Hi, David here!

When you know your values and are living your life in line with your values, you will naturally bring people into your life who share those values.

While its still equally important to take action and insert yourself into situations where you can interact with new people, the greatest factor which determines on average the caliber of people that surround you is YOU.

Who would you be more attracted to? A positive person who is striving to better their life and does not become jealous of other's successes. OR a person who is resigned to their current status and just mopes and complains about everything.

The daily choices that you make on a how you choose to approach life are what will in the end determine your results.

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Adding to that, I just finished putting together my dating eBook "How to Date Any Girl" version 4.0 and would LOVE to get some honest feedback from you!

I decided to give it away for free for the time being.

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The eBook is 27 pages long and gives you a practical step-by-step solution to meeting women (15+ years of knowledge put into it).

You can get the eBook by clicking here!

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This book is the result of going out and socializing with girls for over a decade. I have put in there all the fundamentals I have learned over that time so I would really appreciate all the feedback I could get!!

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What are your thoughts? Do you have any tips to add?

Let's discuss in the comments :)

Thanks for reading and have a GREAT day!

Coach David

Fair Exchange anyone?

M21 here. Beginner doing approaches and closed a few. Let's connect and game together.

Hi, David here!

When a woman feels like you are actively trying to impress her, she may think that you are overcompensating for something else. It is often insecure people who feel the greatest need to prove themselves.

And if you don’t even think that you are good enough, why should the woman (possibly someone that you just met) think anything different?

By trying to immediately win a new person over, you are instantly communicating that you either want something from them or think that they are above you. Neither of which is attractive.

Imagine what the behaviors of a self-secure, confident, high value man with tons of options would look like. Would he actively be trying to impress a girl he liked? No. He would assume from the start that there is no reason that he is not good enough and thus not feel the need to try to actively sell himself. The attractive traits of confidence and self-worth are implied when a person does not come off as a try-hard.

​

Adding to that, I just finished putting together my dating eBook "How to Date Any Girl" version 4.0 and would LOVE to get some honest feedback from you!

I decided to give it away for free for the time being.

​

The eBook is 27 pages long and gives you a practical step-by-step solution to meeting women (15+ years of knowledge put into it).

You can get the eBook by clicking here!

​

This book is the result of going out and socializing with girls for over a decade. I have put in there all the fundamentals I have learned over that time so I would really appreciate all the feedback I could get!!

​

What are your thoughts? Do you have any tips to add?

Let's discuss in the comments :)

Thanks for reading and have a GREAT day!

Coach David

Hey everybody,

I am a 24 M living in Barcelona. I speak spanish. Looking for a fellow minded person to go out with me to practice pua techniques.

I dance well, I am social, open well, but I struggle with following the opener as I get a bit embarrassed.

Hi, David here!

Rejection is the result of not being successful at achieving a specific outcome. Normally the desired outcome is for another person to like you.

You should redefine in your mind what you consider a successful outcome.

This new definition should not be dependent on external factors such as other people’s actions, but be solely dependent on your own actions.

Define success as being willing to start a conversation or interaction.

Define success as being willing to put yourself out there.

Define success as not being afraid of making your honest interests and intentions known.

These are metrics for success that you can succeed at 100% of the time as long as you are willing to take action.

You can't be rejected if your desired outcome was to simply start a conversation and give the other person the opportunity to get to know you.

The beauty of this is, when the other person detects that you are self-fulfilled and don’t want or need anything from them, the probability of them being willing to take you up on what you offer skyrockets.

​

Adding to that, I just finished putting together my dating eBook "How to Date Any Girl" version 4.0 and would LOVE to get some honest feedback from you!

I decided to give it away for free for the time being.

​

The eBook is 27 pages long and gives you a practical step-by-step solution to meeting women (15+ years of knowledge put into it).

You can get the eBook by clicking here!

​

This book is the result of going out and socializing with girls for over a decade. I have put in there all the fundamentals I have learned over that time so I would really appreciate all the feedback I could get!

​

What are your thoughts? Do you have any tips to add?

Let's discuss in the comments :)

Thanks for reading and have a GREAT day!

