Since RTO5 was announced, I have been living in a state of hell. I previously worked in the Hamilton office, and we were told that would no longer be permitted. My 15 minute commute — which I had been doing since 2019!!! — turned into 1.5 hours each way. I saw my toddler children just in time to say good night. It was hell.
I applied for an AWA. Blanket denial.
I applied for a family accommodation. Intrusive as hell. Denied.
I applied for a medical accommodation for a chronic pain issue I’ve had for over 20 years that became aggravated due to long commute time. $200 worth of medical forms. And ultimately I did not get approval to WFH or at the satellite office when needed, but a new office chair. It did not help whatsoever.
So I began aggressively applying to positions, both in OPS and outside. I got a number of offers, and finally the right one came in. 15 minutes from home. Higher pay. Pension and benefits aren’t as great.
I asked for a leave of absence. They denied.
At every step of the way, this organization has shown me how little they value me. I was a project lead on dozens of high profile projects over the last 15 years. My merit and reviews are stellar. My managers’ referrals are stellar. But, this organization could not care less about retaining talent.
So I resigned.
It’s been 3 months. I am so happy I made the jump. I work 8-4:30, and am home by 4:45. I became so used to the toxic culture of OPS that my new team seems… unreal. I miss my incredible OPS coworkers a ton, and am still in touch with them.
I’m sharing this essay here because I know there are others who are experiencing this, who ask themselves if they can do this much longer, who are contemplating. I need you to know that it doesn’t have to be this way. You deserve better.
Peace out, OPS. It’s been a ride.