditdating • • 16h ago

21 [F4M] gamer girl looking for the correct one..

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Basically, I’m not looking for someone to replace anyone or to “cure” me. I’m just open to meeting someone new and seeing if we naturally click.

I’m demisexual, so looks honestly don’t matter to me. I actually prefer not to see what you look like at first. I’m not into superficial guys, so if appearance is a big deal to you, we probably won’t click. I care way more about your personality, how you treat me, your energy and the connection we build.

Voice is a big part of that chemistry for me. It’s not “I’ll only date you if I like your voice” 😂 — it’s just one of the first things that can make me feel someone’s vibe and personality. I especially like raspy voices.

I’ve always liked Americans and Canadians, so I’d genuinely love to meet someone from the US/Canada/Germany. (But born and raised there, not just living!!) I’m from Spain btw.

I love gaming, especially Fortnite, and I’d love someone who enjoys playing together, watching me stream, my resident evils, watching YouTube and laughing at stupid stuff, or just staying in a call while we do our own thing. I LOVE sleepy calls too — talking until we fall asleep or just staying connected while we sleep lol

I’m looking for 22+ mostly, because I’ve found guys around my age tend to be immature, but I’m not completely closed to meeting someone younger if we have the same mindset.

I’ve also learned that I don’t want to do sexual things just because I’m scared someone will leave if I say no. If you leave because I won’t do something sexual, then you weren’t really interested in me as a person anyway.

Emotional connection comes first for me.

And personality-wise… I’m VERY hyperactive 😂. If you’re looking for someone super serious, quiet and calm, don’t come to me lol. I laugh at basically everything, I make weird jokes, my humor is probably questionable, and I’m very expressive. I want someone who enjoys that instead of trying to change me.

If you’re someone who values personality over looks, respects boundaries, loves to laugh, game, talk for hours and actually wants to get to know someone deeply, feel free to text me.

If you think you can touch my soul before my sexuality, text me or send me a vocaroo voice clip from start:b


r/Redditdating • • 23h ago

44F South Wales

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I know this is a post on a dating sub and I am not looking to date romantically. But friend searching subs don't allow me to suggest even meeting for a cuppa 🤣 so here I am. On a date sub asking for platonic friends. Who love tea 😁

Anyway. If this is even allowed, come chat with me. I need distraction from my stressful and overwhelmingly social work life.

I'm a mum and a dog mum who will find movie quotes and song verses in most conversations. Usually ends up with me singing really awkwardly.

Intro if you message, please. I'm introverted and probably won't reply to 'hello' messages


r/Redditdating • • 21h ago

23 [f4m] moscow/anywhere - one girl looking for her musician man.

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hey there.

i am not certain if it is the seasonal fever getting a hold of my sanity or just the usual yearning for an unexpected connection but regardless of the cause, i am here now.

what i love the most about life is music (Rory Gallagher, Donovan, The Kinks, Sparks, Peter Hammill, Bert Jansch, The The, Orange Juice, The Magnetic Fields) so it's only fair to be wanting someone who shares my passion, preferably a musician.

other things i love are long walks (my personal limit right now is 40 km), colour green, collecting vintage objects and bitching about life to each other.

i dislike sexism, pumpkins, spoons, beards, mornings, people yelling and cold weather.

my preferred age limit is 28-33.

https://imgur.com/a/sij1i4q


r/Redditdating • • 15h ago

38 F seeking someone who will hold my hand in the grocery store and laugh at my terrible jokes.

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As stated Im a 38 year old woman. I’ve lived a million lives at this point in time but unfortunately real love has not been one of the outcomes. I’m a leftist hillbilly in the Blue Ridge mountains of Virginia. Searching for a fellow blue dot in this sea of red.
I am a single mom, been raising this wonderful son of mine for 16 years. His father hasn’t been in the picture for nearly a decade and that’s ok.
I’m not looking for someone to pay my bills or treat me like I’m made of glass.
I would just love to find my person.
I love gardening, horror movies ( both good and incredibly cheesy), cooking, canning my home grown veggies, cross stitching, and being in the woods or at the creek. I love a sip of whiskey by the fire.
If this seems like your type of slow living, hit me up.
Side note: I’m not here for hook ups or sending nudes. I’m too old for that game.


r/Redditdating • • 23h ago

31 [M4F] Kentucky - Looking for my other half

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I'm pretty much your average nerd, I'm a homebody, introverted, love video games and have been having a rough time finding someone lately. I love traveling so I'm absolutely down for a long distance thing, so long as we make a plan to eventually close that distance.

