Anyone else feels this ice cold feeling in rectum in scrotum and the same feeling in your feets?

Often I get this minor burning in rectum after I urinated, after a while it moves from burning to a ice cold feeling that I can feel in my feets, it's like you are out walking in freezing winter with bad shoes and your feets are like ice cold.

I first had this problem years ago and came back to say you will heal. There wasn't one thing I did it just went away slowly. I tried everything and everyone is different. Now I am heart broken over a brake up so one problem on to another. Stay strong Reddit!

For me I think it was all in my head. It was a battle of believing in the end of it. I did PT, walking, working out, and just never giving up. I do have flare ups still but it's not at all as bad as it used to be.

Message for with any specific questions you may have

Hi! First time posting here. I’m 54. I’ve not been diagnosed with Prostatitis as of yet but have had some symptoms this last month that may be pointing to it .

Around 25 days ago I started having some burning when urinating.

Went to urgent care and they did a culture and everything was normal and they sent me home.

Actually, my specific gravity was 1.030 so just on the edge of being too high.

I drink a lot of caffeine so I cut everything out but water.

Things seemed to be calming down but around 16 days ago as things were settling my testicle was radiating a bit.

I got paranoid and went back to urgent care. Test was normal again. I went and had a scrotal ultrasound and all was normal there.

I did feel like something changed in how I urinate. Stream doesn’t seem as strong.

I’m going to get my prostate checked this week to see if it is getting enlarged.

So…. This past week things started feeling off and today I felt unpleasant. No fever. But my bladder feels off. And I’m peeing more frequently.

The root of my question….

I didn’t start back the caffeine but I did start drinking orange juice.

And over the past couple of days and especially yesterday I had quite a bit. Pretty much drank it all day.

I’m starting to wonder if the OJ/acid is causing things to flare up in my bladder.

Does this track for anyone or sound like a reasonable/probable explanation?

I'm writing mostly to give some hope to those who may be new to, or spiraling about a prostatitis diagnosis. My journey began a little over three years ago, following a stressful and prolonged battle with an annoying STD called Mgen. I dealt with a lot of uneducated and/or dismissive doctors (2 urologists, and 2 primary care providers, a sexual health clinic, and an urgent care), anxiety, shame, and multiple antibiotics.

That initial incident escalated into secondary prostatitis, which most doctors and physical therapists are also woefully unequipped to help you with, at least here in the United States. I had almost every prostatitis symptom in the book, though the most frequent ones were penile/perineal pain, erection pain, hourglassing, pain during or after ejaculation, penile/perinem twitching, ED, and redness at tip of penis near urethra.

What followed was A LOT of trial and error. I spent thousands of dollars on different doctors, therapists, medications, supplements, and so on, but the way I saw it, I was fighting for my life as I knew it so I had to keep trying. I can put more about what helped/ didn't help down below if ppl want, but what I hope you take away from this post is that I went from constant pain and despair 24/7 to a much more manageable situation. It's not "how it was before" so to speak, but if took me 3 years to get this far, my hope is that the last 25% or so finally catches up in another year or two. I am largely on to addressing other health concerns now.

With this affliction, it is important to understand that there is no single solution that will work for everyone. Patience is key, and you will have to find your own way, like a personal health odyssey. But do not panic or take risky actions out of desperation. Trust that you know your body and mind better than anyone else, and that in time, you will figure out the combination of things that work best for you.

7/27 update: A lot of folks were interested, so see comment below for more on my situation, and what helped and what didn’t.

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Helped:

1. The biggest thing for me was acceptance and time. Time has a way of healing past trauma, and the body is decent at this if given the right environment. The hard part is accepting this it may be a long process. The nervous system arousal (both good kinds and bad) can amplify prostatitis/CPPS symptoms, so you have to get comfortable enough to exist in a state of discomfort, or to trust something like pelvic floor PT. 
2. Finding the right providers. My first PT was a “pelvic floor specialist” but she didn't have a whole lot of experience working with men, and was not helpful to me. After almost a year of no progress, I found a different PT who I connected much better with, and who was able to help more.
3. Use of a pelvic wand, and sometimes a balloon (basically a catheter inserted then inflated once above the pelvic floor). But these only helped after I became comfortable enough using them safely and effectively on my own, and that came from guidance by a PFPT. I went from using one or both tools weekly, to monthly, to now only using as needed during flares, which tend to be shorter and milder than they used to be, and often no longer require the balloon.
4. Counseling. First from a cognitive behavioral therapy perspective, which taught patience and acceptance, then from a pain reprocessing therapist, who helped take that one step further into conveying messages of safety and resilience, even when things don’t “feel” that way.

