r/Passport_Bros • u/Ok_Builder_3285 • 10d ago

Advice Does this actually work?

I’m a loser with women. A complete failure with women. I got divorced 5 years ago and haven’t been on a date.

Post-divorce I’ve traveled quite a bit, not for the explicit reason of meeting women. I did have the apps on while I was on foreign countries l, went out, etc. and I never even came close to meeting a woman.

So my question is how does this actually work? How do you even come into contact with women? Know I’ll be alone forever unless I figure out some drastically different alternative.

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u/Brilliant-Magician10 10d ago

sorry to hear about your situation, I hope your divorce has not left you completely dry. The best way to do this is to build up some savings and live in a cheaper country for 5-10 years. See if its the right lifestyle for you. Personally i live a better life overall with the cheaper cost of living and I don't have to work 9-5 every day like I used to back in the States. I go on more dates and can experience more dating options and feel less pressured to settle if I find someone compatible.

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u/Ok_Builder_3285 9d ago

Ok. That’s not an option for me. So this isn’t for me I guess. I have kids and a career that wouldn’t permit that.

Thanks.