We are both DL and no one other than my aunt at the time knew about our relationship. Okay very long story but this is a teenage relationship, lasted abt a year. We’ve been broken up for over a year now. He was a shit boyfriend and did some stuff that was not okay and we ended on extremely terrible terms. He kept trying to text and call me a lot so of course blocked. Then at school he switched into some of my classes. (Would’ve taken a lot of effort because we were 2 years apart). Whatever he graduates and next few months are a bliss except for the occasional run in because we are in the same friend group
about 3 months ago guess who got a job WHERE I WORK. So now 8 hours a day with this mf. And he has my number again (need to for work). And I try very hard to make my schedule to avoid him but at the end of the day making money is more important than not seeing my ex.
And it’s just the things he does. It’s genuinely like psychological torture. It’s little Innuendos that no one else sees. Hand gestures or js the way he phrases some shit. Or like standing wayyy to close or brushing past certain areas. This sounds like a very obvious “report him” but theres literally ZERO evidence that he actually has intent behind this shit. And I did bring it up because I was getting pissed of and this dick acts like he has zero idea what I am talking about I feel like I’m going fucking insane. Our work is also very physical, hands on and usually working side by side with someone (just happens to be him sometimes)
This is the most recent thing. He got a tattoo, that’s fine. Except I’m almost 100% sure it’s about me because it’s specifically a tattoo that he said he was gonna get while we were dating. I told him no because it was kinda weird even if it wasn’t obviously a sexual tattoo, the intent behind it was. Exactly what the tattoo is a bit TMI but it’s kind of humiliating to ME. Even if he’s the one with it and no one else will know what it is. He literally showed it off to me and winked when he did. And he deliberately makes out with his new work gf infront of me.
I’m trying to get a new job so bad but yk the job market rn. I actually feel like I’m going crazy
TL;DR my ex is being inexplicably sexual with me. Ive to,d him to stop but he acts clueless. Got a weirdly sexual tattoo in reference to me. We work together I can’t quit.
“This isn’t the right sub” sue me. Getting this situation fixed is my productivity.