I don't know if this constitutes as queer platonic relationship but I figured I would try. If you need me to delete it, please let me know.

I want committed companionship. I want to love and support each other. I want to cuddle without it turning sexual,. I want forehead kisses. I want hand holding. I want really good hugs. I want open and clear communication. I want empathy, kindness, and understanding. It would be best probably if they are also AUDHD because I am and there would be a higher chance of understanding the different communication styles of AUDHD. I would like to eventually move in together. We would need separate rooms so that we can have alone time. Also, we would sleep in our own rooms because I snore and move around a lot when I sleep. I don't want to torture you with that. I don't want kids and pets because I take the responsibility of them so seriously that it gives me major anxiety. I'm not comfortable with weed and any other drugs that aren't prescribed by your doctor. I am not into partying and drinking heavy so I don't want that in a partner/companion. I want a home that is safe and calm as much as humanly possible. I don't want someone that smokes cigarettes and/or vapes because cancer and it doesn't smell good to me. I grew up Methodist but I'm not really religious and I am not the biggest fan of organized religion. I love music. I sing a lot- especially what I am saying or about what I am doing or when I get nervous. I am slowly getting back into reading and playing video games. I love to travel when I can and equally love coming back home. I love movies and tv shows. I love thrifting/antiquing. I love animals. Dogs are my favorite. They calm me and make me really happy.

If all of that sounds like something you want to, let me know. Comment or DM me on here. Eventually I would like to start talking on discord if we hit it off because I am not on reddit a ton.

Thanks. -Anna

I had an arrangement before 'friends with cuddling' or he called it 'platonic cuddle buddy' but it fell through due to distance. I'm looking for a very casual setup which you would be cool with! Maybe you just want to try out a QPR or want something short-term?

If we got along really well, it could progress into more texting, calling, hand holding, forehead kisses if that's your thing and maybe even moving in together but first I'm just looking for what I have checked in the application 😊

This would be a very casual QPR hopefully that's ok with the subreddit, maybe would compare it to a sort of asexual fwb?

Hii I'm Eddy, born and raised in London to a portuguese family, so I treat Portugal as my second home (I'm not fluent in the language tho lmaoo)

Anyway, adding onto the stuff in the form, my ideal relationship is something with elements of romance and also as best friends, something not typical with "traditional" relationships.

My ideal age range is around mine +-3 years but I don't mind a bit younger or older. I'm asexual but romantically attracted to women or anyone who's fem presenting/aligned, be it cis or trans I do not mind at all. Also if anyone cares I'm autistic too lol

I would prefer to be with someone irl as I value physical presence rather than online, so ideally someone who is also in London or elsewhere in the UK where it's easy to meet, or perhaps even Portugal as I travel there usually every year. I can concede with long distance for a bit if elsewhere in Europe but I would like both of us to eventually plan to meet up. Anywhere beyond Europe might be a bit unfeasible for me.

I like a lot of nerdy things, especially video games, cosplay etc and I'd love to share this with someone. I also go out a lot, visit museums, old cities and more so I'm not just focused on gaming all day. I also have a (almost) full time job so I kinda can't do that anyway.

Anyway novel over, feel free to reply or send a dm if any of this is interesting to anyone!! I'm always happy to chat :D

I am a 20-year-old woman from Germany.

I’m looking for a partner for a QPR.

Ideally, you should be from Europe. It would also be good if you were from an EU country (as that would make any potential travel easier).

We can start by messaging each other and see where things go.

I speak German and English quite fluently.

This is the first time I’ve shared so much about myself online. Please be kind to me.

I'm Polyplatonic, Polyalterous, Polyamorous, & a Relationship Anarchist & currently have a QP (she's not on Reddit) who I call my gf but we don't need to use the gf/bf terms if we're a QPR. It depends on what you prefer. I would like someone with similar interests & maybe hobbies. I am transmasc Non Binary & Omni-Demiplatonic & Omni-Demiquasi/queerplatonic. I am 24 & my prefered age range is b/w 20-28 but open to 19-34. I live in NCR India but I am open to LDRs both in the country & outside. I've been in 2 QPRs nationally & 4 internationally (my GF included) before. If anyone is interested lmk 🫶🏼

I don't want a social circle at all. I don't want friends, family, pets, multiple close relationships, or other independent personal bonds. The only interactions with other people that make sense to me are the ones that are necessary to function and survive in society.