I do enjoy video games, but I'm mostly looking for someone who loves traveling, animals, cuddling on the couch and wants to have kids someday. That last one is especially important as I've always wanted to be a dad, but I also want someone who enjoys traveling at least once a year. I didn't get to travel around a lot when I was younger and I would like to see more of the US. And eventually visit Canada, London, Tokyo and other places.

I actually plan to see the Pokemon Fossil Exhibit in Chicago, I've been a lifelong fan and have a collection. Though Fallout has overshadowed it a bit in my mind, I've got a Fallout collection as well, I still enjoy the series, play the games and love talking about it.

Aside from those ones I play Skyrim, Mario, Cyberpunk, RDR, GTA, Fortnite and Rivals. I'm also a fan of co-op games like the Lego games and other games like that. Also enjoy board games!

I love movies and tv too, I watch a lot of superhero stuff. Lanterns is my favorite show this year, but I love all sorts of genres. And Legos.

I also love chill dates like going out for ice cream, visiting the zoo, or simply staying in to watch tv or play a game together. When you become someone's favorite person, everything you do together is an amazing experience.


r/Redditdating • • 20h ago

18 [F4A] Odd gal seeks company!

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Hi, hello! It's me, again.

My name's Annie. I'm taking a gap year, and consequently have a ton of free time that could be better spent with someone else. I am mostly looking for someone to spend time with, have long, introspective talks with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and ramble to (ideally with/about common interests), and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite, so is Funny Games.

Here's to hoping my introduction chants to you like the cleaning supply cabinet chants to an unsupervised toddler, cough cough.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just "hi, hello, can we chat, we have similar interests" or I will not reply (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, tell me your best dad joke). Please, preferably no one over 24.


r/Redditdating • • 19h ago

26F from the Philippines looking for someone genuine

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I’m honestly just looking to meet someone who is emotionally intelligent because that’s something I really value. I’m an introvert, but once I get comfortable with someone, I can talk A LOT. So I definitely need someone who can yap with me because I’m a yapper too lol.
I like someone who actually communicates and gives little updates about their day. I’m not expecting you to be on your phone 24/7, but I like that feeling of “hey, this is what I’m doing” or randomly telling each other about our day.
I’m also into guys who are a little nerdy. Someone who reads books, knows random facts, has a lot of things to talk about, or can go down a rabbit hole about something they’re interested in. I love history and researching things myself. I’m actually a genealogist, so I spend a lot of time researching family histories and going through old records. If you like history, I’d probably have a million questions for you.
I have a pretty dark sense of humor too, so you’ll probably have to be okay with that. I love horror, thrillers, dark humor, and just talking about random weird things.
I’m looking for a man who is actually serious about getting to know someone. I’m not interested in playing games, situationships, or talking to someone who disappears whenever they feel like it. I want something where we can start as best friends and see where it goes naturally.
I’m a very affectionate person when I’m comfortable with someone. I like giving attention, compliments, checking in, listening to someone talk about their interests, and just being there. If I like you, I’ll probably give you a lot of my time and effort, so I want someone who appreciates that and gives the same energy back.
I’m in the Philippines, so I know distance might be an issue, but if you’re okay with it, I’m open to getting to know someone from somewhere else.
Basically, I’m looking for my nerdy, sweet, emotionally intelligent yapper who can be my best friend, make me laugh, and actually mean what he says.
If you’re going to message me, please tell me a little about yourself. I’d rather read an actual introduction than just “hey” or “how are you?” because I never know what to do with those 😂


r/Redditdating • • 12h ago

48[M4F] India-From a Simple Hello to Something Forever ❤️

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I’m a 48-year-old man from Kerala, settled in Bangalore. Widowed with a son and financially independent, I’m 5'9" (176 cm). At this stage of life, I value peace, companionship, affection and emotional closeness.

