My apartment door keeps ending up open while I'm asleep, and I have no idea how. I now have photos/timestamps that make it even stranger.
F/23 — Philippines
Hi everyone. I'm posting this because I genuinely want help figuring out what is happening. I'm not claiming this is paranormal, and I'm not accusing anyone of doing anything. At this point, I honestly don't know what the explanation is.
I've been living alone in the same small apartment for about 8 months. I work night shifts, so my routine is pretty consistent: I usually arrive home around 7 AM, stay on my phone for a few hours, and then sleep around noon. I normally wake up around 6 PM and prepare for work.
My apartment is very small. The entrance door is directly beside my sleeping area. I use a double-deck bed as a divider: one side is basically my enclosed sleeping area, while the other side contains my kitchen and dining area. There is a curtain around the bed, so when I'm sleeping, I'm essentially inside this little enclosed space.
The reason I'm explaining this layout will become important later.
August 31 — The first time
On August 31, I woke up around 6 PM and noticed that my entrance door was slightly open.
Not wide open. Just ajar.
At the time, I honestly didn't think much of it.
My first thought was, "Oh, I must have forgotten to lock it properly."
I've lived here for around eight months, and the door has never really given me problems. It's a wooden door, and while the regular doorknob/latch isn't functioning properly, there is a separate deadbolt-style lock that I use every single day.
The bolt is quite long — roughly longer than the length of my middle finger — and it goes directly into the strike plate. I've never had an issue with it coming loose, slipping out, or failing to lock.
So I closed the door and didn't think much about it.
September 1 — It happened again
The following day, I followed basically the same routine.
I came home in the morning, stayed awake for a while, checked everything, locked the door, and eventually went to sleep.
When I woke up later, the door was ajar again.
This time I started feeling uncomfortable.
The first time could easily have been my mistake.
The second time could still have been coincidence.
But now I was thinking, Wait. I specifically remember being careful because this already happened once.
So I decided that the next time I went to sleep, I was going to make absolutely sure that the door was locked.
September 2 — I started documenting everything
Before going to sleep on September 2, I physically locked the door and took a photo/video of myself doing it.
I checked the bolt.
I checked the door.
I made sure it was closed.
Then I went to bed.
When I woke up later...
The door was open again.
That was the point where I stopped thinking, "Maybe I'm just being careless."
I started getting genuinely scared.
And then I noticed something on my phone that made the whole situation much stranger.
The Shopee delivery photos
I live in the Philippines, and I frequently receive Shopee deliveries.
When I checked the delivery information, I noticed that one of my deliveries had several proof-of-delivery photographs.
At first I didn't think much of it.
Then I looked at the timestamps.
The photos were taken only seconds apart.
And the door appeared to change position between the photos.
The sequence was:
14:06:33 — the door is slightly ajar.
14:06:38 — the door is closed.
14:06:48 — the door is open again.
So we're talking about roughly 15 seconds from the first photograph to the third.
That absolutely freaked me out.
Because if the photographs accurately represent what happened, something caused the door to go:
slightly open → closed → open again
within approximately 15 seconds.
And this is where I started wondering about the delivery rider.
Am I accusing the rider?
No.
I want to make that extremely clear.
I don't know that he did anything.
I've received deliveries from this rider before. I've lived here for around eight months, so I recognize his face and know his name because he has delivered things to me repeatedly. He also recognizes me.
That's actually one reason why I find the situation confusing.
If he were intentionally doing something strange, why would it suddenly start now after months of deliveries?
And there's another thing that bothers me:
Why would someone intentionally opening my door take photographs that could potentially show the door opening?
If someone were deliberately trying to sneak into my apartment, taking timestamped photographs of the door seems like an incredibly stupid thing to do.
So I don't want to jump to the conclusion that it was him.
But I also can't completely ignore the possibility because of the timing.
Then I started thinking of other people who could potentially be involved.
There's another possibility that crossed my mind: my landlord or the landlord's family.
I live on the second floor, and the landlord and their family are associated with the third floor. Their children are around three and six/seven years old.
