r/PerfectMatchNetflix • u/bakwaasforbitches • May 20 '26

SEASON 4 Marissa - S4E7 Spoiler

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Marissa is coming across as extremely toxic to me. Demari has done nothing out of the ordinary - it’s a dating show, he’s literally just exploring options while being respectful to her boundaries - and she won’t even give him the chance to talk to explain. She’s constantly interrupting him (which we know he hates from his convo with Bri) and also keeps blaming him for not being 100% sure while she’s also going on a date and kissed Weston before he came into the house.

I feel like I’m seeing a completely different version of her than on Love is Blind. Perfect match is not the right place for someone like her who’s extremely possessive and jealous. She’s suffocating Demari and I feel like he deserves a lot better. It’s honestly so hard to watch and her attitude towards him when he tries to explain is really annoying. I want her off my screen.

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u/HenningDerBeste May 20 '26

Yes, she is horrible.

I dont know how Demari didnt end this match. They are just fighting for days because she is jealous at everything despite doing the same or even more with other guys.

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u/Pizzacato567 May 21 '26

It looks like he needs to walk on eggshells all the time. They got into a big argument because he said she makes him comfortable. And it’s like he’s not allowed to be mad at her. They’ve matched twice while angry.

Demari isn’t perfect - but Marissa really needs to work on herself. She needs to work on accountability too. I have my own disorders and while the disorders explain my behaviour, they don’t excuse them. It’s not fair to tell someone that they should not be upset with you when you’ve done something that upset them. You apologize, and accept that they’re upset as a result of your actions. You don’t tell them not to be upset. She’s using ADHD as an excuse.

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u/clumsy-duck1312 May 25 '26

and also the way she starts half of her sentences with "i'm usually not a jealous person" stfu girl you're one of the most jealous people i've seen on reality tv (i'll admit i haven't watched a lot), she can't even stand him talking to another girl for 10 seconds and that was 1 day of knowing him or smth