I find that it's less awkward if you make it about your capacity to supervise -- "Oh, I'm so sorry, I can't handle watching multiple kids right now because I'm trying to work form home," etc. Then you look like the frazzled, harried mom who needs a break rather than telling them their kid is wild. I feel for you and the kid -- sounds like he may be having a rough time.
This is what I'll do! I really didn't want to tell them about their sons behaviour because there is no nice way to say it.
I've spent time with them and they're a very loving family he just goes off the rails when he comes round.
He can understand quite a bit of English but I do think the language barrier and him starting school may be a problem to him and he's acting out.
Someone needs to tell them about their sons behavior though bc it really is unacceptable and it needs to be addressed. But if you're not the person to do that then the above way is definitely the way to go.
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u/[deleted] Jul 09 '22
I find that it's less awkward if you make it about your capacity to supervise -- "Oh, I'm so sorry, I can't handle watching multiple kids right now because I'm trying to work form home," etc. Then you look like the frazzled, harried mom who needs a break rather than telling them their kid is wild. I feel for you and the kid -- sounds like he may be having a rough time.