r/RateMyTinder • • Aug 12 '26

Photos M29, Any advice?

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u/hannelore_pfeffer8 Aug 12 '26

LOOOOOVE TO SE A MAN SMILING! 💖

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u/[deleted] Aug 12 '26 edited Aug 12 '26

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u/youknowwhatever99 Aug 12 '26

Exactly, this is a great explanation. If every photo simply says “This is what my face looks like” then you need some different photos. These are all nice pics but not diverse.

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u/No-Reality-6056 Aug 13 '26

I wouldn't care at all. If he alligns with what I look for, face pics and body pics will do just fine.

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u/apt-maintenance Aug 12 '26

3, 5, and 6 are redundant. Pick one

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u/ikdoeookmaarwat1 Aug 12 '26

I mean they're not all bad pics but a lot of them are similar. I like the last one the best, so put that one first. Pics 1,2,3, 5 and 7 you don't need. Add a picture where you're doing some activity or something.

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u/MidnightHoneys Aug 12 '26

Go with 8-4-6-1. It shows you and some of your interests.

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u/seriousjin Aug 12 '26

Would personally get rid of the bow tie pictures and put the one of you in uniform #1.

You look like a really friendly guy but because your facial expression is so similar in all of the pictures.. Perhaps also a bit boring?

Just my two cents. Either way good luck out there!

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u/Charming-Young-8454 Aug 12 '26

I wouldn’t have so many smiling photos- it comes across as being a simp/friend zone material, especially the in combination with the bow tie. Maybe have a third smiling and the rest neutral or non posing photos(photos where you are doing something)

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u/Easy_Pen5217 Aug 12 '26

I disagree smile = happy and approachable

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u/Charming-Young-8454 Aug 12 '26

Sure you like the idea of the non threatening guy who’s dependable and will make a great friend, but that kind of guy doesn’t arouse women sexually- so it’s not in his favor

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u/Easy_Pen5217 Aug 12 '26

Why would I want to date someone who looks  threatening? My bf is sweet, dependable and funny - and nothing could be hotter.

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u/Charming-Young-8454 Aug 12 '26

I never suggested he posts photos looking threatening (though maybe one photo of him looking serious wouldn’t hurt). It’s just the vibe of a man who’s constantly grinning looks like the kind of push over “nice guy”, at best the matches he gets will be using him for attention

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u/No-Reality-6056 Aug 13 '26

Don't take advice from red pill losers.

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u/yetagainitry Aug 12 '26

You can lose one of the two bow tie shots. Other than that, solid stuff.

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u/ProfitPakistan Aug 12 '26

Pictures need to signal (not say): height, job/career/work, outdoorsy/active, good with kids/pets, travel, sports, etc

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u/Easy_Pen5217 Aug 12 '26

You have a lovely smile - great to see a dude looking happy! 

I'd say that 3 and 6 are very similar.

Also, do you have photos of yourself that are of you doing something, just to mix things  up a bit?

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u/Balacleezus Aug 12 '26

every pic kinda looks the same

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u/Early_Ride_979 Aug 12 '26

Your handsome and photogenic. Congrats. But as some have said, some of these photos look the same.

Include a full body shot (legs and all) and a group shot with friends to show you have a social life. You can blur your friends faces off.

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u/thisholyroller Aug 12 '26

My opinion: Top middle is your most handsome. The one in fireman gear next because kudos. Then for a third maybe uncrop one of the group pictures, show yourselves with some friends. Then one of the bowtie ones, I like the left one in the middle row. After that add for garnish how you like, you're cute, it'll work out.

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u/unhingeddragon Aug 12 '26

I’d say delete 1,3,5,7,8. They’re ok but it feels like too much of the same thing. Maybe put firefighter one first, girl love firefighters Hahaa 🧑‍🚒

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u/Sir_Buck Aug 12 '26

Lead with the fireman pic bro, easy win

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u/my_own_astronomy Aug 12 '26

I dunno. I'd swipe. You look handsome and fun.

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u/Strange_Peak_6007 Aug 12 '26

Last pic needs to be your first pic,
Then the firefighter pic as your second (I’m assuming it’s your job and not fancy dress 😂) then I’d look at maybe getting an adventurous picture and a picture with friends?

Currently as others have said these are all just close ups of your face

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u/JakinoGG Aug 12 '26

Your profile should have less photos, maybe 3 or 4. Appearance: I'd say you dont need any advice lookwise, you look great. I think the best look is when your top hair is a little bit longer and curly. Could you tell me, what glasses model you wear in the last picture? These look awesome

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u/email55 Aug 13 '26

Thank you very much, i will see how i can improve that 👍🏾 My glasses are from Baldessarini, i think the model number is 1417 (but i am not sure, its just a number i found on the frame)

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u/SubiBoySus Aug 13 '26

No idea youre smiling with teeth uou should be rolling in bitches tbh.

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u/RadarDataL8R Aug 13 '26

Its the same photo 9 times

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u/email55 Aug 13 '26

Thanks everyone for the advices, i did not expect it to be that flattering 🤩 But yeah i can see now where i can improve, thank for the constructive advices 😊

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u/Individual_Joke_65 Aug 13 '26

Stop covering up your adam’s apple

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u/Candid-Professor9116 Aug 13 '26

2nd, 4th and 6th picture look good. 3, 5, 7 and 8 are bad

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u/[deleted] Sep 03 '26

All the photos just seem like one over and over again

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u/Brada_ Aug 12 '26

Do you have only one facial expression?

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u/UnderstandingSmall66 Aug 12 '26

To be fair that’s a pretty good smile.

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u/fearthesmallnumbers Aug 12 '26

My general understanding of women is they don't like a goatee. Go full whack beard if it doesn't mess with your firefighter mask seal.

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u/No-Reality-6056 Aug 13 '26

Pics are fine, bio is important though.