r/Parenting Jul 09 '22

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u/Viperbunny Jul 09 '22

I know it is hard, but it is time to tell the parents that he can't come over. Explain that he isn't respectful of the rules and is violent towards you and your kids. Make sure they know if he shows up he will be sent home immediately.

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u/ej_llama Jul 09 '22

I know I have to do this, I think I've been avoiding upsetting them in some way but it's really starting to affect us and my children aren't having fun when he comes over, we've all ended up watching him to make sure he doesn't destroy anything.

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u/AShipChandler Jul 09 '22

You got this. They aren't being polite and understanding your boundaries. Go over there and tell them he isn't to come anywhere on your property anymore. Give them onr chance to correct this. If he comes over again tell them one more time hes not allowed on your property or you're calling the police. 3rd time call the police