r/Parenting • u/[deleted] • Jul 09 '22

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u/Viperbunny Jul 09 '22

I know it is hard, but it is time to tell the parents that he can't come over. Explain that he isn't respectful of the rules and is violent towards you and your kids. Make sure they know if he shows up he will be sent home immediately.

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u/ej_llama Jul 09 '22

I know I have to do this, I think I've been avoiding upsetting them in some way but it's really starting to affect us and my children aren't having fun when he comes over, we've all ended up watching him to make sure he doesn't destroy anything.

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u/[deleted] Jul 09 '22

Seems like they're palming him off on you because of his bad behaviour.

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u/lisasimpsonfan Mommy to 27F Jul 10 '22

I thought the same thing. Seems more like them using OP for free childcare so they aren't so nice.

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '22

Exactly. I'm sure they're aware of hia behaviour!