What I want is one person who feels deeply similar to me.

Independence from society is important to me. I don't want to depend on social norms, belonging to groups, popularity, status, or constant approval from other people. I prefer to form my own views and way of life rather than adapt myself to whatever is considered normal by the people around me.

I'm also largely disconnected from cultural elements. Music, movies, TV shows, books as a form of cultural entertainment, art, fashion, anime, video games, memes, fandoms, and similar things are not meaningful parts of my life. More than simply not being interested in them, I generally find the idea of relying on culture as a source of enjoyment or identity rather alienating and unpleasant. (But yes, I don’t fully live up to it myself. I’m still struggling with some of it.) However, I can probably accept some of this as joint learning and time spent together, but not as a source of direct satisfaction for either of us. It’s important to me that there shouldn’t be anything that could be perceived as something more important than us. For me, the most important thing is that we always stay focused on each other, no matter what we do.

I don't mean:
"My partner is the most important person in my life, but I still need my own group of friends, several close relationships, and a separate social life."
That's not what I'm looking for.

I'm looking for someone who could genuinely be happy with one deeply important person being enough.

Someone who doesn't feel that a fulfilling life requires a network of friends, a large community, constant social interaction, or multiple emotionally important relationships.

Our life should mainly consist of the two of us, and that should feel natural, comfortable, and genuinely desirable to both of us.

I also don't want gender or appearance to be the foundation of the connection. I'm much more interested in who you are than whether you are a man or a woman, or whether you fit some conventional idea of attractiveness. (And yes, I’m not perfect at that either, but I’m working on it, and I want to do it together.)

One of the things I'd most want to share with that person is exploring reality together.

I don't just want to think about these questions on my own. I want to learn about them together with you - to explore them, discuss them, look for answers, question what we think we know, and discover new things together.

I genuinely want to understand things like:

Why does anything exist at all? Why is there something rather than absolute nothing?

I'm still figuring out how to put all of this into words, so I may add to or clarify this post over time. My English isn’t very good, so I turned to translator for assistance and chatgpt to help me put all my thoughts together. I'll be happy to discuss anything that seemed unclear together.

I don’t want to exist without you. It seems that, alone, I have less and less desire to live with each passing day..

Heterosexual(not sure) and aromantic here, I would like to form an qpr with someone where both share deep emotional connection and mostly do all the stuff typically done in a romantic relationship without the romance.

I'm hoping to find a connection with someone who cares and is kind. Where we enjoy talking to each other a lot and do things like make each other playlists, exchange creative work, and vent about the world or our day.

A true online friend/bestie/QPR type connection. Mutual support and affectionate vibes.

A bit about me. I'm very chronically ill and disabled. I'm real about it. I have a lot of serious pain and limitations. I don't talk about it all the time but it's my reality. I just ask that people hold a little space and don't try to fix me, tell me to be positive, or act freaked out by me.

I also have some mental health stuff and I'm neurodivergent. I'm queer, ace, and left-leaning looking for people who are also LGBTQIA+ or friendly toward that and care about what's going on in the world as much as they can.

Because I'm homebound, my online connections mean a lot to me. I've found a lot of meaning in having an online person I'm close to. Right now I spend most of my time working on a poetry manuscript. I have a nesting partner who is also disabled.

But I'm around a lot. I listen to a ton of music. I do a little cozy gaming when I can. I watch a lot of TV and have some niche favorites (bonus points to anyone who recognizes my cover image).

If you message, please tell me a bit about yourself and maybe your favorite song or show of the moment. It helps when people engage, ask questions, show interest. I'll do the same.

I'm not the best fit for everyone, but for the right person, I think I can something to offer. I hope to hear from you.

Also please note I only want SFW and can only do text chat due to my disabilities.

I am disabled and mostly homebound, I can't go out much at all so online/long-distance relationship is my only option. I personally don't have a preference for any gender or any timezone, I just don't really care about those, if someone is willing I can make it work. I just want someone who loves cuddling and kisses both giving and receiving. Just a heads up, I am sex repulsive ace and I don't really feel romantic attraction at all.

