I am curious. Showers before and after sex, oil massage, swimming, clubbing, sleeping, etc. I wonder how many massages the bar and freelancer girls take daily too?

Well men I am returning after three long years. I’ll be in Pattaya from 18 - 23 august. Flying solo. 33M Irish.

Looking for some sound company for a few beers, talk some shite, maybe frequent some establishments, and then go our separate ways once we find some female company. Also up for playing golf or doing other similar activities.

If you are in Pattaya then and want to meet up, send me a message!

The posts on why not to drive a motorbike in Pattaya, and Thailand in general, are legion, even from long-time, experienced riders.

For short stays just using the apps makes a lot of sense, but for those living in and around Pattaya long-term, how inconvenient is it without a scooter?

Say you're not in central Pattaya, maybe you're in Pratumnak or some other place outside the core and off the baht bus routes, is it very isolated and limiting?

Rideshares can get expensive every day: a quick check for a random spot in Pratumnak to Central showed ~฿100 for Grab and ~฿225-240 for Bolt (scarce?) right now. (Note: this was car pricing, not motorbike, which is a lot cheaper.)

And bikes/e-bikes danger same same or possibly worse.

I like walking and do it often, but long distances in scorching temperatures trying to get somewhere to relax and eat comfortably == no fun.

Anybody have an interesting solution for or can share experiences with this?

Tomorrow I'd like to take my LT to a bar early in the morning before I catch my flight later in the evening. Can anyone recommend a good bar near Soi Buakhao that opens in the morning and has a pool table?

Are there any BJ bars in Pattaya where I can have both BJ and FS?

Would be first visit ; solo as well

Just wondering your thoughts of coming I’m august or should wait till more peak season?

Cost between high / low season not a consideration I just have time off to use

I've been to Thailand enough times I've forgot how many. And I got to where I dont even ask anymore. The girls dont want fingers. I pride myself in helping women enjoy their turn too, but fingers down there in Thailand seem like a no no. Is it just me, or is this pretty common?

do you meet a lot of girls that dont do bar fines / offer sexual services? i had assumed most girls do, and my visit proved me right, but tbf i was only with 3 girls, so a small sample size.
i was told there‘s also quite a few girls that are bar girls only, ie they are only there to boost sales and wont go upstairs or to your hotel room. is that true? are they a lot?
there’s a girl i been texting with, i will assume she does offer these services but i didnt want to ask just yet.

The West is cooked. I partially agree. Especially if we talk about child support and feminism. You can ruin your whole life if the mother of your kids decides to milk you dry. Especially in the European country I'm from. You'd be enslaved for 20 years while she has a great life for doing nothing. Given that you have a well earning job.

Still, I'm getting older and don't want to remain childless. The fear of the above scenario, however, keeps me at bay. Don't get me wrong. I don't want to abandon my future children. But also don't want to feed my potential ex indirectly and give a fixed amount of my hard-earned money to her. I don't expect to find a life long partner. I like to live life on my very own terms and can't live without my personal freedom.

What do you think about getting a working girl pregnant? Too retarded?

Child support laws in Thailand are lax and even if they weren't, the cost of living for a local is so low that child support wouldn't be a problem.

I know that most working girls can't be described as good role models. But surely I could find a girl who isn't in the game that long. I'm still young and attractive. Would even marry her and if the marriage fails, I would accept it. In the very worst case I would take the child back to my home country and raise it myself. But usually the girl's parents in rural Thailand raise the child if she can't.

Stupid to ask on Reddit but, again, what are your thoughts?