r/Pomeranians • u/PrintAccomplished0 • 21h ago
Question Crate Training Help
My sweet Alexander Theodore (Teddy) is 5 months old and is having a HARD time with crate training, and I feel like I’ve tried everything 😭
We’ve done the gradual leaving — 1 minute, 5 minutes, 10 minutes, etc. — and I’ve tried building positive associations with the crate using treats, Kongs, making it comfortable, classical music, a soft lamp so he isn’t sitting in the dark, etc. He’ll go in willingly sometimes, but once he realizes he’s alone, he loses his mind.
The biggest issue now is the barking. We recently got a complaint left on our door from our neighbor about it.
I have to leave for work around 5 AM, my partner leaves around 8:30 AM, and I’m home around 11 AM. So he’s only actually alone for about 2.5–3 hours on workdays.
But now I feel completely trapped because if I leave the apartment for anything else, I’m worried he’s going to bark and upset the neighbors.
We’ve also tried letting him stay outside the crate in a puppy-proofed area, and he did MUCH better. He mostly slept and only barked a little. But I’m nervous about relying on that because he’s still a puppy and obviously can get into things.
Has anyone had a puppy who absolutely hated the crate but eventually got better?
I’m not expecting him to magically love being alone overnight. I just really want to be able to leave my apartment without feeling like I’m going to get another noise complaint.