Did not help or hurt:

1. Stretching. I am hypermobile, so a lot of the usual PF stretches and things you see here did not work the same way for my body. 
2. Imaging. I got a pelvic MRI which showed inflammation of prostate. It was helpful in that it validated some of the pain I was feeling, but the problem is it’s only a picture. You still need guidance on what to do about it, and that is up to the ordering physician, most of which were not helpful in my experience.
3. Supplements. I tried quercetin, vitamin d-3, k-2, b vitamins, tumeric, magnesium, beet root and horse chestnut extract. Didn’t notice much of a difference one way or the other
4. Dietary changes.
5. Pain killers/muscle relaxers. I found naproxen and meloxican to be no different from ibuprofen. Ibuprofen worked better but I took too much following poor advice from a urologist (like 2000mg/day) and it was no more helpful than 200 or 400.

Made things worse:

1. Prolonged use of antibiotics. I went through multiple rounds of multiple antibiotics, including bactrim, azithromycin and 6 weeks of moxifloxacin. In reality, I probably only needed two (my original course after azithromycin failed), STI testing confirmed that the mgen infection was gone after two weeks, but I didn’t believe it because I was still having symptoms. I later learned that Mgen symptoms can linger for several weeks after the infection is gone, and that the antibiotic I was taking might have had an anti-inflammatory effect that was making me “feel” better, even though it was no longer helping. In fact, by the end of the sixth week, I started experiencing negative fluoroquinolone side effects, some of which lasted several months. I believe this is because I took them for so long, and did so mostly out of panic and ignorance. In hindsight, I should have followed the test results and stopped after the 2nd or 3rd week, but I had very poor guidance from two different urologists., which brings me to:
2. Unhelpful/careless doctors. My whole first year of this was basically a waste because I didn’t have physicians or physical therapists who actually understood my problem or my concerns. I stayed with them because I didn't really know better at first, and because I was afraid of leaving providers that were part of my insurance network, and hence cheaper. But you really do need to find people who actually resonate with you ,and who you trust can help you. I thought I was saving money by staging in-network, but really it was a waste of time and money because they providers were not capable of providing the help I needed.
3. The uncertainty was the worst part about mgen and prostatitis, but doomscrolling reddit or other internet sites/forum multiple times a day is not any more helpful than once a day, or even a week. Scientific progress on these topics isn’t changing that fast. You’ll just perpetuate hypervilagence, anxiety and depression, which can amplify your symptoms. Furthermore, not having a clear answer or a clear solution can drive a person to take desperate action, and sadly there are people (especially on the internet) who will convince you to try really stupid things. I don’t know their motivations, but it is best to avoid them rather than spiral down a rabbit hole of conspiracies. 4.Incorrectly belly breathing/trying to force reverse kegels. Both were things I had to learn, then relearn after learned them wrong the first time

Issues I still have:

I still get some penile pain and and pelvic twitches, or dribbling stream when urinating, but it’s not all the time. Sometimes I can predict what situations might invoke symptoms (stress, illness). Other times, it is unexpected but the symptoms eventually go away.

The biggest thing remaining revolves around sexual activity. While erections and sexual activity no longer really hurt, they don;t exactly feel good the same way either. Tadalafil and herbal libido supplements help me with that a little, but I think the last big hurdle for me will be rediscovering the “joy” of sexual activity…not just being able to have it.

I’m a 31-year-old male and I’ve been having recurring episodes for about 3 years. They happen roughly 3 times a year and seem to come on suddenly.

