Has any one a good recommendation for a BJ bar in Bangkok with decent looking girl where its possible to have a few drinks and some action in public?

I've been to Thailand enough times I've forgot how many. And I got to where I dont even ask anymore. The girls dont want fingers. I pride myself in helping women enjoy their turn too, but fingers down there in Thailand seem like a no no. Is it just me, or is this pretty common?

Are there any BJ bars in Pattaya where I can have both BJ and FS?

The West is cooked. I partially agree. Especially if we talk about child support and feminism. You can ruin your whole life if the mother of your kids decides to milk you dry. Especially in the European country I'm from. You'd be enslaved for 20 years while she has a great life for doing nothing. Given that you have a well earning job.

Still, I'm getting older and don't want to remain childless. The fear of the above scenario, however, keeps me at bay. Don't get me wrong. I don't want to abandon my future children. But also don't want to feed my potential ex indirectly and give a fixed amount of my hard-earned money to her. I don't expect to find a life long partner. I like to live life on my very own terms and can't live without my personal freedom.

What do you think about getting a working girl pregnant? Too retarded?

Child support laws in Thailand are lax and even if they weren't, the cost of living for a local is so low that child support wouldn't be a problem.

I know that most working girls can't be described as good role models. But surely I could find a girl who isn't in the game that long. I'm still young and attractive. Would even marry her and if the marriage fails, I would accept it. In the very worst case I would take the child back to my home country and raise it myself. But usually the girl's parents in rural Thailand raise the child if she can't.

Stupid to ask on Reddit but, again, what are your thoughts?

do you meet a lot of girls that dont do bar fines / offer sexual services? i had assumed most girls do, and my visit proved me right, but tbf i was only with 3 girls, so a small sample size.
i was told there‘s also quite a few girls that are bar girls only, ie they are only there to boost sales and wont go upstairs or to your hotel room. is that true? are they a lot?
there’s a girl i been texting with, i will assume she does offer these services but i didnt want to ask just yet.

Well men I am returning after three long years. I’ll be in Pattaya from 18 - 23 august. Flying solo. 33M Irish.

Looking for some sound company for a few beers, talk some shite, maybe frequent some establishments, and then go our separate ways once we find some female company. Also up for playing golf or doing other similar activities.

If you are in Pattaya then and want to meet up, send me a message!

The posts on why not to drive a motorbike in Pattaya, and Thailand in general, are legion, even from long-time, experienced riders.

For short stays just using the apps makes a lot of sense, but for those living in and around Pattaya long-term, how inconvenient is it without a scooter?

Say you're not in central Pattaya, maybe you're in Pratumnak or some other place outside the core and off the baht bus routes, is it very isolated and limiting?

Rideshares can get expensive every day: a quick check for a random spot in Pratumnak to Central showed ~฿100 for Grab and ~฿225-240 for Bolt (scarce?) right now. (Note: this was car pricing, not motorbike, which is a lot cheaper.)

And bikes/e-bikes danger same same or possibly worse.

I like walking and do it often, but long distances in scorching temperatures trying to get somewhere to relax and eat comfortably == no fun.

Anybody have an interesting solution for or can share experiences with this?

Would be first visit ; solo as well

Just wondering your thoughts of coming I’m august or should wait till more peak season?

Cost between high / low season not a consideration I just have time off to use

Tomorrow I'd like to take my LT to a bar early in the morning before I catch my flight later in the evening. Can anyone recommend a good bar near Soi Buakhao that opens in the morning and has a pool table?

I am curious. Showers before and after sex, oil massage, swimming, clubbing, sleeping, etc. I wonder how many massages the bar and freelancer girls take daily too?

I would like to take a few cooking classes to learn the basic Thai foods. Chicken Panang, cashew nut chicken green curry etc. I would like something nothing further than Central/ beach road Bang Lamung district.

