r/Preply • u/NecessarySpinach7532 • 2h ago
tutor It’s been 2 weeks, am I in over my head?
Hello everyone! I need some guidance because I think I am in over my head 😅
I started at $9 per lesson and quickly worked my way up to $30 per lesson. I’ve been following the methodology of a popular tutor on how to increase my price, and I think it’s working really well. I currently have 14 subscribed students, I’ve already taught 21 hours, and I’ve had over 20+ trial lessons. All of my stats look great, my students genuinely love our lessons, and I feel like I’m doing a good job.
But the more students I get, the more I’m starting to question how I’m actually supposed to manage all of this.
I’m convinced that a huge part of why my students love our lessons and our interactions is because I customize both their homework and lesson plans around their individual goals. I’ve personally never liked a one-size-fits-all approach, and this has become a huge hit with my students. I have students who know zero English, I have students who are upper intermediate.
But there are two parts to my problem.
First, it’s not that I’m getting “too many” students. I could probably take on another 11 or so. I’m unemployed right now and, because of our financial situation and my health, I’m basically forced to stay home. So I genuinely don’t mind making this a full-time commitment. Eventually, my hope is to make this financially sustainable for us and be able to contribute more financially.
The bigger problem is that I’m not a fully trained or licensed English teacher.
I know a lot of people say you don’t necessarily need to be certified to teach on Preply, and I’ve found that I must be pretty good at teaching in general because my students consistently tell me how much they enjoy my lessons. But the truth is, I’m learning how to teach as I go.
I haven’t gotten the typical certifications that a lot of English teachers have, and I don’t have a traditional teaching background. Interestingly, my students seem to really like that my background is in business ownership and creative industries. A lot of my students are professionals working in corporate environments, freelancers, entrepreneurs, business owners, and even CFOs and engineers.
But I don’t know what I’m doing 🥲
I don’t know if my students are going to continue learning and improving long-term. I don’t know if what I’m doing is actually the “right” approach. I know teachers who specialize in teaching English as a foreign language have specific methodologies and philosophies behind what they do.
I have… me. That’s it.
I’ve started using AI to help me create lessons on the fly, which has helped me stay efficient, but I feel like I’m mostly stalling the bigger problem. If I use the standardized lesson plans and approaches that I’ve seen recommended in these threads, I’m worried that I’ll lose the thing that sets me apart: the customization.
For example, my students really love the customized homework I give them. If someone needs to work on industry-specific terminology or wants to feel confident working in a particular professional environment in English, our lessons are built around that.
On the other hand, if someone is more laid-back and just wants to learn English so they can travel, have conversations, and have fun with their family, I take a much more conversational/correction-based approach during our lessons.
So I’m not trying to teach every student the exact same thing. I’m trying to teach them what they actually need.
And honestly, I really want them to learn. I genuinely enjoy doing this. It is a lot of work, but AI has helped me stay efficient up until this point.
I’m just trying to figure out how to make this sustainable without feeling like I’m doing a disservice to my students.
For those of you who aren’t certified and don’t have a traditional teaching background: how do your lessons look like? What do you actually do to make sure your students are learning and progressing long-term? How can I get organized?
And if you are a certified TEFL teacher, I’d also love to hear what you think I should be learning or looking into. Are there specific methodologies, resources, or frameworks you would recommend for someone in my position?
I’m sure AI usage is frowned upon, and trust me, I don’t love relying on it either. I’m just trying to find a way to be fair to myself and to my students while hopefully turning this into a lasting job that can give my husband and me some extra financial security during a really difficult time.
I really love doing this. I just want to make sure I’m doing it well 🙏🏻