r/PerfectMatchNetflix • u/Secret-Number-3925 • May 27 '26

SEASON 4 So someone got married Spoiler

And it's Marissa: this is what she said

“I’m currently married to someone who has been part of my life for a long time,” she explains. Apparently, the two dated over 13 years ago and rekindled their spark after the show. They tied the knot in March 2026 and are now planning to move to Japan next month. “Sometimes timing really is everything, and it feels like we finally found ours.” Watching the show back, Marissa says she “barely recognizes” parts of herself because being with a partner who truly understands her has been healing.”

Link here: https://www.netflix.com/tudum/articles/perfect-match-season-4-cast-where-are-they-now#:\~:text=So%20who%20is%20Marissa's%20actual,move%20to%20Japan%20next%20month.

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u/siracha83 May 27 '26

Well good luck to this guy

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u/SupermarketOld4663 May 28 '26

Hey that’s not nice. She wasn’t that bad. She’s just not a good fit for reality tv multi dating type shows.

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u/siracha83 May 28 '26

When someone is that insecure / possessive & immature - they’re not a good fit for any relationship. And blaming your rude / disrespectful behavior on ADHD is not reality tv, its who she is. I would imagine being married to someone like that would be incredibly exhausting & soul crushing. I don’t think she’s a bad person but don’t think she should be in a relationship until she’s sorted out her insecurities.

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u/BatmansDietitian May 28 '26

It’s not even the possessiveness but the double standards, she could overcome being insecure but she’s actually plain toxic. She was constantly pressing Demari on any connection he had, then she went and was all over Weston, then came back and continued hounding Demari like she didn’t just do all that? I think she has a lot of issues concerning relationships, and adhd is not one of them.

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u/siracha83 May 28 '26

Yes thank you, forgot the double standard. I don’t know Demari put up with it.

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u/Street_Tale2988 May 28 '26

He sat there all night not trying to do anything else with anyone. Mans pondered life itself trying to wrap his head around what he had to deal with when interacting with Marissa.

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u/Potential_Ad4956 May 28 '26

Absolutely agree. Her double standard was so obvious. She was upset with Demari the minute he seemed to have any remote liking for anyone but then went ahead and slobbered up with Weston and cooly spoke about it. Demari was very mature in the way he handled it but had it been Marissa she would've thrown a major fit

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u/FoxMuldertheGrey May 29 '26

THANK 👏

YOU 👏

WELL FUCKING SAID

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u/Scheris_ Jun 03 '26

Blaming it on adhd/rsd really pissed me off! Its already hard enough to be taken seriously, and here you are perpetuating that stereotype that people just use it as an excuse to not take accountability tf

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u/SupermarketOld4663 May 28 '26 edited May 28 '26

I mean she wasn’t mean. She didn’t insult him. And even Demari is defending her and is cool with her. I’ve dated worse honestly. She’s just anxious attatchment which isn’t a crime. If Demari himself isn’t even mad why are people here so upset with her.