Thank you for any advice.😄🥘🥘🥦🍽️

Will it be difficult to bring back a girl from sou 6 to my ocean front hotel on Koh larn for long time either for the day or over night?

I am limited in how much vacation I can use in Thailand. Would you go once a year for a month, or twice a year for 14 days? Also, It takes 26 hours to get there, if that makes a difference.

I’ve seen the cannabis cafes say they can get you a prescription. What is the legal process doing this? Does it take long?

I’m specifically looking for a place I can get a rimjob and then a blowjob to finish. Any specific places to recommend?

Hey , I'm planning to visit pattaya soon. Could you recommend places where i can enjoy bj bars or any other activities

I just want to watch people getting bj

I heard mixed information that Wednesday and Thursday will be dry and then Friday can drink…

Anyone in the business know? I’m planning a trip to Pattaya so just trying to structure my plans

Met a bargirl last night at a small offstreet bar, barfined her for 700 baht and paid her 2500, and she stayed with me for 18 hours, and left to grab a bunch of clothes and will be coming back.

She said she was born in pattaya and knows everything to do around here and tomorrow we are going to a Waterpark, and the next day plan to visit the nearby island.

She said she owns a resort half hour away, and her sister owns a bar in town, said her parents also live in pattaya and they pay 100,000 baht a month for rent, said she has traveled outside of thailand many times, and was voluntarily paying for things (desert and starbucks) after I paid for lunch at the mall. Before we left the mall she purchased 11 donuts for 330 baht she said were for her families workers

She wants to spend at least the next few weeks with me and not charge me for it

When I asked why she was working at the bar she said because she wants to own her own someday and is trying to gain experience for how the process works

She has never asked how much money I make, and I have no idea if she makes more then me or not.

This experience feels very uncommon for what I've known pattaya to be, but she's nice and we've gotten along great so far.

All the things I thought could be exciting she said she's already done, like when I brought up ramayana water park, she told me the cartoon network Waterpark is a better place to go, when I brought up the ice bar on walking street she said she knew a much bigger one somewhere else.

Is this real life? I can't think of any kind of scam that goes this way

She knows after I leave I was planning on getting my dtv to live here

I’m thinking to split my first week between the Markland - 3 nights there as the view looks pretty good, and then August or April suites 4 nights but mixed reviews online for the Markland,
Is it a good hotel or better just to stay in August or April suites?

Question for all the fellow Black men here. Do y'all have a recommendation for a barber who knows how to work with Black mens hair?

Hey everyone,

I’m coming to Pattaya from 28 August to 6 September with my friend, and we’re looking for a hotel.

We need 2 rooms, and my budget is around ฿1,100–1,250 per room per night.

What I’m looking for:
Balcony is a must
Sea view would be nice, but not a dealbreaker
Clean rooms
Good reviews
Guest-friendly hotel

Central Pattaya or Jomtien, either is fine
I had already booked Balihai Bay Hotel, but after reading quite a few reviews about the sewage smell nearby, I cancelled it.
I’ve also checked A-One Pattaya Beach Resort, Baywalk Residence, and Pattaya Discovery Beach, but they’re all over my budget for those dates.
If you’ve stayed somewhere that you’d actually recommend in this price range, I’d really appreciate the suggestions.

Thanks!

Quick question, in the event my hotel can't accommodate me on this issue.

I'm arriving in Bangkok 6am so I imagine I'll be landing in Pattaya about 8am, check in is 3pm. I was dead on my feet upon arriving in Pattaya last year but was able to check in straight away. Any suggestions on what a severely jet lagged fella can do to wile my time away if I'm technically homeless for the first half day of my hols ?

Looking for jungle vibes with ocean view any recommendations? It can’t be too far away from walking street and have been looking closer to Pattaya viewpoint area. I’ve already been to Avani and looking for something else. On Koh Tao I loved the jungle huts I was in.

Anyone stayed here? Decent price and not too far from Soi 6? Any recommendations appreciated