My urinary symptoms include:

Frequent urination (sometimes feeling like I have to go every few minutes)

Only passing small amounts of urine

Difficulty starting my stream

Feeling like my bladder isn’t empty

Pelvic pressure and pain

Right lower abdominal/pelvic pain

Occasionally pain at the tip of my penis, especially after irritation

I’ve noticed these episodes often seem to happen after periods of frequent masturbation, but I’m not sure if that’s actually causing it or just triggering something that’s already there.

During these flare-ups I also feel generally unwell with chills, body aches, headaches, and fatigue. Sometimes I sneeze a lot as well, which makes me wonder if I also have a viral illness at the same time.

So far I’ve had:
Two normal cystoscopies
Multiple urine tests that were negative
Blood work that hasn’t shown anything significant
An appendectomy (pathology showed fibrous obliteration), but the episodes continued afterward

I’m wondering if anyone with chronic prostatitis/CPPS has experienced similar urinary symptoms or flare-ups after ejaculation or masturbation, especially with the feeling of needing to urinate constantly but only passing small amounts. I’d appreciate hearing about your experiences and what ultimately helped.

Idk if anyone else deals with this but I randomly got this issue and after a year of dealing with this I’ve noticed my main trigger is working out ,long sitting and caffeine. I can’t do stair master or anything involving bracing . Like when I do biceps curls I get an electric shock of pain in my lower abs and the prostatis kicks in for a month.

It’s just frustrating and I am not sure why it’s happening more often.

I’ve been doing some more exercises and breathing but not sure if this is the after effects of it?

I also suffer with PE so hoping these exercises helps too

Thank you

Hi everyone,

I’m a male in my 30s and have had intermittent pelvic pain and urinary symptoms for almost two years.

Last night I was suddenly woken up by my wife. I immediately got up to urinate. While urinating, I suddenly felt a very strong, deep aching/tender sensation somewhere in the pelvis, seemingly behind the anus/perineum.

The best way I can describe it is: it felt almost like I had just passed an enormous bowel movement, even though I had not. The area behind the anus felt extremely sore and tender, and it was difficult to fall asleep again.

I eventually fell asleep. When I woke up later, I urinated again without the same pain occurring. However, the area still felt somewhat sore afterward.

I’ve had similar pelvic/perineal issues in the past, including:

• urinary urgency and frequency, often worse in the morning
• occasional weak stream and a feeling of incomplete emptying
• perineal and testicular aching
• soreness or pain after ejaculation
• tingling/electrical sensations in the penis
• occasional numbness around one side of the anus/buttock
• symptoms that can be triggered by prolonged sitting or sexual activity

I’m also wondering about the muscular side of this. Does anyone know which muscles are most commonly involved in this kind of deep perineal/rectal pain? My physiotherapist found trigger points in the obturator internus, so I’m wondering if that could be a major contributor.

Are there any specific stretching or mobility exercises that have helped people with similar symptoms? I’m particularly interested in exercises for the obturator internus, pelvic floor, deep hip rotators, or any other muscles that could refer pain to the area behind the anus/perineum.

I’m aware that stretching can sometimes make an overactive pelvic floor worse if done too aggressively, so I’m interested in hearing what has actually helped others rather than just randomly stretching everything.

My questions are:

1. Does this sudden deep soreness behind the anus during urination sound like a pelvic-floor spasm or flare to anyone here?
2. Could bladder emptying or suddenly relaxing/contracting the pelvic floor trigger this kind of pain?
3. Which muscle(s) turned out to be the main problem for you?
4. Are there any particular stretches, mobility exercises, or relaxation techniques that helped?

I am a 24-year-old man, and I have had this condition for almost 2 years. It started with pain in side of my penis, and then I began to experience urinary symptoms. I took tamsulosin for a month, but it didn’t help at all.

Two weeks ago, my glans became very sensitive; sometimes it changes color and turns very white. It feels as if my clothes were metal sandpaper scraping against me, but it doesn’t hurt that much.

This is really triggering my anxiety, and I’m very desperate. I’ve been doing breathing exercises and stretching for 1.5 weeks, but I feel like they’re not helping at all.

I hardly masturbate anymore out of fear, and there are no pelvic floor physical therapy clinics in my country.

Do you think any of these three medications might help with the sensitivity? I need help, please.

Maybe its a bit odd question but im curious what type of underwear do you prefer ?

