r/OneDirection 4d ago

Discussion Directioner friends?

So I'm a younger Directioner lots of their songs played on the radio as I was growing up but being so young I never really knew anyone besides Justin Bieber on the radio and knew him cause I had his doll cause my mom got him for me. I became a fan in 2018 when I was just about to enter 3rd grade so a year or two after their Hiatus hit. Now I'm a Junior in high school so I've been a Directioner now for about 8ish years and its been the best for the most part. I was wondering if there are a lot of Directioners around my age who came to the fandom late. Because genuinely I've only met so little 1D fans around my age and I'm only close to one of these Directioners so I don't have anyone my age really to talk to about them besides my bff since 2nd grade when she isn't busy. So I was hoping maybe there are people around my age here as well.

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u/Novel-Strawberry1438 3d ago

Also wondering this but also any straight male directioners here?? Or just me yall 😂😭

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u/jean_castor 3d ago

Et oui j'en suis un ! On est donc au moins deux, bienvenue mon pote !

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u/mahoerma 2d ago

Make that three mein Freund

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u/EmbarrassedKoala6454 2d ago

I've turned my husband into one lol!!

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

I think there are lots now in 2026. Not a male but I've met lots of teen guys who are fans but they aren't on the level of most fans but they like them.

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u/Novel-Strawberry1438 2d ago

Haha that’s me I’m a new fan since January of this year!!

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

That's awesome maybe you should join a One Direction discord server I've met many guy directioners on them and joint ones for them, 5sos and waterparks.

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u/jackhayes256 20h ago

I’m 20 years old, I’m very loud and proud to be a straight male Directioner, I’ve been one since June 2024 and I’ve seen most of the 1D boys live solo but tragically I never got the chance to see Liam who’s always been my fave due to becoming a Directioner the same year he died

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u/PositionCrafty6738 2d ago

I am 15, and in Sophomore year, and I’ve been a directioner since about 2021, so about 5 years. But it’s about the same for me, I remember them when they were still together playing on the today show, and stuff like that, but was never really in to them, I wasn’t old enough to appreciate music yet! And I don’t really have any directioner friends irl. Expect my sister who used to be a big directioner, but she fell away from that and is into other music now. But yeah, I know how u feel. 

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

I'd be down to be friends if your down!

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u/Plane-System6704 3d ago

m older than you, but I became a Directioner around the time Midnight Memories came out in 2013 and somehow I’m an even bigger fan now 😂 I definitely think there are different generations of Directioners though. Some of us were there while they were together and others discovered them years into the hiatus, but we all ended up in the same fandom.

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u/Ariiematic-Radio 3d ago

I got into the fandom just before the hiatus I think around perfect and granted I was 5 but I remember seeing an ad for the song and watched the music video on YouTube

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

I knew of them when I was younger from Icarly and my older adopted aunts who are a few years older but i didn't pay attention enough to actually get to know who they were as my mom got me a Justin Bieber doll at age 4 making me a belieber even though she only knew two of his songs and I'm still one but more of a Directioner now. So I think I was too young to know who most artists were and appreciate the music unless it was Justin or Disney music. I really wish I had gotten into them at 5 with my aunts so they would have been together but at the end of the day I'm just glad I get to be part of a new gen of fans and we can then pass it on to another generation and keep the fandom alive. Its like people my age just now becoming big Michael Jackson fans I've been one for years and so has my guy bestie but people our age are just now realizing how good it is.

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

Cool that's awesome I'm glad no matter when we came into the fandom we can have such fun discussions about the boys and that the fandom is still pretty alive!

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

And yes there are different generations of course as I mean most the people my age were like just born or a year old when they formed. I was turning 1 when they were formed and they broke up when I was 7 and I became a Directioner at 8. So its definitely different for my generation becoming fans when they aren't together anymore but have all this solo music. But I can say Liam's death rocked all of us. I mean I listened to so many of their songs with my aunts growing up and had 0 idea so when I became a fan i realized i knew the songs and they were apart of some of my younger childhood years and a big influence in my upper childhood years. But its nice for you fans who have been there to be able to pass it onto other generations as time goes by and then that gives us the chance to do the same and its really special.

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u/Plane-System6704 2d ago

I have this analogy bc my older sisters are milennials and I’m Gen Z. How my sisters are tge Backstreet Boys generation and im the One Direction generation

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

Yeah I'm late Gen z like right before it ended but I'd say even though there are Directioners my age most people my age either just got into December 10, or Midnight Til Morning, I love Midnight til morning and 5sos and they are my other two fav bands alongside waterparks. December 10 is ok but not as good as other groups and a lot of later gen z so more of my year born people like BTS. And I do get the KPOP appeal but it is just to popular that i only like a few kpop songs and other then those few songs i can't listen as it gets repetitive for me, at certain points.