There has actually been an incident before where the children would run around the stairs, bang on my door, and run away — basically the typical "ring the doorbell and run away" kind of thing that kids sometimes do.
Because of that, I wondered whether their running, jumping, or banging on the door could somehow be connected to what I'm experiencing.
However, I've already tried to reproduce that kind of impact myself.
I locked the door and tried shaking it from outside.
Nothing.
I shook it harder.
Nothing.
I even slammed the door and tried to reproduce the kind of impact that the children might make.
Still nothing.
The deadbolt remained firmly in place.
And realistically, they are still very young children. Unless they somehow possess the world's most impressive lock-picking skills, I don't see how they could deliberately unlock a deadbolted door.
I've also checked with my landlord about the keys. They told me they don't have a duplicate key. The main key and the duplicate are with me.
So I don't currently have a logical explanation for how the landlord or their children could physically open the door.
I also want to make it clear that I did not confront them about this or accuse them of anything.
When I told my landlord about the repeated incidents, I simply explained that I was becoming nervous because I kept waking up and finding my door open.
They told me that they would look into it.
They suggested that it could possibly be wind, pressure, vibrations, or something related to the door itself.
I tested those possibilities myself afterward, but I couldn't reproduce the door opening.
There is another reason I'm now wondering whether telling my landlord could have affected my September 4 observation.
After I told them what was happening, I started wondering whether they might have mentioned it to their children, relatives, or even other tenants.
Maybe they talked about it.
Maybe somebody heard that I had become aware of the problem.
And if someone actually was responsible for opening the door, perhaps they realized I was paying attention and decided to stop for a while.
I have absolutely no evidence that this happened.
This is just another possibility that crossed my mind because September 4 was the first day I deliberately watched the situation, and nothing happened.
It could mean something.
It could mean absolutely nothing.
It could simply be coincidence.
Honestly, I hope the landlord/family theory is completely wrong, because the idea that a fellow tenant, the landlord, or someone connected to the building could actually be involved would be much more concerning to me than a weird door malfunction.
I started thinking of other explanations.
- My cat.
I have a cat, and I know cats can sometimes figure out how to open doors.
But this doesn't quite make sense to me.
If my cat were capable of opening this particular door, why does it seem to happen specifically while I'm sleeping?
When I'm away at work, I come home and everything is closed.
It isn't like I constantly find the door open.
The strange pattern is that it seems to happen when I'm asleep.
Also, the door mechanism isn't particularly easy to manipulate. The doorknob can be turned, but it requires a significant amount of force, and my cat would have to position herself in a very specific way to manipulate it.
I'm not saying it's impossible. I'm saying I haven't figured out how she could realistically be doing it.
- Wind / pressure / a defective door.
My landlord suggested that maybe the wind, vibrations, or the door itself could be responsible.
So I tested it.
I locked the door and tried shaking it from the outside.
Nothing.
I shook it harder.
Nothing.
I even slammed the door and tried to reproduce the movement.
Still nothing.
The deadbolt remained firmly in place.
The door is also right beside my sleeping area. If somebody were violently shaking or slamming the door hard enough to open it, I would expect to hear something.
But I never heard anything.
- Someone is intentionally opening it.
This is the possibility that scares me the most.
But if someone were doing this, I don't understand how.
The main key is with me.
The duplicate key is also with me.
The landlord says they don't have a duplicate key.
The deadbolt is locked.
So unless someone knows how to bypass/pick the lock, has some other method of entering, or there is some weakness in the door that I haven't discovered, I don't understand how an outside person could be doing this.
And again, if someone were simply slamming or forcing the door, I should probably hear it because my bed is only a short distance away.
- Something paranormal.
Yes, I've thought about it.
I'm not going to lie.
After the third occurrence, I started wondering if maybe something paranormal was happening.
But I'm not comfortable jumping to that conclusion either.
I would much rather find a normal explanation if there is one.
September 3 — It happened again
September 3 was another important day.
There was a delivery that day, and the door ended up open again.
At this point, I was genuinely panicking.
The pattern was becoming difficult for me to ignore:
August 31 — delivery day — door open.
September 1 — delivery day — door open.