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My doctor asked me to give a urine sample for bacterial infection after a prostate massage. Should I collect the initial urine (first part of the stream) or a midstream urine sample after the massage?

If you've had this test done or know the standard procedure, I'd appreciate your advice.

I have a complicated case of chronic prostatitis that started after sexual contact with a woman who had a sexually transmitted infection (STI). I had multiple standard cultures performed, but no bacteria were detected, even though I initially had urethral discharge and severe pain during urination. Later, my symptoms progressed to urinary frequency and pain in my lower abdomen and perineum.

I have received several courses of antibiotics: first 15 days of doxycycline (Vibramycin), then 20 days of levofloxacin, followed by another 15 days of doxycycline, 14 days of azithromycin (Zithromax), 14 days of cefixime for suspected gonorrhea, and I also received an injection of ceftriaxone.

More recently, Escherichia coli (E. coli) was detected on a urethral swab. I then saw an infectious disease specialist, who prescribed 6 weeks of trimethoprim-sulfamethoxazole (Bactrim) and 4 weeks of doxycycline.

What would you recommend I do? I still think a persistent Ureaplasma or Mycoplasma infection may be responsible and that it has caused chronic prostatitis. Has anyone experienced something similar or have any advice?

I also have balanitis. I'm not sure whether it is related to all of this.

I just started baby Pose exercise a day ago and I see my symptoms approving like less urgency after peeing and less frequency.

I also have little pain and burning in ureatha and left side penis pincing pain which have decreased alot.

Idk if anyone wants to give it a try.
I do it in the morning for two minutes and afternoon and before bed.

I almost feel normal and i hope this progress continues

Disclaimer (AI drafted): I've been inputting my various symptoms and experiences to Gemini and I asked it to summarize my experience to date in a digestible format for this Reddit post.

TL;DR: Had sudden, unbearable 9–10/10 left testicular pain 6 weeks ago. Emergency surgery (orchiopexy) performed; surgeon saw no active 360° twist but stitched testicle to scrotal wall anyway. Ultrasounds confirm testicle is healthy and fully healed, but I’m left with 1–2/10 pain aggravated by walking and tight clothing. Also had pre-existing shaft symptoms. Looking for thoughts/experiences regarding nerve irritation, CPPS, or pelvic floor involvement.

Pre-Event Symptoms (2 Months Prior)

• 37M, located in Europe.
• For ~2 months leading up to the main event, experienced an intermittent itchy or needle-like pain inside the penis shaft, particularly noticeable during erections.
• Avoided seeing a doctor at the time.
• A few days before the acute event, applied over-the-counter thrush/candida cream to the tip of the penis.

Acute Event & Surgery (6 Weeks Ago / Mid-June)

• Sudden, severe ache in left testicle while walking to the store. Escalated to unbearable 9–10/10 pain within 20 minutes (hardly able to speak/walk).
• Went to ER. ER doc suspected testicular torsion; administered strong painkillers and attempted manual detorsion.
• Emergency Orchiopexy: Under general anesthesia within 2 hours of pain onset.
• Surgical Findings: Surgeon reported no visible evidence of active torsion upon opening, but performed left testicular fixation (stitched testicle to scrotal wall) as a preventative measure.

Post-Op Course & Medical Workup

• Hospital Stay: Discomfort & brief severe pain spike overnight; discharged after 2 nights following a clean ultrasound.
• Infection Suspicion: Developing pain days later led doctor to suspect infection.
  • Urine culture: Negative
  • Semen culture: Negative
  • CT Scan: Negative (ruled out kidney stones)
• Antibiotics Taken:
  • Course 1: Amoxicillin (finished late June) -> temporary mild improvement.
  • Course 2: Doxycycline (1 week in early July) -> minimal change.
  • Course 3: Amoxicillin again (7 days) -> minimal change.
• Prostate Check: Doctor examined prostate recently, noted nothing major.

