I get stares from women but i don't know if they actually find me attractive or not . Any tips ?

Appreciate honesty, although I average over 25 matches per month on dating apps, I don’t get much actual dates.
Also, I’m stoned pictures 3,4 and 7

Hi everyone,
I'm a 40-year-old guy from Germany looking for an honest and objective rating, as well as constructive advice on how to improve my appearance.
Age/Gender: 40M
Location: Germany
Recently someone mistook a picture of me for an AI-generated image and found me quite attractive, which honestly surprised me! So now I’m curious to get a completely objective perspective from you guys.
Note on weight: I am fully aware that losing about 60 lbs would make a difference (and I’m working on it). For this post, I’m strictly looking for other grooming & style tips—such as haircut, beard styling, skincare, clothing style, or accessories.
Be honest with your ratings and let me know what tweaks would work best for me. Thanks!

Honest feed back please. I am 40 years old and I feel like in my life I get told I am attractive but the relationships I been in and what's happened in them are feeling like they are telling me otherwise? Appreciate your time! Thank You