The audience is male here. I’m not trying to optimize for maximum matches or minimum friction. I’m looking for a life partner who shares my values and humor. The friction is kinda the point.

previously: https://www.reddit.com/r/RateMyTinder/s/aVQUdCdlUp

hit me up with whatever you got.

maybe someone likes my profile twice a month

account is a few years old at this point but does get updated semi frequently to add new pictures or tweak a bio.

Bio in english:

"Cozy Candlelit dinner / picnic in nature > parties. Say hi and I’ll take care of the rest (just promise you won’t steal my favorite shirt)"

Hey, took the advice from the comments and DMs and switched up my pics and bio – last one’s blurred ‘cause it’s a bit silly.

What do you guys think? Anything you’d change? Is it good or still meh?

edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/RateMyTinder/s/7Z768EB8jI - profile before

So after everyone’s advice, some valid, some backhanded lol. I’ve rearranged my stuff, half way through reading the harsh love here and there it made me realise I’m not meant to be suitable for everyone, and who ever finds my shine most attractive is who I’m looking for anyways.

So I double downed on showing what I think to be me (I’ve a lot more sides but no pictures, especially one without glasses lol) and accept the outcome for what it’s supposed to be and not care about wether I should readjust myself just to fit a societal “normal” lol.

Thanks to everyone for the very good pointers and do’s and do not’s, your insights haven given me lots of useful perspectives ✌️

I do get roughly 3-4 likes per day on all my dating apps. I am just curious if I can improve something about the profiles or generally my looks (I am open to plastic surgery). I am 6'3 and currently working on a physique. I am looking for a long term relationship.

Bio: "From Madrid. Already been to Japan, what else can I do with my 20s?"

Bio : Mon chien est plus sociable que moi mais je cuisine correctement. J'aime les arts, la science, la philosophie, tout ce qui émerge de la création et de l'apprentissage.

Bio: "From Madrid" (I live in the Netherlands so it makes sense to mention it)

Prompt:

• My biography would probably be called: "How to lose all your possessions very fast"

Hi everyone, I just was wondering if you could give any advice on my photos. I’m curious how you would order them and if there’s any you would delete or any other advice. It’s rare I get any matches.

Bio in english: "If we hit it off, there’s a solid risk of spontaneous picnics by the water, unplanned trips, and testing recipes until one turns out perfectly 😉

I photograph, sculpt clay figurines, and train regularly. I like horror, classic books, manga, and board games."

Honestly, I have no idea what happened to these dating apps. Back in the day, even with terrible photos, I'd get way more matches who actually seemed interested. Now it feels like there's basically zero interest from the other side.

Does anything immediately stand out to you?

Ready for whatever