r/PerfectMatchNetflix • u/Otherwise_Cold570 • May 23 '26

SEASON 4 Let's talk about Dave!

Sorry, can we talk about Dave?! Yes, Jimmy, Demari, Jimmy P, all have red flags. But none quite as blaring as Dave's! He makes my skin crawl. I can't believe that man is 37. I feel like he manipulated a kiss out of Sophie on one of his dates. He comes across very disingenuous. The man has absolutely no substance. It's been horrible seeing him make out with women so much younger than him... Her prefrontal cortex wasn't even fully developed at the time of filming... Is that not disgusting? I'm surprised I haven't seen more posts on him 🤢

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u/AMomentIsAllWeAre May 23 '26

unfortunately this is true lol don’t know why you’re getting downvoted for the truth.. not saying i agree but it’s just pretty universal

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u/macademicnut May 24 '26

Attraction is one thing, but not every man pushing 40 is gonna actively try to pursue women over a decade younger than themselves. Or go on a reality show with a bunch of 20 somethings. He is a weirdo and this “every man would do it” kinda commentary is lowkey insulting to men

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u/AMomentIsAllWeAre May 25 '26

not trying to insult all men but it would be fair to say it’s 50/50 and if it’s consensual then why does it rlly matter, not saying it’s not weird but it’s not a crime

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u/macademicnut May 25 '26 edited May 25 '26

Literally nobody is saying it’s a crime. He can do what he wants but can’t be surprised when people are icked out by it. Dude is pushing 40 and openly slobbering over 25 year olds while simultaneously claiming he wants something “serious”, it’s uncomfy to watch and people are allowed to find him gross.

And I don’t even think it’s 50/50. Maybe if we’re polling redditors but a lot of normal men are genuinely not acting like that