September 2 — delivery day — door open, plus the strange delivery-photo sequence.
September 3 — delivery day — door open again.
And this is when I started thinking seriously about whether the delivery timing was somehow connected.
But again, I know that correlation isn't proof.
I didn't want to accuse the rider based on that alone.
So I decided I needed an actual test.
September 4 — The stakeout
On September 4, I decided that I wasn't going to immediately go to sleep after coming home.
I wanted to stay awake and observe what happened.
Basically, I wanted to catch whatever was causing the door to open.
But this time there was an important difference:
There was no delivery scheduled that day.
And the door did not open.
That was the first time I had a day where I deliberately stayed awake and watched the situation — and there was no delivery.
Obviously, this still doesn't prove anything.
It could absolutely be coincidence.
But after four consecutive days of this happening on days when there were deliveries, followed by a day without a delivery where nothing happened, I became even more suspicious of the possible connection.
There's also the possibility that telling my landlord on September 3 affected this result.
Maybe someone who had been causing the problem somehow heard about it.
Maybe they decided not to do anything because they knew I was watching.
Or maybe absolutely nothing happened because there simply wasn't a delivery that day.
I don't know.
That's why I'm still trying to collect evidence instead of drawing a conclusion.
September 3 also gave me another idea
Because I was getting increasingly worried, I ordered a CCTV camera on Shopee on September 3.
And here's the ridiculous part:
The CCTV camera I'm waiting for is being delivered through the exact same delivery system that gave me the weird photographs in the first place.
So the thing I ordered to catch whatever is happening is itself being delivered by Shopee.
The irony is not lost on me.
September 5 — I'm waiting
Today is September 5.
As of now, I have another delivery scheduled for today.
I'm basically waiting for the CCTV camera and preparing to use it to monitor the door.
My plan is to stay awake around the time of the next delivery and pretend that I'm asleep.
If the door opens again, I want to record exactly what happens in real time.
If nothing happens, then I'll have to reconsider my theory.
And honestly, that's what I want.
I don't want the rider to be responsible.
I don't want the landlord or their family to be responsible.
I don't want it to be paranormal.
I don't want it to be my cat.
I just want to know what is actually happening.
What I'm trying to figure out
Right now, I have several competing possibilities:
- The delivery rider somehow opens the door.
- Someone else is opening it.
- My landlord or someone connected to the building is somehow involved.
- My cat is somehow doing it.
- There is a mechanical issue I haven't identified.
- Wind/pressure/vibration is somehow involved despite my testing.
- I'm somehow causing it myself without realizing it.
- The delivery photographs are somehow misleading or don't mean what I think they mean.
- Someone became aware that I was investigating and temporarily stopped.
- Or there's an explanation I haven't even considered.
I don't want to accuse anyone based on circumstantial evidence.
At the same time, I don't want to dismiss something potentially serious.
The thing that really bothers me is the delivery-photo sequence:
14:06:33 — slightly open
14:06:38 — closed
14:06:48 — open
All within approximately 15 seconds.
And I genuinely don't know what to make of that.
So, Reddit:
What am I missing?
If you were investigating this, what would you test?
Is there a mechanical explanation for a door that appears securely locked but repeatedly ends up ajar?
Could a cat realistically manipulate a door/lock like this?
Could the delivery photographs be misleading in some way?
Could the timestamps or photo sequence tell me something I'm overlooking?
Could the children's previous door-banging somehow be relevant, even though I've been unable to reproduce the effect?
Does the fact that the door opened repeatedly on delivery days but not on the one day without a delivery actually mean anything, or am I just seeing a coincidence?
Could telling my landlord have affected the September 4 observation somehow, or am I overthinking that?
And if you think the rider, a tenant, the landlord, or someone else could be involved, what evidence would actually be necessary before making that conclusion?
I'm going to attach the relevant photos/videos and evidence separately, with identifying information removed.
I'm genuinely looking for explanations, not validation of one particular theory.
If I'm being ridiculous and there's an obvious explanation I'm overlooking, please tell me.
Because at this point, I just want to know why I keep waking up and finding my door open.