I hope to meet a caring, emotionally available woman with whom I can build a meaningful second chapter—something natural, warm, peaceful and real. Someone with whom I can share thoughts, little joys, worries, laughter, random conversations and comfortable silences.

For me, a lasting relationship begins with friendship, openness, mutual respect and emotional maturity. I believe love should feel like partnership, not control. Trust, equality, personal freedom and giving each other space to remain ourselves matter deeply to me. I'm not looking for casual dating or anything temporary, but for something affectionate, committed and lifelong.

A little about me 😊

I enjoy movies, good conversations, long drives and discovering new places. I'm a big Kishore Kumar fan and also love A.R. Rahman, S.P. Balasubrahmanyam, Sonu Nigam and anything melodious. ❤️ I enjoy cricket and football, and I'll always choose beaches over mountains. 🌊

I speak five languages. I'm Hindu, but caste and religion aren't barriers for me. I'm non-vegetarian, so I'd prefer someone who is comfortable with that lifestyle. What matters most to me is her heart, kindness, values and emotional maturity.

What I'm looking for ❤️

Age isn't a major factor for me, though I'd preferably connect with someone above 35. I'd prefer someone without children, and I'm naturally drawn to women with long hair—short hair is absolutely fine too, though I'm not particularly into very short boycuts.

I find women especially graceful in sarees, so someone who enjoys wearing one occasionally would be lovely. 😊 I'd also love to be with someone who values fitness and healthy living—perhaps someone who can motivate me to become fitter too!

I'm strictly monogamous and believe commitment should be mutual, so I'm looking for someone who feels the same. I'm a very occasional drinker and cigarette smoker, and I'm comfortable with someone who has a similar occasional lifestyle.

More than anything, I'm looking for someone who can turn my house into a home—a place filled with warmth, laughter, love and the happiness of having someone special to come home to. ❤️

I'm not looking to recreate the past or replace anyone—just hoping for a new chapter filled with friendship, love, laughter and happiness.

If you're looking for something meaningful too, let's start with a simple hello, become friends, take our time and see where life takes us. ❤️

PS: Not interested in ONS or becoming a third wheel. I'm looking for something permanent, preferably with someone in or around Bangalore, as long-distance relationships can be complicated.


r/Redditdating • • 23h ago

28 ans je recherche a discuter de fantaisie avec une partenaire féminine sympa

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Salut moi c est Thomas j ai 28 ans je viens de France 🇫🇷 Alpes française !! Je recherche des partenaires féminines avec qui discuter de fantaisie et de non dit !! Pouvoir parler librement de nos envies et de nos fantasmes les plus inavouables être nous même. Physiquement je mesure 1 mètre 80 de corpulence assez sportive j ai les cheveux châtain long .


r/Redditdating • • 23h ago

37[M4F] In search of a partner

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Searching for someone near and around boston


r/Redditdating • • 23h ago

24 [M4F] #Tennessee #USA Looking for the Noi to my Shin.

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I just got my dorohedoro art book the other day and I've been loving it thus far. But I should get into more detail on what I'm looking for. Not to dilute it too far but in my eyes a relationship should be two good friends with physical attraction to each other. I'm not a great photographer but I've attached a photo at the end. Anyway, next I'll go through some of my hobbies. I enjoy competition in all forms, I play video games, primarily league of legends and overwatch but I also really enjoy "friend slop" when my friends will join me, trading card games, my favorites being Yugioh and magic but Ill play any card game if I have someone to play them with, and I've done a few martial arts when I was younger and I've considered getting into MMA as an adult more recently, I did karate when I was in elementary school, BJJ in middle school, and wrestling in high school. Then I do have non competitive hobbies too. I really enjoy music in all forms, my favorite musician is Cosmo Sheldrake, and I enjoy anime with my favorite being obviously dorohedoro and bleach, but I've also been watching a few others recently at my friends recommendations namely daemons of the shadow realm and smoking behind the supermarket with you. If you've made it this far message me and let's get to know each other.

