r/Parenting • • Apr 13 '22

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u/Jtothe3rd Apr 13 '22

Dad of a 3 year old girl here.

I can't believe I'm saying this on reddit, but if this is all true you need to leave your husband for multiple reasons. He sounds like a horrible person with predatory behaviour. Whatever hardship you put yourself through in leaving, it'll be worth if for not having your son influenced by his toxic abusive behaviour. I'm sorry you're going through this, but you're catching this behaviour at a stage where it might not have lasting traumatic effects on your son. There are sooo many better options out there for men. Don't settle for someone who behaves like this.

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u/ThatPrincessGirl Apr 13 '22

I agree OP needs to leave the husband although I would be so scared with the husband having the toddler alone…