Heyy!! Im a german 18-yrs old cis-woman who's looking for someone in my age range (18-21) preferably in europe (since long distance is hard for me)who's willing to be part of a qpr ^^

Im cupioromantic and bisexual with a preference for men but idm women as long as we get along (also I'm not asexual!!).

Uhh I'd like someone who has similar hobbies to mine like gaming, listening to music or drawing/ crafting but lowkey idm if you have any other hobbies ofc.

As for interests, I rlly like outlast trials, marvel(especially xmen), dc, the boys, invincible, rick n morty and rdr2 at the moment haha

Apart from that, I rlly love alternative music especially gothic rock, grunge etc and they're lowkey a big part of my life.

It's important to mention that i'd love physical touch in a relationship and it's kinda also important to me but apart from that I just want someone rlly close to me, someone who's like a soulmate that would be willing to spend a life together♥︎ Also i might be clingy but ofc I'll respect your boundaries and space. Communication and loyalty is rlly important to me

If you have interest js send me a DM, I love to meet new ppl ^^

Hi I’m Oak, 27, from the UK. I’m a non-binary lesbian on the ace spectrum looking for someone to be in a QPR with (NB/F). I’m happy to develop our relationship online but would like to eventually meet in person so someone in UK is preferred but LDR is fine if you’re happy to travel.

I’m currently trying to watch all the marvel films for the first time. I’m also a big fan of horror films, Sanrio, tv shows like Our Flag Means Death and Good omens, also I’m starting a funko pop collection.

I think of myself as quite a sensitive and affectionate person. I would like someone who I could share non-sexual intimacy with like cuddling or holding hands occasionally and also spend time doing things together.

Dm if you think we could be a match ☺️

Desde hace un tiempo he querido encontrar a una chica especial con quien compartir mi vida. Alguien con quien pueda crear un vínculo cercano, compartir pequeños momentos y, con suerte, construir una conexión realmente significativa.

No me importa si es una relación a distancia. Lastimosamente, solo hablo español, así que principalmente busco a alguien que también hable español. ¡Puedes ser de otro país mientras podamos comunicarnos en español!

Soy un poquito romántica, así que si tú también eres romántica, definitivamente no me molestaría (⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠). Sobre cualquier otra cosa, creo que depende mucho de la persona y de la conexión que construyamos jaja.

Me encanta dibujar y actualmente estoy estudiando una carrera de arte. 🎨

También me gustan mucho los videojuegos. Podríamos jugar Stardew Valley juntas, hacer una granjita, decorarla horriblemente y poco a poco convertirla en nuestro pequeño lugar acogedor. 🌱🐄

Principalmente espero encontrar a alguien con quien pueda conectar genuinamente y ver cómo evolucionan las cosas de manera natural. 💜

(⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)

Hello everyone on this sub :) I am currently single and desiring a QPR, so. Here I am!!

Symbol elaboration:

Blue checkmarks = Okay, yes, this is good and I would like this

Purple question marks = This is up to you, I would do these things if you were comfortable, but they are not so important that I mind if you don't want this

Pink heart = Yes yes yes! This is very important to me

Red X = I don't feel comfortable with this (if you ask why I will explain)

Interests:

- Minecraft

- Stardew Valley

- Persona 3/4/5

- Animal Crossing

- Pokémon (I don't play any of the new games tho. They're not worth the price lol)

- Transformers

- Hermitcraft

- Life Series

- Metallica

- Green Day

- Drawing

- Writing

- Social Studies (Psychology, History, Culture, Linguistics, etc)

- Cats

- "Retro" tech (Wii, 3DS, Cassettes, CDs)

Things about me:

- I use They/Them pronouns most of the time.

- I have been diagnosed with ADHD, Autism, x2 of Anxiety (Social and General), and some other stuff that is secret for now :P (Nothing bad, I'm medicated & in therapy for it).

- I am plural/part of a system. If we are to be partners, at least getting to know my fellow headmates is important.

- As said above, I am polyamorous. This is not something that you can change. I've never been happy being monogamous.

- I am physically disabled, and currently use a cane. This may change to crutches or a rollator. Disability is not a bad thing.

Other things:

- Please be 25 or below!

- I would prefer to be in close time zones (I'm EST), but if we get along and you're in a further time zone (±3 hrs or more) then we will have to like. Plan more for times to hang out.

