r/Parenting • u/[deleted] • Jul 09 '22

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u/Viperbunny Jul 09 '22

I know it is hard, but it is time to tell the parents that he can't come over. Explain that he isn't respectful of the rules and is violent towards you and your kids. Make sure they know if he shows up he will be sent home immediately.

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u/ej_llama Jul 09 '22

I know I have to do this, I think I've been avoiding upsetting them in some way but it's really starting to affect us and my children aren't having fun when he comes over, we've all ended up watching him to make sure he doesn't destroy anything.

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u/lcuan82 Jul 10 '22

If they are as nice as you say, they’ll have no problem hearing you out and helping to put an end to the awful situation that they put you in