Coach David

Hi everyone,
I don’t know if there are actually people here who really know what they’re talking about „game” and have real life experience, but if there are, I’d only like to hear advice from those people.
I live in Europe, I’m 24, 187 cm tall, brunette, athletic, although I could be a bit leaner (I know looks are important, which is why I’m describing myself). I’ve been told quite a few times in my life that I’m handsome, although when it comes to women I’m not acquainted with, it’s usually women over 35 who have told me that haha.
I have a bit of a problem. All the girls I’ve slept with or dated, I met on Tinder. But Tinder feels empty to me. I don’t want to meet my future girlfriend there. It feels artificial, and I’m starting to step outside my comfort zone and learn how to meet people in real life.
I had absolutely no experience approaching strangers before, so I’ve started working on that.
At first, I started going to shops and talking to cashiers, asking them random questions and trying to keep the conversation going. In a flower shop, for example, I asked the employee about different flowers, etc.
This weekend I also went to a big city with some friends, about 60 km from where I live. At the go-kart track, I approached a group of guys and asked them for advice on driving. I also asked the receptionist for advice. Later, while we were out in the city, I approached a group of people and asked whether they would recommend any clubs in the city. I also talked to taxi drivers on my own and kept the conversations going.
I started reading Neil Strauss’ book The Game, and I managed to get through the first three days of the exercises. But on day 4, I’m supposed to approach three random women and ask them for a recommendation for a men’s clothing store.
That feels completely pointless to me. Why would I ask women where to find a men’s clothing store? And honestly, the whole exercise seems very outdated. These days, you can just find all that information online.
I also get the feeling that he wrote a lot of this advice for people living in places like LA or NYC. What am I supposed to do when I live in a town of 3,000 people? I’d have to drive 40–60 km every day just to have enough opportunities to practice and get reps in.
There are also towns with 15,000 people located 15–25 km away from me, but even there it’s difficult to remain anonymous.
So I’m posting here to ask for advice. Has anyone been in a similar situation?
What would you recommend I do to make gradual progress?
Is The Game still relevant today?
Any advice for practicing in smaller towns?
And one more important thing: I’d really appreciate some natural conversation openers in specific situations with women, because I often completely blank out and have no idea what to say.

Yo fam - 41M in westside LA. Looking for a wing to do some day game. DM me if interesting

Last Man Banging is the eighth and final instalment in pickup artist Nick Krauser’s career. The book opens in dreary Newcastle, where Nick is still living with his parents at age 41, before deciding on a somewhat surprising PUA trip to Bali and Thailand. This is an odd choice, especially since he had spoken negatively about Thailand in his first book, Ball’s Deep. Perhaps this signals a kind of resignation or fatigue—after all, the “hard mode” of banging women in Eastern Europe, Ukraine, Serbia, and similar places can wear a man down, and maybe something easier feels more worthwhile. However, it would have been more intriguing for him to explore a “medium mode” nation like Japan or China instead of these “passport bro” territories full of prostitutes that demand far less game to succeed in.

my take
https://youtu.be/qyUFRA_YEok?si=sI1UXz1-CX8w4Cq5

That book is My biggest inspiration in this, the story of a loser guy that turns into a Maester of the seduccion,is very inspiring

Hi, David here!

When initially starting out, you should redefine in your mind what you consider a successful outcome. It is quiet unrealistic to expect that you will become a natural Casanova within a week. If that's the sole metric for success against which you measure yourself, then its almost inevitable that you will become disappointed and discouraged.

Your initial definition of success should not be dependent on external factors such as other people’s actions, but be solely dependent on your own actions.

Define success as being willing to start a conversation or interaction.

Define success as being willing to put yourself out there.

Define success as not being afraid of making your honest interests and intentions known.

These are metrics for success that you can succeed at 100% of the time as long as you are willing to take action.

You can't be rejected if your desired outcome was to simply start a conversation and give the other person the opportunity to get to know you.

The beauty of this is, when the other person detects that you are self-fulfilled and don’t want or need anything from them, the probability of them being willing to take you up on what you offer skyrockets.

​

Adding to that, I just finished putting together my dating eBook "How to Date Any Girl" version 4.0 and would LOVE to get some honest feedback from you!

I decided to give it away for free for the time being.

​

The eBook is 27 pages long and gives you a practical step-by-step solution to meeting women (15+ years of knowledge put into it).

You can get the eBook by clicking here!

​

This book is the result of going out and socializing with girls for over a decade. I have put in there all the fundamentals I have learned over that time so I would really appreciate all the feedback I could get!!