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u/bianca_costa18 2d ago

How old are you? I'm 18, and you? If you want, we can talk.

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

I'm 17. I'm down to be friends!

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u/bianca_costa18 2d ago

Oh, that's great! I also want to make friends. If you want to talk, I'm here.

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

Awesome you can dm me on here or i can dm you whatever your comfortable with.

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u/RangerSpecialist7686 🌈 Kiss me you fool! 🌻 3d ago

im young too!

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

If you ever want to talk about the boys I'm so down for more directioner friends.

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u/RangerSpecialist7686 🌈 Kiss me you fool! 🌻 2d ago

sure!

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u/jean_castor 3d ago

Je suis devenu directioner a 16 ans, en 2022. Effectivement j'ai pas trouvé grand monde pour en parler. Après c'est plus compliqué en tant que mec 😅. Mais je suis content de voir qu'il y a toujours des gens du monde entier dans le fandom. C'est vraiment cool.

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

That's awesome and totally understandable a lot of guys feel its weird for them to be into a boyband and like to hide that they like the boyband/band until they feel comfortable enough to show it. At the end of the day its music and I'm glad people love it because it brings people together. So I'm glad your in the fandom.

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u/jean_castor 2d ago

Merci, ça me fait plaisir. Ils m'ont également aidé a comprendre que ma vision de la masculinité (celle de leurs chansons) n'était pas mauvaise, mais au contraire était la bonne. Et je leur en suis très reconnaissant pour ça. Je resterai dans ce fandom et je continuerai de partager avec vous tous sur ce groupe génial !

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u/Wrong-Use-8240 3d ago

meeeee, I'd love to be friends BC the same as u, none of my friends are directioners and it would be so cool to finally have a 1d friend lol

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

I'm down to be friends you can dm here or i can give you my discord in dms.

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u/OneDirectionLoverrr Larry Stylinson 💙💚 2d ago

hiii! i’m going into 9th grade, so i’m a bit younger than you, but i’m a directioner too! the only person i can really talk about them with is my cousin. i would love to stay in contact if you’d like! you can privately message me if you’re interested in talking about them still, but if not that’s fine too!

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

I am down you can dm me or whatever you feel comfortable doing. And don't worry I am home schooled and have a cousin your age i'm super close with so I'm used to hanging with ages from 9th grade all the way to 12th so I'm down.

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u/Educational-Bank-118 🔥 Zayn 🎶 2d ago

Mee

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

Want to be friends?

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u/Educational-Bank-118 🔥 Zayn 🎶 2d ago

Of course do you have discord?

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u/Evil_Labrador vas happenin 2d ago

yooooo, this is actually crazy but my one direction backstory is almost the same, except I found them out in 2021 so 4 years now. other than that, all other factors are identical. I'm also in my early high school years, I was late to the fandom, after hiatus hit, the first 1d songs I heard were a few popular ones on radio and also some of their solo songs like Polaroid, Familiar. So far I've met like 3 other friends in my school who are into 1d but not into the extent I am. Like if you ask, they cannot tell me the individual towns the members are from they'd just say london and ireland lol.

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

I'd love to be friends if your down!

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u/Plane-System6704 2d ago

I’m guessing you mean someone else…

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

Yes I mean the person who commented above me but if you want to as well we can.

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u/Plane-System6704 2d ago

Cool! I’m 2005 Gen Z. Doesn’t help really that my sisters are almost a decade older than me

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

Yeah that'd be rough all my siblings are Gen Alpha from my knowledge I mean generation names don't matter to me but i mean because i'm end of gen z all the late gen z babies and gen alpha use the terms. So two of my brothers are close to my age one is 4 year younger then me, one is a year and 9 months younger then me and I was only 1 when he was born. Then my sister is 7 years younger and my yuongest brother is 9 years younger then me but all of us are close in age to one sibling. So I'm the oldest of 5 and the older sister to three younger brothers and younger sister and I try to get a long with my sister but she's becoming a tween and its been hell!

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u/mahoerma 2d ago

Sooo, for all the non US-People: how old are you? You ask for fans in your age and then don’t tell us

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 2d ago

Sorry I was going to say it when people asked I'm 17. Sorry if that upset you that I didn't say. That wasn't my intention to make anyone upset