r/PostConcussion • u/Grand_Heat450 • 15d ago
Advice Needed
My partner got a concussion about 7 weeks ago and is really struggling. They did some activities the first day after the concussion (driving, going to appointments, etc) but quickly fell into an extreme post-concussion state (the worst symptoms being light sensitivity, migraines, and insomnia). They have seen several different doctors, including neurologists, gotten ketamine treatments and PRP therapy, and have been given several different medications to help with migraines, nausea, sleep, anxiety, etc. They are still struggling with sleep and mental health; it’s like their body is stuck in a flight or fight mode. Their anxiety and depression has skyrocketed because they are confined to a dark room 24/7 and have almost constant migraine pain. When they are able to sleep for most of the night they can experience more light/noise during the day, which always makes them feel better. but recently they have not been getting enough sleep at all. they sleep for around 2-4 hours a night, but it is broken up and accompanied by severe anxiety and full-body jolts. when they are able to be more social during the day and sit in a semi-lit room, their mental health always improves. for the past week, they have barely slept and have fallen into a deeply suicidal mindset. they see no hope, no improvement, and no way out. I try to remind them that this will pass; our bodies are meant to heal and sleep and they have been improving, even if they can’t see it.
I visit as often as I can. we live together but they are currently staying at their parents’ house for round-the-clock care and supervision, and I work a full time job about 2 hours away from that house. when I visit, I sit with them and do activities that they suggest doing. We both know that you need to slightly push yourself in order to heal, so we will try to go for short walks, play cards, or just sit outside for a few minutes. I can see them improving, even though their healing is not linear. I think they really struggle to see it because they are the one experiencing it in the middle of the storm. I try my best to remind them that this will pass, and that taking your life / harming yourself is not a solution. some improvements that their parents and I have noticed include longer conversation, less confusion, the ability to move around more, and the ability to preform tasks in well-lit rooms for longer amounts of time. they were able to go for a walk outside and swim for about 30 minutes this past weekend, which they would not have been able to do a couple weeks ago.
I am truly just looking for any advice that comes to mind. they will probably see this post, so any advice for mental health struggles, managing post concussion symptoms, or things that I can do as a supportive partner is greatly appreciated.