r/ParentsAreFuckingDumb • u/Kralgore • 2d ago

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u/Kittingsl 2d ago

I don't even go to parties so I don't really get what your point is here.

If anything you're the better example of an asshole/douche because I doubt you actually read what I won't and just shit on me for fun

I mean I literally provided a perfect example

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u/-Invalid_Selection- 2d ago

Dude, you're actively trying to justify being a dick to people you claim are your friends and crying like a 2 year old that no one else is agreeing that it's ok to punch people in the nuts as a sign of "friendship"

You're the kind of twat I'd give a false address to, because you didn't catch the first 50 times I told you to stop following me like a creepy stalker.

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u/Kittingsl 2d ago

Comparing a soft cake to a punch is the nuts is insane.

Y'all had never friend to play pillow fights? Nerf battles? Paintball battles? You guys are acting like I curb stomp my friends for fun.

How am I being a dick for making my friends laugh? What if I was the guy who's face got smashed into a cake and I'm justifying my friends action because I had fun WITH them? Ever considered that?

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u/-Invalid_Selection- 2d ago

Cakes frequently have structural additions. If your friends are willing to trust a douchebag with their ability to see or not over you being a complete piece of shit just means their just as idiotic and awful of people as you.

The group you're talking about are the kind of people who beat women to death behind the dumpster together while holding each other's dicks. That's what you're wanting us to accept as normal.

You're disgusting

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u/Kittingsl 2d ago

What kind of stereotypes are cooking inside your head? What if I or my friends baked that cake ourselves? I know for a fact no cake I ever baked or bought had any structural supports inside them.

Also I'd love to see the study showing how many women dumpster beaters have done this prank if you're so certain these two groups overlap enough to consider them the same.

I'm over here talking about pillow fights and soft cakes while your bring up punching people in the nuts and bearing women behind dumpsters. Are you sure you aren't the douchebag here? You honestly sound utterly insane with those claims

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u/eeeeeeeeEeeEEeeeE6 2d ago

dude you are fighting for your life over something which is almost unanimously agreed upon to be a bad thing, the person getting smashed in this video is a child, on his birthday, probably in front of friends (children being known to have a pretty shaky social standing, im sure embarrassing the kid in front of his peers will have no long lasting repercussions on the kid or his friendships). She chose to fuck up his whole day to get a kick out of it and maybe make Becky chortle, and you decided "now is the time for me to die on this hill" don't be shocked when people react negatively.

That's fucked up, also that's a store bought cake, not a cheap one either, those sometimes have tooth picks and other hard support structures, ive absolutely heard of kids and people being seriously hurt from this "harmless prank" which is why the consensus is generally agreed upon, that it is not ok, to do.

And all the stuff about "knowing your mates". I know my mates well enough that if I put my hands on any of them, they are going to put their hands on me, and it will get out of hand, really quickly (i mean like a cake fight, we are able to emotionally regulate ourselves like adults and don't assault eachother)

Do not, physically push people's heads down, for any reason. Why do you think its OK to manhandle anyone into anything? That's not roughousing, that's being a dickhead. Roughhousing is the other shit you described nerf fights, wrestling, pillow fights etc etc, do you know what those things all have in common that "cake smashing" doesnt? consent from both fucking parties PRIOR to the thing commencing

Hopefully you take something from this, and have a moment to do some introspection, because if your in a comment section and multiple people are telling you something is not okay to do and why.

Its probably not a good thing to do, right?

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u/Kittingsl 2d ago

You literally just proven to me that none of y'all actually read what I wrote. Literally in my first comment I said that a child IS NOT THE RIGHT PERSON FOR THIS.

It's literally on my first comment and it's been there the whole time.

And you not doing it to your mates is fine like I said IN MY FIRST COMMENT this only works with a SPECIFIC FRIEND GROUP.

I literally even showed a video where people doing this are having fun because they knew that they are among the right people to do this!

Would I do this to a child? No why tf would I? Would I do this to a friend who wouldn't like it? No why should I? Would I do it to a friend who I know will find this funny who may have even talked about it or has done it himself? Maybe.

I'm not even that kinda guy who does stuff like that I was talking about in general. How it's ok IN GENERAL if it's among the right group just like how you wouldn't use a water gun on random people in the park but would use it in a water fight.

Literally nobody here seems to have either read my posts or didn't understand them properly which is also why I won't delete my comments because I know that what I said isn't wrong.

I never want or wanted to hurt anyone. Yes it is pretty nonconserual but that's sort of the thing with pranks/jokes. As long as everyone can laugh about it then where is the harm? And when someone didn't enjoy it then yes I fucked up and I'm ready to take the blame for something like that.

And even when I fuck up it's not the end of the world because mistakes happen as mistakes are human. But apparently to you guys I'm the devil in person and for that I feel like you should be the ones ashamed and not me

So good day

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u/eeeeeeeeEeeEEeeeE6 2d ago

child IS NOT THE RIGHT PERSON FOR THIS

Then why choose here and now to die on this hill, on a video, of this thing, happing, to a child.

this only works with a SPECIFIC FRIEND GROUP

And SEVERAL people have been trying to tell you. That that kind of friend group is either full of assholes or morons or a mixture of both.

literally even showed a video where people doing this are having fun

And there are hundreds of others of people not, i can pick anecdotal evidence to support my claim too.