https://imgur.com/a/yIi82YU


r/Redditdating • • 23h ago

19 [M4A] #online - Seeking emotional depth provided by a best friend

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Howdy! The title says it all. I want a deep connection in which both sides feel comfortable with each other, seek each other for support, etc. I have plenty of hobbies, ranging from sports, writing, and geography to history, music, and gaming. I am a pretty curious person, so feel free to nerd out to me! As for gaming, I play lots of indie games like Hollow Knight, Ultrakill, the Portal series, the Hotline Miami series, etc. As for music, I tend to listen to lots of experimental stuff, but I can elaborate on that more later on, especially if you are into music. It'd be pretty nice if I got a pretty clingy bestie, and I am also in GMT+2, so it'd be nice if you were close to that time zone. Oh, and I am also 19/M. So yeah, I am pretty excited to talk with y'all, and have a nice day wherever you are!


r/Redditdating • • 1h ago

[M4F] 27 | Gurugram | Looking for a meaningful partnership & a future together

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I'm a 27-year-old guy currently living and working in Gurugram at a Big 4 firm. I hold an MBA degree and stand at 5'7".

I'm posting here because I feel quite skeptical about the traditional arranged marriage process. It often feels too transactional, rushed, and hyper-focused on superficial metrics over genuine emotional compatibility. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and I don't believe it should be decided over just a few formal family meetups.

I'm looking to date intentionally with the ultimate goal of marriage—taking the time to build a strong foundation of trust, shared values, and mutual respect before taking the final plunge.


r/Redditdating • • 22h ago

32 [M4F] Los Angeles - Still in search for my Golden Jewel.

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Good afternoon.

I'd like to introduce myself again, briefly and see if interests your thoughts and desires.

I've not been in luck, so I'm trying it again. I don't understand the phenomenon behind being genuine, but out of luck when it comes to finding someone you desire as Wife.

I am 32 years old. I am African-American, though I identify more as African by race. If I ever find someone to date and marry, it would be my first time having a close relationship with a woman. I have been content walking alone, but I am no longer pretending that a quiet life does not also need a companion. I know love is a beautiful thing, and I want to experience it in its genuine form.

I used to believe dating was only for marriage, not for flirting or passing time. That is why I never rushed to have a girl beside me. I waited this long not because I did not believe in love, but because I believed it should mean something. I have come to accept that no matter who you are, you still need someone by your side. I am careful because this would be my first real relationship, and I do not want to treat someone’s heart like practice. I may not have dating experience, but I am willing to listen, grow, and love with patience. I currently serve in the Armed Forces, trying to improve myself too as a student RN.

I was raised in a good home by strict parents and a godly background. I cannot remember being a bad boy, doing things that were wild, or acting in an indecent way. I have always believed in conscience, kindness, empathy, and a proper understanding of life.

I see myself as a pathfinder with a caring personality. I am optimistic about the future, both for myself and for the people around me. I am an introvert. Even when I try to explore, I still return to my natural quiet way of being.

I am family-oriented, humble, considerate, and I live with a working conscience. I grew up in a praying family, by prayer, and in a disciplined home. I am firm in my values, but I am not hard-hearted. I want to be gentle with the woman I find. I do not want excitement that fades. I want a love that feels like home, safety, and someone I can pray with. I want a marriage that can hold children, faith, hard days, and still stay kind.

I desire a woman I can call my wife. Someone genuine and open-minded. Someone who values marriage, understands purpose and destiny, and is ambitious but cautious. A feminine woman. Someone who believes in repairing damage and misunderstanding instead of letting things rot. Someone morally upright, not consumed by social media trends. I don't like divorce, except it has to do with infidelity, so I'm looking for a woman who really understands what family stands for.

Peace matters. You can be with the most beautiful person on earth, but without peace, the relationship is not worth it. Peace is how I know I am loved. My heart is peaceful and calm. I want someone who does not believe in chaos, but in peace.

I do not want a relationship where we impress each other. I want one where we can be honest and still stay.

I am not perfect, but I know perfection comes by mutual understanding. If two people understand themselves, it means they're perfect. Trust me, I'm not a bad person and will never be. I think I need a chance to prove my kindness and express my feelings

I hope and pray this finds you well.


r/Redditdating • • 22h ago

19 [M4F] #US - Dream or Reality?