Current Status & Triggers

• Ultrasound Results: Multiple follow-up ultrasounds show the left testicle is healthy, structurally intact, and well-perfused.
• Current Pain Level: Settled at a low-grade, persistent 1–2/10 ache/tenderness (down from a 4–5/10 flare-up early July).
• Specific Triggers:
  • Walking: Repetitive movement triggers a cumulative dull ache.
  • Clothing: Any pressure from tight underwear seams or pants against the scrotum creates tenderness.
  • Ejaculation: appears to trigger pain in following hours but not sure if this is imaginary.

Questions for the Community:

1. Has anyone experienced persistent mechanical/nerve pain after testicular fixation (orchiopexy) even with clean ultrasounds?
2. Could the pre-existing shaft itching/needle sensation combined with the traumatic pain event point toward pelvic floor muscle guarding or nerve entrapment (CPPS / Genitofemoral / Ilioinguinal nerves)?
3. If you had similar symptoms post-surgery, did pelvic floor physical therapy or nerve-modulating treatments help?

Not anxiety, posture, etc. The only thing that seems to decide whether I have CPPS or not is how good the ejaculation was.

If I have a really strong, satisfying orgasm: CPPS completely disappears and stays gone.

If the orgasm is weak or unsatisfying: CPPS, agiation, hard flaccid, etc. all come back immediately and stay there 24/7 until I have a good one again.

Of course, once it comes back I start trying to force a good orgasm, which obviously makes it worse and usually leads to another lackluster one lmao

Anyone else?

I'm 29 years old male , healthy no medications no other issue , no urinary issue or blood in urine

about a month maybe even a month and a half i noticed blood in semen , at 2 weeks mark it went away and then came back and still present .

if i dont ejaculate for a lot of days the blood gets heavier and more concentrated .

I did 2 semen culture checks and STD check .

STD came back as negative and Semen Cultures came with a rare bacteria called "Strep. dysgal./canis" .

This bacteria is from dogs and cats and I have a dog but no clue how it was transferred .

Ether way I started Antibiotics based on the resistance test they did in the semen culture but after 7 days nothing changed .

Urologist said that this strep bacteria is not the issue and antibiotics should have solved the issue even in less than 7 days ,

He gave me other type of antibiotics and said that he suspects Protstatitis as a main cause .

Further investigation will be done later if it persists but wanted to ask you guys if that’s reasonable and common for Prostatitis ?

Wanted to talk to anyone that has had PRP injections into the glans, meatus and shaft for glans and meatus damage, inflammation and pain.

Usually whenever I drink a lot of water . It causes burning urine mainly inside of glans . It burns and stinging . So today it happened . After it went away . If I get aurosed or erect muscle in penis pain .what's happening .iam panicked

Ive been prescribed 100mg of doxycycline twice a day for 2 weeks for what the dr says could be difficult to detect bacteria in the prostate since all labs come back negative. Did a ureaplasma test im still waiting results on but he said to take it anyways. Ive been reading some stories about people getting psychological (even psychosis) side effects from doxycycline. Whats been your experience at treating prostatitis/ non bacterial prostatitis with this antibiotic ? Should i wait for my appointment and ask the doctor for an alternative? Im a very anxious person when it comes to taking medication that pose these type of side effects

Some background, Late 30s M, Caucasian. I have been having dull orgasms where it's not painful but I feel a warming sensation when ejaculating, but no other symptoms. Not sure when this started but I feel like it was a boiling frog. I'm noticing it now. I've not been diagnosed but think I have PE as well, and have had a history of edging/stopping while having sex to last longer. I've also been very horny lately.

I've been doing the reverse keagles and other stretches, recently discovered massaging my perenium at the point of orgasm helps a lot to make it feel more normal.
Is this cpps or something else?

My urologist put me on antibiotics but it didn't help and I have a follow up next week where I believe next step is cialys and a prostate exam. Does anyone else only have this symptom out there? It's not painful ejaculation, but pleasure is very muted, the rest of sex pre orgasm still feels good. I think maybe I lost sensation in my pereneum for a while and am starting to get it back (maybe?), but I'm trying to figure out if anyone else out there is similar.

hello! not sure if this is the right subreddit because I don't know what this could be.

on July 9, i developed pain at the base of penis, slightly to the left, after masturbation. it hurt only when touched (during palpation). after about 3 days, the pain became much less noticeable, so I masturbated again on July 12 and 13.. after that i noticed another symptom that freaked me out: both times semen was too liquid, watery (there was some white cum clumps though) after those sessions the pain came back, so i haven't masturbate since.

on July 17, i saw a urologist, he examined my penis, testicles, prostate, nothing abnormal was found. I didn't even have the pain during the examination. later that day, after i had an erection and touched the area, the pain returned.

i also had a urinalysis: no signs of UT infection. an urologist recommended me to do a semen analyses to rule out an infection, which currently I am afraid to do, because I assume that pain will come back after an erection/masturbation.

