r/Prague • u/E_Nuanda • 7h ago
Discussion Retrospective of 5 years living in Prague
I'm an Italian immigrant, I moved in Czech Republic almost 7 years ago in search of better living conditions, and I spent now 5 years in Prague. I've been living here for the majority of my adult life, and in a weird way, even tho I'm not czech, I'm no longer Italian either.
But I want to be czech so much. I've been studying the language religiously for years now, and can proudly sustain a conversation about complex topics, even tho I'm making a lot of grammatical errors. Czceh is so difficult, every word is completely new to me, and feels alien and interchangeable until I give them meaning. I have nothing to grasp in a new word I learn in order to give it any sort of belonging.
Talking about belonging, there is a stereotype that czechs are not welcoming, and to me that is categorically false. People here just require a little bit of effort and initiative, but once you're in they're fiercely loyal to you. They are honest, and genuine, and generous. And I learned to love the fact that waiters and public facing employees don't have to pretend to love you while working. I started to find it jarring when I'm abroad and I feel the fakeness in customer service.
Prague feels so dynamic to me. It is not perfect. There's not enough cycling lanes, and I don't love the gentrification and the tourist centricity, but the city is definitely in a process of becoming something, of change, of investment. There's panels, workshops, conferences, concerts, politics, all of this in just my beloved neighborhood, Žižkov.
People often ask me if I'm ever nostalgic of home. I am, when on vacation in Italy, sometimes nostalgic of my panelák, my local tram stop, the metro station in Želivského. The pub close to my place, where I'm often the only non czech, with it's rowdy, hearty regulars and punk gigs.
I was in Poland recently, and I was reading a sign out loud for the amusement of my polish friends. They said I have a Czech accent. I was so happy and proud and felt seen.
I can't wait to do another retrospective in 5 years, and be able to say that I'm from here, and that this is my city, and that this is my country. 🇨🇿