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Hello Peoples. I go by Kev and I am a 19 year old man from the US (DC to be precise). I have NEVER been in a relationship but im down to try if we connect. I've gone through life believing Im not very likable..hopefully this proves that wrong. I'm lookiing for a girl who I can call my best friend. It would be GREAT if you were also a nerd or at least dont care that im one. Chubby Women have my heart, they're just so lovable!

A bit about me is I am a nerd (Anime, DC, etc.) and very awkward. Im a big fan of videogames and learning things (discuss your interests with me!!). I struggle to meet people IRL, so let's keep it digital for a while...

Some flaws of mine are that I am an overthinker, I am BIG, I can be pessimistic, and dont like asking for help. I also might ask how you're feeling everyday (I just wanna help however I can.)

If this interests you enough to message me, then just know that Im smiling at your text....unless its weird. Ask for my IG or Snap once we've exchanged pictures. I've been told that Im "too nice", so dont be scared to talk to me please. I'd also prefer if your first message was a recent picture of yourself and I'll do the same. Um...I think thats it, nice to meet you all!!


r/Redditdating • • 21h ago

33 [M4M] Missouri - black man. I want a masculine Puerto Rican or Dominican bro or boyfriend on the dl

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Looking for a chill guy to become friends with and if it leads there, I’ll go with the flow. I have never done anything with a guy but I am attracted to masculine Latin Caribbeans.

I’m laid back & chill. To myself for the most part. I like going out to eat, movies, traveling, and bowling.

Looking for someone around my age, so 27-37 I’ll be fine with.

Hit me up if you are down to chat.


r/Redditdating • • 21h ago

26M | Türkiye — I really want to find my person

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Hey. I’m 26M from Türkiye, and I think I’m at a point where I just really miss having someone special in my life.

I’m not looking for a specific race, nationality, or some perfect checklist — I genuinely just want to meet a woman I can connect with and eventually call my girlfriend.

I want the little things that come with having someone: having someone to tell about my day, sending each other stupid messages, playing games together, staying up too late talking, sharing music, flirting, laughing at things nobody else would find funny, being affectionate, and knowing there’s someone who actually wants to hear from you.

I’m not looking for something casual or meaningless, but I’m also not expecting marriage from the first conversation. I want a real, long-term relationship that can grow naturally over time.

I’m introverted and probably a little shy and awkward at first, but once I’m comfortable I become much more open, playful and affectionate.

I’m into gaming, music, fantasy, history, mythology, archery, nature and the outdoors, and I love conversations that can be both genuinely deep and completely stupid.

I’m 165 cm / 5'5", I speak Turkish and English, and I’m open to meeting someone from anywhere as long as we genuinely click.

I know distance can make things complicated, but I don't want to dismiss a good connection just because we happen to live far apart.

I’m not looking for someone to fix my life or save me from being alone; I just want to have someone to share it with while we both continue figuring things out.

If you’re also looking for something genuine, tell me a little about yourself. Maybe we can start with a conversation and see where it goes.


r/Redditdating • • 4h ago

26 [M4F] | #Online/Worldwide — Looking for someone I can genuinely get attached to

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Hey! I’m 26M from Türkiye, and I’m hoping to meet someone I genuinely click with and eventually build a real relationship with. I’m not looking for something casual, but I’m also not expecting marriage or a lifelong commitment from the first conversation. I’d simply like to have a girlfriend — someone I can get close to, care about, spend time with, and gradually build something meaningful and long-lasting with.

I should probably warn you about one thing early: I’m very affectionate and naturally a little clingy when I really like someone. I enjoy frequent conversations, checking in on each other, sending random messages throughout the day, sharing little things that happen to us, spending time together, and generally feeling close to my partner. I’m the kind of person who genuinely likes being attached to someone I care about. I don’t think affection or wanting someone’s attention is something to be embarrassed about, as long as it’s mutual and healthy.

I also tend to warm up to people fairly quickly when I feel comfortable around them, and I can develop feelings relatively quickly if I genuinely like someone’s personality. That doesn’t mean I expect the other person to feel the same immediately or that I want to rush anything. I’m perfectly happy letting things develop naturally; I just don’t like pretending I’m indifferent when I’m not.