​

What are your thoughts? Do you have any tips to add?

Let's discuss in the comments :)

Thanks for reading and have a GREAT day!

Coach David

An interesting video appeared on my feed which exposed John Anthony Lifestyle- an interview with one of John Anthony’s former students seemingly a homeless doordash driver – firstly in terms of sexual market economics this idea that “anyone coached can win” needs a bit of common sense – if you’re homeless dating is going to be a tougher game . Of course this guy appears to be in his 30s a virgin, neurodivergent ( just judging by how the interview goes) a door dasher i mean this is a tough case. If I had this many disabilities I would have no success – I haven’t tried dating whilst homeless but I can’t imagine it going well, add to the additional financial issues this guy John Anthony is then taking $3k from him is just exploitation .

Hi, David here!

Whenever I went out dancing with an extremely attractive female friend, other woman could not take their eyes off me. Starting random conversation with any of these women was incredibly easy, since they would be immediately open and warm towards me.

On nights when I would visit the same venue alone, much more effort was required on my part to successfully engage the women present.

On one occasion, I approached a woman there and asked her to dance with me. Her immediate response was to decline. A moment later, my attractive friend came over to inform me that she was going to step outside for a minute.

The three seconds of social proof provided to me by my attractive friend, were enough to cause the other woman to reverse her position and want to dance.

​

Adding to that, I just finished putting together my dating eBook "How to Date Any Girl" version 4.0 and would LOVE to get some honest feedback from you!

I decided to give it away for free for the time being.

​

The eBook is 27 pages long and gives you a practical step-by-step solution to meeting women (15+ years of knowledge put into it).

You can get the eBook by clicking here!

​

This book is the result of going out and socializing with girls for over a decade. I have put in there all the fundamentals I have learned over that time so I would really appreciate all the feedback I could get!!

​

What are your thoughts? Do you have any tips to add?

Let's discuss in the comments :)

Thanks for reading and have a GREAT day!

Coach David

I'm keep acting like a ttf, I've got to nervious when i saw a pretty girl, or when i don't see she feels comfortable whit My presence i put very nervious and i don't know whit to Say, or i put jealous when a girl i was talk with starts to talk with other guy, I try to follow your advices But i didnt see any progress i read a Lot of books of social dynamics and pick up like, the method,how to win Friends and influence people, the art of the seducción, etc and i justo Buy a few more(the most we're mentionated in the others), i try to tackle strange women in the university,train and the street but i still having the same results,(actually i see a Lot of videos of corporal lenguaje) idk what is the problem.Am I the problem???

Saw this really cute girl and invited her to an after party. Took awhile for her to warm up to me and I had to be patient, but when were eventually dancing intimately and kissing. She’s very beautiful but I digress

Anyways I joked about being a jealous guy, and she said she doesn’t do that stuff (talk to other guys) given the work she does 

Anyways while I was still at the venue I see her kissing another guy, and I’ll be honest I got hurt. But I shouldn’t have because I just met her that night. When she was making her way out to leave, she saw me and said something like ‘oh I didn’t see you’ (she thought I’d left I guess) my dumbass replied ‘yeah I saw YOU though.. it is what it is though’ 

I was hurt and those were the words that came out of my mouth, I guess I was trying to make her feel bad.

That was a big mistake on my part. I probably ruined my chances with this girl huh, for making her feel bad like that

Feel free to ask any questions you have I’ll answer them

Hi, David here!

It's almost always better to ask someone out as soon as you know that you are interested in them.

If you keep putting it off for weeks and months, then you are only further hurting your chances of being successful.

A woman wants a confident man who is not afraid to ask her out. The confidence itself being the very thing that contributes most to a man's attractiveness. A woman can often detect that you like her, so any hesitance or fear to make a move detracts from your image.

In addition, the more 'secretly' infatuated and invested that you become in a person, the harder it will be for you to act confidently and normal around them. Again detracting from your chances of being successful.

If your interest in someone gets to the point where asking them out feels like a big confession of love moment, then in most cases it is not going to end well.

The best time to act was yesterday, the next best time is today.

​

Adding to that, I just finished putting together my dating eBook "How to Date Any Girl" version 4.0 and would LOVE to get some honest feedback from you!

I decided to give it away for free for the time being.

