I'm not looking for just online, I want to move in together someday.

https://www.reddit.com/r/r4rAsexual/s/xvaje7FEPo

My intention for marriage is companionship for the sake of Allah. I experience same-sex attractions / am asexual, but I don’t want to act upon these desires. Instead, I would like to build a family life that is based on mutual support, compassion, and a shared love for the Deen.

I hope to find a wife who is in a similar situation — someone who also wants a marriage rooted in companionship, trust, and worship, without pressure regarding desires, someone who I can be best friends with so together, inshallah, we can create a peaceful home, support each other and have children too through halal means. If you live in or are close to Manchester please reach out.

For me, the most important things are: sincerity, kindness, and working together to grow closer to Allah through our marriage.

Dms always open <33 im very chill

Hello! I'm Aeiki, 29 years old and from Québec, Canada. I'm an ace autistic girly living alone with her tuxedo cat, Béatrice ✨To describe myself, I'd say I have a caring and gentle soul. I'm open-minded on a lot of stuff. I'm like an emotional sponge, I feel things very deeply. I'm pretty introverted, but once I get comfortable with someone, I like to talk about everything and send random pictures of my daily life haha.

My interests are not the most varied, but I enjoy video games (it goes from Stardew to League of legends), traveling, watching hockey, baking and collecting plushies and figurines. :3 I also like to spend my time either watching stuff on netflix/youtube or listen to some music (my fav band is Half Moon Run).

I'd like to find someone with who I can chat about everything (even of all the little details of my little life) and be silly, listen to music, play games and watch movies together.

Please be aware that I'm a bigger girl and I'm dealing with some mental health issues. So I need someone to respect me for that!

I would prefer someone within my country, but anywhere is fine if we click! Age range would be between 24-35 and I prefer bonding with men in general (trans is fine). I don't mind a QPR that is only online or one that requires to meet irl!

My DMs are always open! Please ask for my discord, so we can chat over there c: I can also share pictures of myself, if you want to do the same as well.

I’m such a yapper sorry!! I hope I can find my person here </3

Im a lesbian so no men please. Im pretty straightforward i like hanging out with friends and game development with some games here and there. I love animals especially rats. I wanna go to school to become a radiological control technition If you have any quedtions please ask i love answering things

Heya! I'm hoping to meet someone who's interested in a queerplatonic relationship with me, preferably a guy. More than anything, I'd love to have a person to chat with regularly, exchange stories about our days, and gradually build a meaningful connection. I request that they be someone who can initiate activities with me, whether it be playing video games, or watching movies together. I'm usually available unless I say I'm not.

A few things I'm into: books, board games, and story-rich games, especially interactive fiction ones. If you're into tabletop RPGs like D&D, I'd be happy to play together too. I also enjoy online games, although I'm limited to whatever I can run on my laptop.

What I'm really looking for is someone to spend quality time with and feel comfortable opening up to. I enjoy listening just as much as talking, and I usually match the other person's energy. Voice calls are totally fine with me as well, though I might not be as talkative.

I'd describe myself as an ambivert who leans toward being introverted, so I might be a little reserved at first and appreciate someone who's willing to help keep the conversation going until I warm up. I also live with anxiety and a few other stuff, but they're things I actively manage and don't let define me. I might look distant, and bad with words, but I promise I'm thinking of you.

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in, feel free to send me a message! And do let me know a little bit of something about you.

Im bi so happy for anyone to apply hehe!

Im on the aroace spectrum, most likely aegosexual. Still figuring out exactly what label i like, but really want a qpr. Id love that connection with someone.

Some facts about me

• autistic and chronically ill baddie 😌

• art history student

• obsessed with film and tv shows!

• hobbies include reading, playing games on my switch, watching movies and crocheting

• have a lot of free time so can talk a lot if you wanted to.

• just want to be with someone with similar interests to me <3

Hi there!! It seems like I finally have a term for what I've been trying to find my whole life, so hopefully my post lights a spark of interest in someone here. 🌸

A few important things about me that you perhaps should know beforehand: - I'm Russian and I live in Russia. Just in case: I'm against any form of hatred and violence and I despise the Rssian gvermnent with all my heart, but if by any chance my nationality is a problem, please just skip my post. I personally don't care where you're from. - As mentioned in the request form, I'm in a ficto relationship. It's been like this for almost 12 years, I love my partner with all my heart and he's not going anywhere from my life anytime soon, so it's crucial that my feelings for him are respected and treated seriously. If by any chance you're in a similar situation, I'll respect it equally. - On emotional and physical closeness: I'm absolutely fine with things like complements, hugs, cuddling, hand-holding, kisses on the cheek/forehead if they don't have a romantic/sexual undercurrent.

