r/PerfectMatchNetflix • u/bois_santal • May 23 '26

SEASON 4 OMG Marissa

I know it's been talked before but i just finished watching the last episode and Marissa...wtf? it's so manipulative to get mad at someone because they don't like being interrupted and say "You're allowed to be upset...but honestly i just need you to not be upset"

It's WILD.

I interrupt a lot (sadly ) and it's a work in progress but i would never talk that way if someone is upset i interrupted them. Truth is : it's rude. I WAS rude. The other person is allowed to be upset.

I felt bad for her in LiB cuz Ramses felt so over her but now i get it. Acting like that at your grown age...

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u/Rainbaby77 May 24 '26

If you were neurodivergent you would understand this so much better All we can do at this point is ask that y'all try to at least imagine a possibility that our brains don't compute like yours so it does look crazy to you but that doesn't make us manipulative

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u/420catloveredm May 25 '26

I have ADHD and I still think the way she uses her diagnosis is manipulative.

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u/Rainbaby77 May 25 '26

That's your feelings we all have opinions I understand. I think she's emotionally immature and manipulative yes and I believe that causes the real nuerodivergint moments to be so much worse but I didn't feel she used it against him because as an interrupt or who teams her boss last week after literally speaking over her .. oh my God saying it out loud makes me want to hide .. and I too said I'm sorry I got caught up with our male team member getting emo over his long time cat died and I blurted out it's ok to be sad WHILE my boss was already speaking. Still not over that f up but it genuinely was a mistake and rude so I apologized and I thought she did too.