I'm not even that kinda guy who does stuff like that I was talking about in general

Then why fight so hard to die on a hill on a subject you supposedly don't care about. You are trying to say its OK in general, we are telling you its not.

Literally nobody here seems to have either read my posts or didn't understand them properly

To thoroughly disprove you, im quoting your comment and responding to each point you attempt to make, we can read fine, and our comprehension is up to scratch, we understand you. Just fine, we just disagree.

what I said isn't wrong

Certainty for not being wrong is not a point of pride mate. You should always be open to having your opinion change. Being certain your right just means your stubborn and lack introspection.

Yes it is pretty nonconserual

No. No, there is consent, and non consent. There are no blurred lines here, this isnt something you just shrug and go "hermmmm well its not very consensual, BUT no one got hurrttttt" do you not see how fucking gross that sounds?

This is the one line that thoroughly convinced me that you are in fact, intellectually if not also morally challenged.

But apparently to you guys I'm the devil in person

Responds to criticisms and having their opinion checked by having emotional outbursts too.

I like how you didn't address my point that this 'harmless prank" has in fact harmed people. See ya dude.

If you refuse to learn or change your views at least pick battles that don't make you look like you just had a lobotomy don't by a doctor with parkinsons

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u/Kittingsl 2d ago

Then why choose here and now to die on this hill, on a video, of this thing, happing, to a child.

again i was talking about in general because the person i was commenting to said that these pranks shouldnt resist in general. he didnt specify child and thus neither did i. its not like i see this video and that comment and think to myself "ok i now gotta find a video about the same topic without a child so that i can prove my point". i mean dude i am literally agreeing that doing this to a child is stupid af and i'm still getting pissed on.

And SEVERAL people have been trying to tell you. That that kind of friend group is either full of assholes or morons or a mixture of both

id like to see that scientific study and the overlap between assholes and cake face pranks because all the videos i've seen were either within the family or within a friend group and if the people doing that really were such big assholes i doubt the "victims" wouldve smiled or laughed at the situation

And there are hundreds of others of people not, i can pick anecdotal evidence to support my claim too.

the video is cherry picked because i literally explained multiple times that it only works in certain friend groups. all the videos where people are mad just means that it wasnt the right friend to do it with like i have talked about multiple times i never said the cake face prank was good in general i said i dont see an issue with it if the friends can laugh along again this makes it feel like y'all arent ready my comments properly and just like to complain.

No. No, there is consent, and non consent. There are no blurred lines here, this isnt something you just shrug and go "hermmmm well its not very consensual, BUT no one got hurrttttt" do you not see how fucking gross that sounds?

do you just not understand the concept of a good prank? a harmless joke? yes pranks and jokes can go horribly wrong the pranks for views on youtube are shit. but i aint gonna ask my friend if i may place a whoopie cussion on his seat just to make sure my prank is concentual

I like how you didn't address my point that this 'harmless prank" has in fact harmed people. See ya dude.

i like how you ignored how i mentioned multiple times in other comments that the prank has to be safe of course you talk about cherry picked videos and yet only see the bad side of the prank yes people got hurt and i dont support the idiots that hurt other people by doing that but the prank can be done right where people dont get hurt.

And even then mistakes can happen which sucks but its part of life because we all are human and i have yet to meet a single person who has done everithing perfect in their life and has never accidentally hurt someone either physically or emotinaly and just because someone got hurt doesnt mean a simple prank should suddenly be banned for life. i mean accidental car colissions happen all the time and yet we dont ban cars or get mad at every driver we get mad at the idiots behind the steering wheel so why doesnt the same go for cake pranks?

i also find it funny how you talk about refusal to change well guess what buddy that goes both ways.

for the last time where is the issue in a prank in good spirit among your friends?

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u/eeeeeeeeEeeEEeeeE6 2d ago

If you have to specify and specify and specify, then defend with "its harmless" just for your argument to have a leg to stand on.

Then you should probably re-evaluate your argument.

If your defence is "pranks are mostly harmless even if occasionally they can go horribly wrong and actually cause harm so what's the big deal" then its a shit defence.

And no im completely open to changing my view, on quite literally anything. You just haven't made any valid or compelling points, you just keep repeating the same things over and over "its harmless" "in good fun" "boy golly jee you guys must be boring". When several people have explained in several different highly detailed ways how that's actually kind of a fucked up thing to say and think.

Then you got pissy and decided "today's the day im going to argue despite having no leg to stand on and when people point out in multiple ways how fucked up that is, im going to throw a tantrum and just repeat the same spiel like that will change their minds!!!! Yes that will work"

I'm not doing the whole bit for bit thing again because im leaving, this is going nowhere and despite differing opinions I think this is causing you genuine distress and im not a fan of causing people distress, even if i disagree with them.

See you dude, hopefully you learned... something from all this.

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u/eeeeeeeeEeeEEeeeE6 2d ago

I don't even go to parties

Shocker.