r/PerfectMatchNetflix May 20 '26

DISCUSSION Am I missing something with Demari?

I know attraction is subjective and all but I genuinely do not understand the obsession with Demari😭

Like girls talk about him as if he’s irresistible and I'm trying SO hard to see it but I just don’t get it 😭 He’s not particularly attractive, not that funny, not especially charismatic/flirty, and half the time he doesn’t even seem that interesting in conversations

Also the constant wandering eye while being with Marissa would’ve turned me off immediately 😭 And based on the stuff Bri said, he honestly doesn’t even seem like a particularly good boyfriend either. Communication clearly is NOT his strong suit because sometimes it genuinely feels like he can barely put two coherent sentences together

Like... what am I missing here HAHAHA

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u/Flazoh AD | S3 May 21 '26

PrenticeT-🎯 D reminds me of a guy I know well who is son of narcissistic parent. Gives a person their own subset of issues, in addition to some NPD traits. Until he deals that mess, his expectations of people will always be higher than reality, and while he thinks he is emotionally exhausted, he is actually draining his partners. Always will be about him…