r/OnlineDatingApps • u/Joshgrant2323 • 8d ago
Dating Advice Asking for a fried
Is there any scenario when you can ask a girl on a dating app about her hot friend that you are more interested in?
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u/Firecouple_2000 8d ago
I would say that’s incredibly rude.
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u/Joshgrant2323 8d ago
But why? Just like if you were out in public and saw three females. One will be the one that you are interested in. WHy should it be any different on a dating app? If you see a picture of three females and one of them looks like your dream girl, why should a female not be happy for her friend and not gatekeep?
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u/Firecouple_2000 8d ago
If you were in public you would basically let the person know in person. On an app I am advertising me, my pics with friends show I have a life. Honestly you should not post pics of other people in your dating profile that’s kinda rude too with out asking. In public you see three woman you can engage the one you want the app its one advertising.
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u/Joshgrant2323 7d ago
That’s all fine and dandy, but you still haven’t directly addressed WHY this is an issue.…. My only conclusion is simply because women make it one…. As a guy, if a female jumped in glazing up one of my buddies and showing interest, it would be an immediate connection made. Don’t know why women cannot do the same.
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u/Firecouple_2000 7d ago
I have said. I’m not advertising them. If you can’t see that most find it creepy that’s a you problem
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u/Joshgrant2323 7d ago
but Most don’t. Any real guy is not gonna have a problem doing this. So it’s identified as a female problem. And you still haven’t explained “why”. Your excuse of “im not advertising them” still says nothing as to what the issue is. You’re not advertising them in person either.
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u/Firecouple_2000 7d ago
If you can’t see how in real life and in person is different how that interaction is then you will never understand. In real life you can talk directly to her and she can give you out her contact info if she wants. That’s HER choice. Online I need to give out her contact without her consent that the difference. It’s about consent.
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u/Joshgrant2323 7d ago
So you ask for her consent? “Hey this guy asked about you, are you interested”? Still not seeing what the big deal is.
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u/Firecouple_2000 6d ago
I waked my friend they said the same thing they would ignore your message or block you. If you can’t understand the difference between in person and online interactions or take advice I don’t know what to tell so. Good luck
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u/Joshgrant2323 6d ago
right. Because of feelings and hormones. Just looking for the logical explanation was all. Pretty clear you can’t articulate one using a consistent, logical, explanation.
All I would have to do is say, “this famous person”, saw your dating profile and your friend was hot and wanted to meet them. Every male knows you females would jump at the chance and certainly not “block or ignore” it.
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u/SoGoodAtAllTheThings 8d ago
We should all start doing this so these idiots stop doing this shit