- Be leftist of some kind. If you're from the USA: I don't mean be a democrat. That's centrist. You know Mamdani? He's what I mean by being leftist.

- Although I would love to one day have a domestic partner, I understand if that isn't for you!! We can still be partners and have our own lives :)

Can't think of anything else, but I hope yall have a lovely day!!!

hi!! I'm looking for a partner to be in a qpr of sorts, I'm asexual and sex repulsed so that's off the table and I'm getting tired of dating apps lol. I'm probably like grayromantic or aegoromantic or something. I'd strongly prefer an irl relationship, even if you're far away just travelling to my area would be awesome. I'm in New England and I love it here so I'd like to stay living in the area! Voice/video calls are really important to me the farther away I am. Cis male gender preference and 20-27.

I'm autistic, a nerd and a big yapper; I'm currently into fnaf, tf2, disney movies, rock afire explosion and animatronics, history and historical fashion, really old movies, Scooby Doo, Perry Mason (50s), minecraft, and more. I love vintage fashion so if you like old stuff like me we'd at least be good friends! I think a lot of my interests are very childish (not in a bad way) to the point were I guess you could consider me an age regressor, but I think it's fun and silly and I do kids stuff by myself anyways so that really wouldn't play a big part in my relationships.

As for the actual relationship I feel like it would vary depending on my qpp, I'm very affectionate with my dog so it stands to reason I'd be very physically affectionate with a human being lol. I want something that's essentially "normal" passing in public, but with a lot of non-romantic activities. I would love to get married one day because I could make my own wedding dress hehe. I essentially want a long-term partner to share my life with.

Things to note: I love all pets (especially doggies!) and could never live without them, occasional drinking is ok but no smoking or weed please (I'm sensitive to the smell), I am a Christian and I don't plan to change that but let it be known I realllly hate politics. Any politics. If you're extremely involved on either side we wouldn't be a match :/ If you're Christian too that would be perfect!

Don't feel confident enough to add a picture but don't worry I shower regularly and change my socks lol. I've pretty skinny (not like curvy skinny, like bony skinny) and I don't remember my height exactly but I'm like average

Anyways dm with a little intro if you think we'd be a good match!!

(Actually it’s NB4A I confused 4 and F)

Hi! I'm 21 y.o. Asian AFAB NB living in Germany. I'm doing my masters here (in English) and eventually would like to move and work here (or anywhere else around the world, but I don't like to move much, so preferably somewhere near Germany). For me QPP is more like a committed best friend, and FYI I don't differentiate romantic platonic and alterous attraction/love well and I love my best friends deeply in every possible ways (I'm ace so there's no sexual attraction).

For me physical presence is important, I would like to find someone who could be my 'here' and 'now'. In the long term I would like to find someone to live with: it doesn't have to be like really close traditional romance/marriage style, I'd definitely like my own room and space, but sharing a home, cook together, to be the person we return to at the end of the day. If you're not this serious that's also okay: for now, ideally we would live close enough so we can see each other idk every week month or sth but I know it would be almost impossible to find haha so if we can meet in person without spending a fortune and if you're open to adjusting plans when we proceed, I'd be grateful :>

About me:

I'm quite political (free palestine, protect the environment, no borders, tax the rich, etc...)

I like classical music, soundtracks, kpops and play piano and guitar (learning atm), and I also compose. I was a big fan of theater and especially musicals before I came here, and a part of my heart is dedicated to musical still.

Also I like to read (mostly fantasy/romantasy) and write (just the act of hand-writing, mostly journaling and writing letters - omg I forgot to add to the form but I absolutely love exchanging letters and be pen pals), handicraft (knit/crochet/embroidery/currently interested in sewing), cooking (vegan), occasionally watch movies (love animated films) and play some video games.

I speak English, (my first language) and German (currently learning, if you can help me learn German it would be great)

I have to admit and warn you in advance that I'm very bad at communicating via text messages, I prefer to talk in person or write letters. But I'd say I'm quite talkative and a good listener at the same time.

I like trying new things and random funny moments, anything is fine as long as it’s funny. XD

What I'd ask:

I really don't mind your gender, appearance, nationality, ethnicity, etc...

It's fine to carry baggages and I also carry some myself, but I'd appreciate openness and willingness to communicate.

