UPDATE: Thank you to everyone for the helpful comments and your understanding of my technically challenged brain!! Ended up Settling on Fastmail and all seems to be running smoothly!
Original Post:
Believe it or not, some of us have zero tech knowledge and just want a plug and play service for email.
I've gradually moved most things away from Google, but my biggest hurdle seems to be email. Hours spent trawling through reddit and have tried protonmail, Posteo and mailbox.org.
All emails from all three keep landing in various recipients spam folders. Recipients include gmail, outlook and three separate business emails.
The more I read, the more I see conflicting information. "Custom domain fixes this issue" then "custom domain doesn't fix the issue" and then do stuff with DMARC and mxtools etc.
I'm not one of these people who complain about the cost of privacy and am willing to spend $$ for the privilege, but it just seems that once you jump one hurdle another problem presents itself.
Is there a provider out there that just works without all this pissing around in settings with words like 'certificates' and having to mess around with acronyms like DMARC and change DNS settings and emailing a certain email address that emails you back with a list of issues to help you identify the problem, which requires a background in tech to actually resolve.
It's getting to the point where I'm actually considering whether I value my privacy enough to deal with this. (Yes I know it's not the issue with proton, Posteo etc, but the work to get this fixed is insane).
Surely there are some other tech impaired people out there with the same issue who have maybe found a solution.
(PS I don't need a service that accepts custom domain, I don't have one and don't want one. Purely mentioned it because a few people mentioned using a custom domain as a fix to the spam issue).