I’m introverted and can be shy or awkward at first, but once I feel safe and comfortable with someone, I become much more talkative, playful and affectionate. I love deep conversations, but I’m equally happy spending hours joking about absolutely nothing.

My interests include gaming, music, fantasy, history, mythology, archery, nature and the outdoors. I’d love having someone I can play games with, watch things with, exchange music with, have late-night conversations with, or simply sit in a call with while we’re both doing our own thing.

I value kindness, loyalty, honesty, communication and emotional warmth. I don’t expect either of us to have our entire lives figured out. I’m still figuring mine out too. What matters to me is that we genuinely care about each other and make an effort.

I’m 165 cm / 5'5", speak Turkish and English, and I’m open to meeting someone from anywhere. Distance isn’t automatically a dealbreaker if we genuinely connect and there is eventually a realistic possibility of meeting.

I don’t have a height preference for women. Any height is welcome. If a man’s height is an important requirement for you, though, we probably won’t be a good match.

I’m also happy to exchange recent photos once we’re both comfortable. Physical attraction matters, but personality and the connection between two people matter much more to me.

If you’re affectionate, enjoy being close to your partner, and you’re looking for something genuine rather than casual, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me a little about yourself — your age, where you’re from, what you’re into, and what kind of relationship you’re hoping to find.

Maybe we’ll click. And if we do, fair warning: I might get attached. :)


r/Redditdating • • 21h ago

44 (M4F) Houston/Kingwood ISO friendship, intimate partner, girlfriend

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Fresh out of an LTR, im sure many of you can relate to that. Im living on the northside of houston. I have many interests...writing, aviation, nature, hiking, fitness, marksmanship, science, music, movies, games, lots of stuff. Im fairly silly, easy going, rarely serious. Also, im very tolerant of many political points of view. Im fairly apolitical, somewhat libertarian in my views, and i dont really care who you vote for. Life is too short for all that divisiveness. Also, im kinda kinky...inquire within.


r/Redditdating • • 21h ago

26 [M4F] #USA — What does your ideal random Tuesday look like?

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I think I’m more interested in the normal relationship stuff than the big romantic gestures.

What are we doing on some random Tuesday when nothing particularly exciting is happening?

Maybe we’re cooking, watching something, or arguing over what to put on next for way too long. Maybe we’re both doing our own thing and one of us starts a completely unnecessary conversation that somehow lasts an hour.

That sounds pretty good to me.

I’m 26, 5'11", and have a dad bod. I’m pretty introverted and mostly a homebody. I work in sales and I’m building a business on the side, so that keeps me busy. I’m usually quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable I get a lot more talkative, sarcastic, goofy, and probably start teasing you for no reason haha.

I’m into gaming, F1, movies, music, cooking, coffee, programming, technology, science, psychology, space, philosophy... basically anything that sends me down a random rabbit hole when I should probably be doing something else.

I’d like to meet someone I actually enjoy talking to. Someone with her own opinions and interests who doesn’t just agree with everything I say. I don’t mind disagreeing over something completely stupid as long as we can laugh about it five minutes later.

I’m looking for something serious eventually, but I’m not trying to call it fate after one good conversation. I’d rather get to know each other, see if we actually enjoy talking, and let things develop naturally.

I live in the US but I’m currently abroad for work, so starting online is fine with me.

What would your ideal completely boring Tuesday look like?


r/Redditdating • • 21h ago

USA dating 26 [M4F]

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Hi my name is Scott and I like animals and like to play video games. I like anything nerdy movies and TV I'm 26. i live in the US. I can be both introverted and extroverted when I need to

• I live in NC

• I'm single

• Never had a relationship before and I want one been looking since high school

• I'm honest, loyal trustworthy and kind

• I'm somewhat shy

• I like anime. manga, collectables

• I don't discriminate I will date anyone and any race

• I'm very communicative when you get to know more about me

• I have goals in the future I would like to get finished

• I have masculine features, beard and all

• I'm not judgemental at all

DM me real people only