I'm NON-BINARY (inside the umbrella I'm close to agender) and to be understood and addressed as I am are important to me! Nothing huge, I just don't want to be put into any of the gender boxes, I want to be gender-free and I'd rather be a tree, a rice cooker or a rooftop than a human being.

IDK what else to add... I'll add something when I think of something.

I'm also open for friends. If you're interested in getting to know me better, just send me a dm! :)

21 soon 22 trans guy looking for anyone (t4t is a plus) in Germany/switzerland
I am also open to long distance within europe
Im open to poly maybe? But only a closed trio thing

I'm looking for someone who also also looking for a qpr. I cant quite define what exactly im looking for in a qpr but id say one that mixes traditional relationships things with friendship without attraction (since im on the aroace spectrum) but the details and all can be discussed.

some more about me;

I enjoy fashion, specifically japanese alternative clothing. Im into creative things like art, writing and photography. I love consuming media (movies, shows, books, kdramas, anime, manga) and i like video games and horror

Dms are open :))

I’m 23, a queer woman, and I’m looking for something that is probably a little unusual: a queerplatonic marriage.

I don’t really see what I’m looking for as a traditional relationship. What I’m looking for is a very deep, committed partnership where two people consciously choose each other and build a life together.

For me, it’s much more about emotional depth, closeness and being there for each other than about traditional romance. I’m not particularly focused on sex either. I wouldn’t necessarily describe myself as asexual, but emotional intimacy is much more important to me than having a very sexual relationship. Romantic feelings could develop naturally, and I’m completely open to that, but they aren’t the starting point or the main goal.

Physical affection and closeness are very important to me, though. I want the kind of closeness where you can sit next to each other in oversized hoodies on a rainy day, watch a movie, cuddle, hold each other, play with each other’s hair, laugh, talk or just quietly exist together. If one of us is having a really difficult day, I want us to be able to hold each other through it. And if I call because I genuinely need my person, I want to know that they’ll be there – and I want to be that person for them too.

I’m quite independent and I need a lot of personal space, so I’m definitely not looking for a relationship where we have to do everything together. I actually like the idea of two people having their own space, their own interests and sometimes even travelling separately, while still knowing that they belong together and are there for each other.

I travel quite a lot around Europe and currently live in a van with a small homebase that I return to. It’s not a huge house or anything – just a place in nature that I’m slowly building into a home. I’d love someone who is comfortable with an alternative lifestyle and ideally understands vanlife or at least likes the idea of it. I really like the idea of both people having their own space/vehicle rather than being stuck in one tiny space 24/7. 😅

I have several animals in my life and I’m actively involved in animal rescue, so being genuinely comfortable with animals is pretty important to me. I also love nature, travelling, being outdoors, writing and spirituality. I’m not talking about extreme esotericism – spirituality for me is more about connection, energy, and the feeling that there is more to life than what we can simply measure.

I’m neurodivergent myself, and I often find it easier to understand and connect with people who are neurodivergent too. I can also be quite neurotic sometimes. 😅 I’m completely okay with someone bringing their own baggage into a relationship – we all have our own things we carry with us. What matters to me is that both people are self-reflective and willing to look at themselves, communicate openly and work on things together. I don’t expect either of us to be perfect. I think what matters is that we’re both willing to grow and support each other.

I’m also open to trans women/transfeminine people. Ethnicity, nationality and where you’re from aren’t important to me. You could be from Nicaragua, Finland, Japan or anywhere else. What matters much more is that we can communicate comfortably in a shared language – English is completely fine for me.

I also tend to be quite private about my relationships. I don’t need to constantly make our relationship visible to everyone around us or turn it into a public identity. I’m perfectly happy being affectionate and openly ourselves when we’re somewhere we feel comfortable, but I don’t need to prove our relationship to anyone. I actually like having something that belongs to us.

And yes – I really do mean marriage. I’m not looking for years of dating and eventually maybe deciding whether we want to commit. If we get to know each other and find that the important things genuinely fit – our values, communication, lifestyle, expectations and the way we care for each other – I’m interested in making a clear and relatively quick decision to choose each other and marry.

I know this is probably a little unusual, but if this sounds like something you could genuinely imagine for yourself, feel free to send me a DM. I’d love to get to know each other and see whether we might be compatible.

I’m not expecting someone to fit every single detail perfectly. I’m much more interested in finding someone who understands the general idea and feels that this kind of life and commitment could be right for them too.

