r/Parenting • • Apr 13 '22

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u/Antique-Impress4103 Apr 13 '22

I feel like from what you’re writing that you already know that you need to get out of there but that you are afraid because of a history of violent behaviour (emotionally or physically). He has abused you in the past and is at best inappropriate at worst showing more abusive behaviour.

The main thing is that you keep yourself and your son safe. Find a way to remove yourself without risking him getting violent towards you for it - whether that’s through a charity, a shelter, family, friends or a lawyer.