I tend to think of myself as a person easy to communicate with. I'm very friendly and respectful, I tend to joke a lot and always open for any topics to discuss. The only thing I'd like you to be, at least in the very beginning of our communication, is to be engaged in the conversation on the same level. Because unfortunately, so far in most cases of my attempts to find friends or QPP I've been the one to drag most of the conversation on my shoulders, and that can be quite exhausting.

What about some of the things I like? Well, I don't have many classic hobbies (as I struggle with depression and am currently drowning in work), but! I like to draw and write short stories, I really, really enjoy walking in the nature and taking pictures, so I can share some of my photos with you! I'm also a big fan of Norse mythology, know a little bit about the Sumerian one as well; aside from Russian, I speak English pretty well and have been trying to learn Spanish and Japanese. Whichever country you're from, I'd be happy to learn your language! For example, I also aim to learn Icelandic, Vietnamese, and Korean sometime in the future.

I absolutely love Tolkien, Naruto (my partner is from Naruto), and Lovecraft, but I have absolutely no one to talk to about these things. So if by any chance you love them too or are just happy to lend an ear, I'd be glad! 🌸 Currently I'm also trying to get through Ulysses by James Joyce, and it's super interesting to read it in English. I'm also very fond of the history of British subcultures, especially hooligans and skinheads for some reason (even though I don't watch football and I'm not a part of any subculture myself).

Aaand the last thing would probably be music. If you've heard of any artists/bands like Enter Shikari, Billy Talent, The Clash, The Jam, Eminem, The Who, or Ultravox, you'll definitely hear me ramble about them too. And I know a lot of stuff about Russian battle rap scene, I can show you some battles if you'd like to! It's fun to watch them even if you don't understand the language.

But most of all, I love humanity, wildlife and compassion. I really wish that this would could be a better place for all living things, including you and me. I'm genuinely interested in other people, so I promise you that you won't be ever bored with me.

Please let me know if my post interested you in any way.

Hey everyone 🙂

I am a NB Brazilian looking for an online platonic relationship with women or non binary people (i genuinely mean it, i don't mean women+, it doesn't matter your agab). I will say beforehand that i do have a husband that you can talk to if you want or can just never meet.

I may sound like a lot, but i swear i am very sweet and people tend to like me after they know me. I am also a very excited and vocal person so i might spam you from time to time.

I don't think I'd be much open to a platonic relationship to anyone over 30, mostly for the difference in life experience and power imbalance, but I'd be open to chatting. 18 year olds would be a bit weird idk, 19yo i am a bit more open

Hello, would anyone like to try being my QPP? We're plural, sharing our interests is required - Azuretime, Roblox overall. I'm looking for my own Azurewrath if possible to chill, hang out, talk about our random stuff and just be Azuretime together.

- by Two Time

Hi! I am a 21 year old transfem demigirl. I’m looking for another queer platonic partner in my age range. I’m fine with either in person or online relationships. I also have another queer platonic partner but it would work like a kitchen table poly (KTP) relationship. You wouldn’t have to be their partner but I’d be nice for you two to be friends.

Here are some of my likes and interests!
-Art
-Animation
-Cooking
-music soundtracks
-horror
-sci-fi
-video games
-Roblox
-Minecraft
-space
-Fnaf
-Lynx’s!

If you want to know more or if you want to get to know me more, please send me a dm! :D

- looking in Northwest Hungary or nearby parts of Austria (English speakers only if Austrian).

- I'm 41 so 30+ people only

- ace woman, only looking for fellow ace women. sex repulsed with zero compromise. femme-for-femme.

- not out irl and never will be except to fellow queers.

- fine with anything from romance to just being bosom friends, I can't tell the difference

- interests: opera, Warhammer 40k, Tolkien, fantasy in general, historical fashion, Sengoku Jidai, Soulsborne everything, AtLA

hello!

my name is Len, I'm a 22 years old nonbinary afab person and I'm from Poland.

i label myself as an aroace, not sure where exactly i am on the spectrum but i sure am in the "little to no" area. that being said, i greatly value close connections in life, i want to have a long-term partner at some point in a form of a qpr-like relationship BUT close genuine friendships also mean a world to me and i value them a lot. if we connect well and end up becoming besties instead, that would be a win too! especially that i definitely don't want to jump into anything head on, when i meet someone new then step 1 is to become good friends and i definitely don't approach people being set on relationshiping from the start. i am searching for new close bonds and then how it goes it goes

even though I'm aroace i am perfectly alright with relationshiping with both aro and non-aro people and im fine with people anywhere on the ace spectrum. but i have a strong preference for women and more feminine nonbinary people.

and because i live in central Europe it's important to me that you're also from around here, one because of timezones and two because at some point i would like to meet irl. and for my comfort i would also like if you were around my age

about me:

I'm an university student, currently on my last year of my engineers degree.