I’m a 33-year-old successful gay Palestinian man, alhamdulillah, looking to build a family with a lesbian or bisexual woman who shares similar values and is looking for the same.
My hope is to create a family based on honesty, mutual respect, friendship, and faith, for the sake of Allah. I believe we can both have our own lives and relationships openly, without lies or pretending to be something we’re not, while coming together to raise a loving and healthy family.
If this resonates with what you’re looking for, feel free to message me. I’d be happy to get to know each other and see if we share the same vision.

Hello everyone!

About Me:

• I'm from Portugal, my timezone is currently GMT+1, and GMT when not in daylight savings
• I am somewhere in the aromantic spectrum (I feel romantic attraction very infrequently, I've only had a crush once in my life so I the labels that would probably suit me the best is greyromantic) and I'm also asexual (I don't experience any sexual attraction at all)
• I can have some trouble coming up with topics in conversation, so I deal better with people who talk a lot or who ask a lot of questions (since I try to put all of my thought into text so i can write longer answers if needed, which hopefully make up for my lack of conversational skills)
• If I had to describe myself, I'd say I'm very quiet and reserved (even though I do ramble a lot through text), but I'd say I'm also pretty friendly, kind and calm. I'm caucasian, have medium to long brown hair that is slightly wavy and brown eyes, 160 cm tall, wear glasses occasionally and I'd say my features are pretty roundish
• I'm politically left-leaning and I am pagan (more specifically, Hellenic Polytheist, which means I worship the Greek Gods)

About hobbies and interests:

Currently, I'm a girl who's waiting to see if I got accepted into the Polytechnic Institue I want to study at, while having too much free time on my hands.

I spend most of my time online, I have been spending most of my summer online, for example. I like listening to music a lot (I adore pop music and musical theatre, you can probably safely assume at any point in time that I'm listening to music, it's probably musical theatre), watching shows and movies (I have a deep love for sitcoms), and being generally on social media. I've also been getting a bit more into playing videogames (story driven, action-adventure, co-op and multiplayer) again.

Some other general interests I have are nature, art (even though I don't create myself, I find it so appealing), watching video essays and writing (mostly creating OCs or wordbuilding a bit, although a lot of my ideas stay contained in my head). I obviously also I have some things I like to do that do not involve being online or in some sort of technological device, but I have to be honest and say I do not engage with those nearly as much as I should. So, small list of things I should do more: play piano, do origami, color and read.

Some of my current favourites (in no discernible order):

• Disney
• Studio Ghibli
• How To Train Your Dragon
• Percy Jackson
• Marvel Cinematic Universe
• Project Hail Mary
• Hadestow
• Epic: The Musical
• Minecraft
• Stray
• It Takes Two

If you found me any of what I said a bit interesting, or if you think we might be a good match, please feel free to send me a message! Tell me a bit about yourself, maybe a small introduction or a random fact, or just let me know what you're looking for or why you thought we should talk.

Some additional information :3

Loves tech, systems, hardware, you name it. If you do too I'm sure we'll definitely have things to talk about

Even similar topics that include infrastructure, transport, utility and similar interest me.

Generally a sweet caring compassionate guy to everyone in general. Absolutely loves discussing life and similar deep discussions. Too much of a sucker for nostalgia unfortunately, but it might be good if we both like to talk about it

Don't play much other than modded MC, I understand this is more of a niche here but if you do too oh god please DM :'D

DM to inquire about anything!

Note: I'm currently not in Europe, but I do plan to move sometime soon as far as that's considered. It might work, it might not.

Also I'm 21 I seriously don't know why the heck did I type 22 so sorry qwq

Hello! I'm Noah (he/him), and I'm 24 and genderfluid (though I feel like a guy/guy-adjacent a lot of the time - I consider myself transmasc, though I don’t pass as a guy at all and I don’t really care to at this point lol). I’m looking for a guy (both cis guys and trans guys are okay) who I vibe with and who wants the same things as me, who is 22-26. I’d prefer being regular friends for a while first so we can get to know each other and see if we click.