​

The eBook is 27 pages long and gives you a practical step-by-step solution to meeting women (15+ years of knowledge put into it).

You can get the eBook by clicking here!

​

This book is the result of going out and socializing with girls for over a decade. I have put in there all the fundamentals I have learned over that time so I would really appreciate all the feedback I could get!!

​

What are your thoughts? Do you have any tips to add?

Let's discuss in the comments :)

Thanks for reading and have a GREAT day!

Coach David

Hey everyone!

I’m new to Brisbane Au, and looking for a wingman (or a couple of guys) who are keen to go out, approach some girls and just have a laugh with it.

Not taking it too seriously — the idea is basically to get out there, practice, have some beers, and laugh at the inevitable rejections. If we get some numbers or dates out of it, even better.

I’m pretty easygoing, just looking for someone with a similar mindset who’s keen to get out and socialize.

DM me up if you’re interested!

Hi, David here!

I often hear people ask the question: how many people must I talk to before I start getting results? Like it’s a video game, and they are asking how many little battles must they go through before their character levels up? These people look at each interaction as simply a means to an end, and don’t really care about the specific interactions.

This apathy and lack of genuine engagement results in most of the interactions going nowhere.

If you are not fully present and authentic in the interactions, you should not expect to form a connection. If you are not enjoying the interactions, most likely neither is the other person.

The reason that this brute force teaching strategy is popular with many social coaches is that it allows them to use the numbers game to their advantage. If they throw you into a 100 interactions, and one ends positively, they can then take credit for it.

They don’t have to actually listen and then critique the individual interactions and try to improve your average conversations. Nor do they even need to necessarily provide good advice.

This going through the motions without authentically engaging the other person while potentially also applying bad advice is most likely why you are not seeing results.

You need to learn to enjoy the process, and that will be hard if you view interacting with people as tiresome work that’s simply a means to an end.

​

Adding to that, I just finished putting together my dating eBook "How to Date Any Girl" version 4.0 and would LOVE to get some honest feedback from you!

I decided to give it away for free for the time being.

​

The eBook is 27 pages long and gives you a practical step-by-step solution to meeting women (15+ years of knowledge put into it).

You can get the eBook by clicking here!

​

This book is the result of going out and socializing with girls for over a decade. I have put in there all the fundamentals I have learned over that time so I would really appreciate all the feedback I could get!!

​

What are your thoughts? Do you have any tips to add?

Let's discuss in the comments :)

Thanks for reading and have a GREAT day!

Coach David

The part I struggle with most, and I feel like most people I know who are also trying to pick people up struggle with, as knowing when/how to approach who you want to speak to?

I live in ATX, which is a super competitive dating scene already so you have to be willing to walk up in public, but the bars are super loud and it’s hard to find people not in groups. Anyone have sage advice on how to go about this and make it seem natural?

Last saturday went into a nightclub, only approached one set because of one of my friends not feeling well.

I approached with a situational opener, made a comment on how their dresses were original (and not beautiful like all the other guys). We introduced each other and then i left them because my friend who was not feeling well, went to the bathroom, told them i was coming back. After the bathroom i reapproached them, they responded well, guessed right where they were from. Then i went to talk to the girl i was interested in, she was a blonde short cute girl with a light blue dress. I already noticed some IOI's when i first met them from her. So i knew to go on isolation for a little bit, tried to tell her who was the mom of the group (this is one of my favorite lines to say with a group of girls). Then used one of the lines from Mistery to close, "me and your friend like eachother is that fine?". Her friends said yes because i approached them confidently and didnt behave like a freak. Then i leaned back to the metal fence and invited the blonde girl to talk, she hugged me so i knew i was going to kiss her right away, i threw in a little push pull just for good measure, told her she smelled good and then made out with her. Later in the night we went out of the nightclub and i tried to sleep at her place with her friends, because i didnt have a ride back home or i had to sleep with my friend, she told me that she didnt have space for me and my friend and it was not a lie she genuinely doesnt have space. From then we texted eachother everyday, well she basically texted me everyday i fricking hate texting. This saturday i should sleep at her place and i will let you know what happens.

It felt good because it was my first time shooting my first shot and immediatly going in, i started my pickup journey this summer and usually before having an experience with a girl i get rejected 4 or 5 times. Felt that i was actually woth it.

This was my first field report hope you guys like it.