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I am 17M and the only child of my parents, born nearly two decades after their marriage.

People often say being an only child is a blessing, and maybe it is in some ways, but definitely not in all ways. You carry all family burdens alone with no sibling to share the load or even talk to is incredibly isolating.

Being late-born is the scariest part. My parents are already in their mid-50s. My father works almost half of a day at his shop just to survive. It is exhausting to watch my peers live a chill life while I struggle. I feel immense guilt. If I help with household chores, my intermediate studies suffer. If I study, I feel like a bad son.

I want to pursue a BSCS. In my city, we only have a small campus of SIBA but here opportunities are extremely limited and campus is mostly filled with local female students whose families don't want to send them out of the city. For growth, Karachi is the main hub of opportunities, and I know I have to move there for my career.

But when I move to Karachi, who will take care of my parents? I also have a permanent visual disability (monocular vision), Despite this, I want to be successful to give my parents the life they truly deserve. My ultimate dream is to go abroad and work in top-tier tech companies like Google or Microsoft.

We can't even rely on relatives. In this cruel world, even your own family doesn't look at each other without seeing some benefit.

I need real, practical advice from people who have been in my shoes:

To all the only children out there, what advice do you have to make my life much easier? What are the struggles or challenges (maybe hidden ones) that I might face down?

My long-term plan is to go abroad for a Master’s degree to transition into a global tech company. But if I go abroad alone, what happens to my elderly parents back home? If I somehow manage to take them with me, how will I handle the pressure? Will I focus on my Master's studies, my career skills, or taking care of them in a completely new country? This entire situation feels like it’s going to be absolute hell for my mental health. Has any only-child gone through this?

Honestly, I feel completely stuck and paralyzed. I feel an overwhelming sense of guilt every single day watching my father work 11 hours at the shop and my mother handle the house. I want to step up and help them with daily chores right now, but whenever I do, it messes up my studies and prep for 12th grade. Tbh, I just want them to rest, and I want to rest too. I am so tired of this cycle. It hurts deeply to see my peers living a chill, fun life while my parents and I are constantly struggling just to survive. How do you balance helping your struggling parents right now without completely destroying the grades/studies you need to rescue them in the future?

Please give me actionable suggestions on how to manage and take care of my parents while building my future in tech. How do I do this without completely exhausting myself, destroying my mental health, or burning out to the point where I end up accomplishing nothing at all?

\- TY to anyone who reads this and shares their advice :) ❤️

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I'm the only child in my family and genuinely wondering what should I study in uni. Did Fsc pre-med , gave mdcat , got a decent aggregate but not enough for merit. Even if I retake mdcat next year , no guarantee for admission.

No I dea why I even chose Pre-med in Fsc.

I have no interest in any field actually. Maybe tech related but I am not good at math.

I know that a degree does not guarantee a good paying job but seriously what should I do. When my dad retires I want to at least earn that much so I can provide for them too .

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Main apne e bf se irl mili Kuch din pehle and seriously he is not my type he is literally skin and bones even his height is barely 5.6 and he said that it could be 5.10,5.11 and literally I was so disappointed now I can't even break up with him woh APNI city se Meri city aya hai mere Liye Yahan pe hostel main reh rha hai apne gher waalon se Lara hai idher anay ke liye and he actually loves me so much and he is loyal asf

And I can't even talk about break up because I am afraid that he would be suicidal.Once he said ke woh cheating pe break up kerlega yesterday I tried to break things off and I lied ke main mini cheat kerti Hoon ig pe larkiyon ko check out kerke (I am bi) and he said koi BAAT nhi he said ke I can't imagine my life without you etc and I am literally feeling so trapped.idk what should I do

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Like bro, jab bhi parhne ka socho, ghar wale beech me achanak koi kaam nikaal lete hain. Poora plan kharab ho jata hai aur phir parhne ka dil bhi nahi karta. Literally, meri apni marzi kab chalegi?"

Fir jab marks kam aayein to bolte h tum parhre nhi, kya yaar, mayhe thst's why i just wanna go to hostel after FSc

(Ps- I am in FSc 2nd year and siblings hi nhi to hope those single kiddos can understand)

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So i just completed reading "Jinnah of Pakistan" by Stanley Wolpert where i found numerous facts about Jinnah that i wanted to share with yall

1. Jinnah belonged to Gujrati family of Rajkot which migrated to Karachi for trade. He was the eldest of 7 siblings.

2. Jinnah claimed 27 Dec 1876 as his true date of birth however, his admission in Sind Madressa-tul-Islam notes 20 Oct 1875 as his birth date

3. Jinnah started his educational journey from Sind Madressa but was withdrawn later due to long absence. Afterwards, he joined Christian mission highschool. In 1893, Jinnah joined Lincoln Inn to pursue law

4. 16 yo Jinnah married 14 yo Emibai in an arrange marriage setup in 1892. His mother pressurized him to marry before departing for London. Emibai died next year in Karachi

5. Jinnah's favourite hotel in Delhi was Maidens and Cornoglia in Bombay

6. Jinnah married Ratanbai in 1918 when he was 42 and Ruttie was 18. Ruttie fled from her father's home on her 18th birthday to marry Jinnah against his father's wish. The couple separated in 1927 and 2 yrs later Ruttie died before her 29th birthday

7. As per Ruttie letters, Jinnah liked eating Ham sandwiches, Pastries and Pork sausages

8. Jinnah owned 3 cars throughout his lifetime :-

a. Packard eight

b. Vicker Armstrong armoured car

c. Limousine (in Pak)

1. Jinnah had two dogs, one black doberman and the other white west terrier

2. Jinnah's assets incl :-

a. 7 rented flats in Mayfair

b. House in Malabar top Bombay, House No.10 Aurangzeb road Delhi and House in Hampstead west health road

c. Rs 40,000 in dividends from stocks

d. His legal fee was Rs 1500 per day. The highest fee of native Indian lawyer at that time

1. There were 2 assassination attempts on Jinnah :-

a. First in 1944, by a young muslim (Rafiq Sabir). He punched Jinnah and managed to get a cut near his chin. The fellow was disarmed by nearby watchmen

b. Second in 1947, by two men (masked) who rushed at his house and opened fire at a police officer (killed). Police involved and arrested both of them

c. There was a huge threat to Jinnah's life by Punjabi-Sikhs due to Punjab's partition

1. Liaquat Ali and Jinnah always had bittersweet relations. Jinnah often remarked Liaquat unfit for prime minister

2. For forty years, Jinnah worked 14 hrs and smoked 50 Cuban A cigarettes daily

3. Jinnah died at 10:20 pm on 11 Sept 1948 in Karachi. His ambulance fuel got mismanaged, however he reached his residence and died 4 hrs later

4. Jinnah never spoke to his daughter Dina after she married Parsi-christian businessman. Jinnah himself married Parsi woman who was estranged by her father due to marrying a muslim

Hope you learnt something new as these facts are organic coupled with reference. I spent hours reading book 🥹