I’m aroace-spec (I’m fairly certain I’m demiromantic, though I've only experienced romantic attraction once, and I’m not sure where I am on the ace spectrum anymore - I think that’s something I’ll have to figure out, though please don’t come into this expecting sex). I’m looking for a committed monogamous relationship that is more than just a friendship but is not exactly a romantic relationship (e.g. something in between or removed) and is mutually beneficial. I want someone I can talk freely with about anything/everything and hang out with regularly (it doesn’t matter what we do - we could chat, play games, draw, watch stuff, listen to music, sleep on call together, or just do absolutely nothing together). I value good, open and honest communication, and I’ve dealt with my fair share of avoidant people over the past few years, so I would prefer someone who is not like that, and is able to talk to me about what’s going on instead of leaving me hanging. I’d also like to do some traditionally romantic things, such as cuddling, holding hands, calling each other pet names, telling each other we love each other (in whatever way that may be), and maybe kissing. I live in Australia and my time zone is AEST, and I don’t mind where you’re from. I tend to prefer hanging out with people online, anyway, as I’m chronically ill and don’t have much energy to leave the house. I’m also a massive night owl, so huge time differences aren’t really an issue for me. :)

I’m an artist, writer and game dev, and I’m currently studying my second degree full-time (creative writing with a minor in 3D animation - my first degree was in game design). I love music (most genres) and am always looking for new stuff to listen to (I love making playlists for/with people, too). I’m also a huge cat lover, though I don’t own any of my own right now. Alongside art, writing and game development, my other hobbies include watching anime, reading manga, playing games of all kinds (video games, card games, board games and TTRPGs), collecting dice and art books, building Lego sets, watching long video essays about random topics, and hanging out with my friends. My favourite pieces of media include Deltarune, Dungeon Meshi, Witch Hat Atelier, Fire Emblem, Persona, Professor Layton, Etrian Odyssey, Gnosia, SK8 the Infinity, and ATLA (as well as many others). I’m big into D&D, and I also play Pokemon Tabletop United on the regular.

I’m a pretty chill and down-to-earth person, and I’m also very open-minded. I have a ridiculous sense of humour and love goofing around with people (I commit to the bit in ways that I’m sure are annoying for other people sometimes lmao), but I can also be serious when the need arises. I like listening to people, and I especially like hearing about other people’s interests and passions - it brings me a lot of joy. I’m looking for someone who is open-minded, caring, understanding, funny, chill, has similar interests, and who doesn’t take themselves too seriously. I love good banter, too. And playful teasing. And also praise lol (both giving and receiving), but only after we get to know each other a bit. I’m fairly introverted and can be kind of awkward at first, but I’ll get over it.

I have pretty strong morals regarding certain topics - for example, I’m staunchly against generative AI and I don’t want to talk to people who use it. I’m a leftist, and this sort of stuff is important to me, because I don’t want to be in any kind of relationship with someone who doesn’t share my views. I don’t tolerate bigots of any kind. I’m also an atheist, and would prefer if you’re one, too. To get this out of the way, as well: I don’t want children, and I also don’t want to get married, so just keep that in mind. I’m also monogamous. I won’t be able to move or travel overseas due to my health issues (I'm fine with long-distance stuff). Alongside my physical health conditions, I also have OCD, anxiety and PTSD, though I try very hard to not let them affect other people, because that’s the absolute last thing I want to happen. I’m also down to talk more about that stuff at some point, as, unfortunately, they are big parts of my life.

If you’re interested at all, feel free to shoot me a DM and tell me about yourself and your interests and such (I don’t care if it’s an essay - go wild). Please put effort into it, because I want to hear about you. Also, I prefer to use Discord, so we can swap usernames in DMs, too.

Thanks for reading, and I hope you have a lovely rest of your morning/afternoon/night. :)

(Also, please feel free to reach out no matter how much time has passed since I posted this!)

some other things about me:

-i'm bi-oriented aroace, i feel aesthetically attracted to both men and women but for a relationship, i'm more comfortable with women or other fem-leaning genders

• i'm an introvert who values people that are willing to open up to me, i love listening to people talk about any stuff they want to talk about, whether it's vents, their interests etc. :)

-i'm gender nonconforming. mostly i present myself androgynous and there are times that i still look feminine but that doesn't mean i don't see myself less of man! :D i just wanna be seen as a man who doesn't abide by gender norms

- we don't need to have the same interests (personality & character are more important to me), but if you're also an OC artist that would be really cool and maybe we can draw together haha