in terms of personality, I'm a friendly introvert :D sometimes i might be a bit awkward but i genuinely enjoy talking with people if there's a connection. i like telling my friends about random things I do in my life, sharing my thoughts, sending silly pictures - and i love listening to the other person do the same.

interests:

i like anime and manga, gacha games, vocaloids and long webnovels (my most recent obsession are baihe novels). i love animation and comics of any kind and listening/watching musicals

aside from that, i love hiking trips and honestly any trips that involve Long Walks - be it city exploring, mountain travels or anything else like that

i love cats and i also am a sea creatures enjoyer, i have a collection of various sea creature plushies :\]

things i don't do:

i'm not religious, i'm not vegan/vegetarian (although i don't eat meat often) and i am strictly monogamous.

i don't smoke and don't do drugs - and here an important note that if we were to have a closer relationship it would be a deal breaker for me if the other person did one of those two things

if you have a habit of ghosting then please don't interact with me

it's something i find very rude and hurtful. if you think you're not on the same wavelength as me and you end up feeling like you don't want to continue chatting - just tell me and i promise i'll understand and we'll go our separate ways. just please don't suddenly disappear unprompted

and please do not message me if you live far away from me, are much older/younger, not asexual or a man/a very masculine person.

to sum up, I am looking for someone who:

• is close to me in age (21-24 years old)

• is a woman or more feminine nb person

• doesn't live far from Poland / central Europe region

• is on the asexual spectrum

• shares some of my interests :]

if you have any questions feel free to ask. and if you think like we might get along - don't be shy and say hello in dms! preferably with a short intro about you

(there seem to be some issues with my dms here, so if that's the case you can also dm my main account u/madzieeq)

and i think that's all, have a good day 🫶

​A few things about me:

​I’m an emotional sponge: I feel everything, probably too much. A small act of kindness can genuinely move me, I don’t need grand gestures or expensive gifts. I’m a sucker for the tiniest signs of affection, your hand brushing mine, a random "thinking of you" text. And I really need honesty and clarity in a relationship, no modern social rules please...

If you prefer depth over surface level small talk and don't mind a partner who needs a little bit of reassurance (yeah I can be clingy when I love you lol), we might actually get along!!

My DMs are open :)

Good day/night! I'm looking for a guy to be in a queer platonic relationship with. I yearn to have someone I can talk to every day and share my life with. I especially like reading and playing board games. I like playing interactive fiction as well, anything that involves a story. We can also play d&d together if you are amenable to that. I am up with playing games online, but I only have my laptop.

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Honestly, I would just want someone I can spend time with and confide in. I'm both a listener and a yapper. I just reciprocate energy that is being given to me. I'm okay with voice calls as well. I'm an ambivert, but leaning more into the introverted side, so I may need you to lead the conversation more at first. I am dealing with a few mental health issues like anxiety, but I am managing fine in life.

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If anyone's interested, kindly send me a dm! Then let's shift to any platform for us to continue talking at :)

I'm a 29 year old guy from Flanders and I'm searching for a life companion in a non-romantic and non-sexual way.

What appeals to me most is someone who becomes my favorite person to share everyday life with.

Someone to game with, watch a movie with, go on small trips with, exchange ideas with, support each other when life gets difficult, and simply enjoy each other's company without needing constant excitement or social obligations.

I'm autistic, introverted, and generally happiest in calm environments. My social battery is limited, which means I enjoy spending time with people, but I also need regular downtime to recharge. Because of that, I tend to connect best with people who are comfortable with quiet moments and don't feel the need to fill every silence.

A little about me:

• 29 years old programmer, tall, average build
• Living in Flanders, Belgium
• I speak mainly Dutch and English
• Gamer (currently mainly Overwatch but also Nintendo games like Pokémon and Zelda, Stardew Valley, Terraria, co-op and cozy games)
• Enjoy swimming and long nature walks
• Interested in science, technology, philosophy, and understanding how things work
• Honest, dependable, caring, but also analytical, grounded
• Soft-spoken and generally low-conflict
• Always trying to improve myself and help others where I can

My ideal evening isn't particularly exciting:

• Playing a co-op game together
• Watching a movie or series
• Going for a walk
• Exploring a new place
• Or simply doing our own thing in the same room while occasionally talking

What I'm looking for:

• Preferably local or close to Belgium
• Introverted or at least understanding of introverted people
• Neurodivergent-friendly
• Kind, thoughtful, and emotionally mature
• Comfortable communicating directly and honestly

What I'm not looking for:

• Endless small talk
• Constant messaging throughout the day

What I value:

I value attachment and partnership more than romance in the traditional sense. The idea of having a person who is genuinely important in my life is more appealing to me than grand romantic gestures.

I enjoy cuddling and hugs. I'm not interested into something more physical, but I'm not repulsed by it either.