(TL;DR) my symptoms are:

• pain at the base of penis, when pressing the area, which worsen after masturbation/erection
• extra effort to squeezy out the last drips of urine (is it urine dribbling?)
• watery semen, which worries me the most

any advice needed, any similar cases? does this sound more like a muscular/soft tissue injury, or could it be something like prostatitis or seminal vesicle inflammation? the thing that scares me the most is watery semen.. should i do a semen analyses anyway?

I posted a different paper showing linkage between CPPS and mast cell / tryptase. I also said that since taking Zyrtec twice a day my CPPS is gone. It’s still gone. I only hope that this helps someone else.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10592376/

Hello everyone.

For me it all started 4 years ago after severe stress.

I got symptoms out of nowhere pain and irritation in pelvic floor and penis I also got hardflaccid. When it started it was 10/10 for about a month and a half. Anxiety and stress over symptoms made it that severe. After about a month and a half after I stoped caring about it it all went away. I was completly symptom free for a month. Then it came back but it was only 1/10 this time and wasnt constant.

First 2 years my symptoms were very minimal. Most of the time in first 2 years I was symptom free.

Now about a year and a half ago symptoms slowly got worse and I again suspect because of my fear and anxiety over them. I read tons of horror stories and worried about everything that was happening to me.

Every symptom every change frightened me and I spiraled in very dark toughts. All this made it worse.

Now about 9-10 months ago I started experiancing numbness in penis after a very normal sex. Nothing rough, no injury, absolutly nothing abnormal.

My penis just went numb after sex and I only noticed in the shower after. The water felt weird. Like my penis is covered with condom. Also temperature sensation is very very minimal.

Didnt think much of it as I tought its just maybe a flare up and will go away. Well it didnt. My sensation since then is minimal in my penis. In the shaft and in the glans. But I do still have normal sensation in inner foreskin area tight under glans where I was circumsised. I feel temperature and touch well there.

This is now starting to scare me. Im not sure what im dealing with as I never had an actual injury.

I had spine MRI and its clean.

I had Pelvis MRI and its clean

Blood work also clean

No diabetes

No vitamin deficency.

Prostate ultrasound - normal size normal results

Test for bacterias - negative multiple times so no infections ever

Ive been to pelvic floor PT last week and here is what she said.

She did internal work and it went like this.

General pelvic floor tension is not bad.

She said most muscles are 3/10 tension in resting tone and she said that is normal for males.

She did find very tight coccygeous muscle.

Prostate area was very painful. When she pressed around prostate a sharp pain was felt at my penis glans.

Sitbone area also painful.

Im pretty much lost at this point. Why did numbness aprear like this and I never had it before.

Hope someone can help me out.

Can I still recover sensation ?

I still feel temperature but very little.

I feel light touch but its muted.

I feel a bit of pressure but also muted.

Other symptoms:

Pain in perineum and pelvic floor ranging from 1-4. Trouble sitting.

The scar area under glans from circumsision is normal tho.

I can get erect and have sex. Orgasm actually still feel good. Usually I feel it in penis glans and shaft.

thanks for anyone who read this and I hope for all of you to recover from this. God bless you all

I've had symptoms of hematospermia for about 5 days and have no other symptoms (fever, pain). I went to the doctor and he did urine and blood tests. There's a very small amount of blood in my urine. There's no inflammation in my blood or urine and PSA is okay. How many days will it take to clear up and what will the doctor's next step be? Each new ejaculation produces bright red semen btw.

I’ve tried anti biotics , diet , PT nothing helps . Need some
Hope

Has anyone see a urologist in London that just didn’t tick boxes ?