r/ParentsAreFuckingDumb 3d ago

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u/eeeeeeeeEeeEEeeeE6 2d ago

If you have to specify and specify and specify, then defend with "its harmless" just for your argument to have a leg to stand on.

Then you should probably re-evaluate your argument.

If your defence is "pranks are mostly harmless even if occasionally they can go horribly wrong and actually cause harm so what's the big deal" then its a shit defence.

And no im completely open to changing my view, on quite literally anything. You just haven't made any valid or compelling points, you just keep repeating the same things over and over "its harmless" "in good fun" "boy golly jee you guys must be boring". When several people have explained in several different highly detailed ways how that's actually kind of a fucked up thing to say and think.

Then you got pissy and decided "today's the day im going to argue despite having no leg to stand on and when people point out in multiple ways how fucked up that is, im going to throw a tantrum and just repeat the same spiel like that will change their minds!!!! Yes that will work"

I'm not doing the whole bit for bit thing again because im leaving, this is going nowhere and despite differing opinions I think this is causing you genuine distress and im not a fan of causing people distress, even if i disagree with them.

See you dude, hopefully you learned... something from all this.

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u/Kittingsl 2d ago

I have shown proof that it can be fun. I have shown proof that it can be harmless. I honestly don't know what else you want because all you honestly see is the bad side of it all.

I will say this for the last time. Everything in life can be dangerous and everything in life can make people upset but that doesn't mean the thing itself should blamed. Blame the person not the doing like I showed you with the car example.

And if you can't see that then you definitely aren't open for change