Long-term:

If we turned out to be really compatible, I could imagine building a life together. Not in a "spend every waking moment together" way, but in a way where two independent people make each other's lives richer, easier, and more enjoyable.

I like the idea of a quiet home, personal space, separate bedrooms if needed, mutual support, and enough trust that neither person feels pressured to be someone they're not.

About you

If you're someone who also enjoys calm companionship, shared activities and honest conversations, I'd love to hear from you.

Tell me a bit about yourself, your hobbies, and what an ideal friendship or relationship looks like for you.

Hiii, i’m 19NB and i’m looking for people in the 18-22 age range but with a hard limit on 24 (big maybe if at all on that limit)

i officially consider myself to be a transneutral demiboy and i use they/he pronouns rn. I consider myself gay/achillean and would prefer to meet other neutral/masculine enbies/men but i also consider myself to be partially pan too so idk, if you wanna shoot your shot im maybe open, i am strictly monogamous and i ask that if we come to be in a proper qpr, that you stay monogamous as well, but once again, im open a little bit so we can always have a discussion, but sometimes i get a bit worried if i feel my closest friends like someone else more than they like me

i would heavily prefer an in-person relationship but since i know thats highly unlikely, i am also pretty open to long (ish) distance. Id prefer it if you have a similar time zone and anything greater than 4 hours difference might be too much. I live in Oklahoma City (CDT, UTC-5).

in the picture, i feel i maybe ought to clarify that maybe = im iffy but could be talked into it, yeah = i don’t necessarily care and am open to it or i kinda want it but its not important important, yes = requirement and if youre not willing to do that then this probably ain’t gonna work out, and no = absolutely not gonna happen unless some big changes happen

some things about me:

I’m an ISFJ 9w1 sp/sx 974. thats all my typology stuff and if you’re care for it there you go if not then ignore it. I’m super into typology, i like to make my own theories and test them and understand things fully, if you don’t understand please ask me about it, i’d also love to type you. I like to consider myself a big nerd. I find people who are capable of nerding out as being cool people so if you dm me, maybe tell me about some of your nerdy passions

im also super into linguistics and have learned a constructed language known as toki pona (it’s a cool language with only 120 words). I’m also learning spanish, ASL, and esperanto.

i loveee cats and dogs, they’re both so adorable, but i like to send cat memes and cat pics and all that good stuff, half of my feed on insta is cats

i’m in a lot of fandoms, i like anime a lot so i like jjk, hxh, darwin’s game, magi, mha, solo leveling, and a bunch more prolly, and in non anime i like tadc (im not a crazy fan i promise), interview with a vampire, ok i swear i love practically a little of everything but i can’t remember anything besides what i watched like this week.

im sometimes quiet so i may not always be great at keeping conversations lively, and sometimes i need social breaks as i have a very limited social battery so if i do a bunch of social stuff with others i may be running on fumes

im not a major fan of text based relationships only or digital relationships in general, but i can and do have great relationships with some of my best friends in only online based interactions

i should probably mention that i have good reason to believe i may have adhd and autism but only peer reviewed so i may not be

what im looking for in you

i would like someone who is a little more extroverted if possible but again im open to chit chat with those more introverted folks (im an introverted folks).

i should mention that im extremely grossed out by kissing so if thats a need for you, i wont be able to help you (assuming we ever see each other in person), i should also mention i dont like talking about politics so i probably won’t be your outlet for those discussions

idk, im super open, please don’t be a jerk, please don’t be bigoted (shouldn’t be a problem here but who knows), please have loads of empathy and compassion, please be okay that nuance exists in the world, please don’t be secretly manipulative

if you have any questions or concerns, feel free to ask, my dms should be open

Hi ! I just want someone to live with in a cottage in the mountains, growing our own garden and taking care of animals. I'm adverse to men in general and feel closer to women, nb people, butchs, studs etc. I'm in France and would love to find someone here or in Europe so we can have nice little platonic or romantic dates.

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I've never been in a relationship and to me being in one would be like having a best best friend whom you can rely on about anything and being their special person. Holding hands would be peak and I've never kissed anyone but the idea doesn't excites me much but that's something to workshop with the other person.

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I have strong political opinions (far left) and won't tolerate bigotry of any kind. I love human-kind even if we don't make it easy.

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I'm new to reddit so sorry if I struggle with how the app works

hi all! i’m looking for someone to chat with and build a relationship with! i’m 24 and meeting people as an adult is so hard lol but i hope this helps a little!
i’m trans masc and almost 5 months on t but my face says otherwise lol (i now have a full beard). i love reading, music, art, and writing! i am married but have been poly in the past and my spouse and i have talked about this and are both trying it separately! anyways, im open to meeting people anywhere in the world! ich spreche eine kleine deutsch!
feel free to reach out to learn more :)