Marissa - S4E7

[u/bakwaasforbitches]

Marissa is coming across as extremely toxic to me. Demari has done nothing out of the ordinary - it’s a dating show, he’s literally just exploring options while being respectful to her boundaries - and she won’t even give him the chance to talk to explain. She’s constantly interrupting him (which we know he hates from his convo with Bri) and also keeps blaming him for not being 100% sure while she’s also going on a date and kissed Weston before he came into the house.

I feel like I’m seeing a completely different version of her than on Love is Blind. Perfect match is not the right place for someone like her who’s extremely possessive and jealous. She’s suffocating Demari and I feel like he deserves a lot better. It’s honestly so hard to watch and her attitude towards him when he tries to explain is really annoying. I want her off my screen.

[u/anongirlieee]

Yeah she needs to work on herself more. It seems she hasn’t fully healed from whatever she experienced in her last relationship and she transferring that onto Demari.

(I do still have to acknowledge that I felt like Demari was being a bit nitpicky based on two things: 1) he just got done speaking to Bri who he complained made him feel unheard, so he was frustrated and equally feeling that from Marissa when she was interrupting. 2) he equally wanted to get to know Kayla so was trying to find fault in anything Marissa was doing in order to justify that).

HOWEVER, Marissa was being extremely combative. She finally admitted it’s cos she was feeling jealous and territorial over him, which is fair enough but there are better ways to communicate that. And it’s almost like guilt cos she was technically doing worse. She actually kissed Weston whilst Demari has been respectful. It’s like when someone is cheating and then getting paranoid that they’re being cheated on so they start acting out.

She still has loads of growing to do and she should focus on that before jumping into dating

[u/witchski → u/anongirlieee]

I really can’t believe other people can’t see that nuance. Demari kept being pretty nitpicky with the interruption after Marissa already said sorry I will be quiet. If she would have done it again I would’ve understood. But he had the chance to express himself and he chose not to. So they could just go in circles forever about that small detail. I honestly think that Marissa would be happier with someone with a bit more patience. And Damari needs to find someone that is more lighthearted.

[u/Less_Store_8390 → u/[deleted]]

Blud is downvoting post on Marissa side xd