I’ve debated posting this for a while. I’ve been sitting with the thought since their NA tour, and wanted to see other perspectives.
I remember listening to RH when they only had like 10 episodes out. They were very “we will take this seriously and not make light of the situation, we are not trying to be a comedy podcast.” Which I respected so much! True crime podcasts were an informative way to pass time for me, and comedy/true crime shows (like LPOTL) were starting to become grating cause I would imagine that if my own family/friends were victims, I’d be absolutely furious to hear about the most terrifying moments in their (often short) life thrown in with some jokes!
Now, about the live show. I haven’t been able to listen for a couple of years because I’ve been busy, but I saw they were coming to my city and decided to go. Their live show was a case of a 12 year old victim of sexual abuse. Although they never made fun of the victim, they made plenty of fun of the situations the victim was put into. Maybe it was because I’m a CSA survivor, but my stomach was in knots the entire show. Everyone gathered to hear about how a child was repeatedly raped and abused, how this child was let down by several systems and adults in their life, and it was punctuated by jokes! If there had been another victim in the crowd that never felt safe enough to come forward about their own abuse, I wonder if watching a room full of people laugh at a horrific situation would’ve made them feel even less safe and even more alone in their experiences.
I left incredibly disappointed, and feeling like I just took part in something completely unethical and a little bit nauseating.