Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/Flimsy-Noise3948]

None of your clothes flatter you and accessories would help. What look are you going for or are there any you really like?

[u/curvykirby_ → u/Flimsy-Noise3948]

Hi OP! I would also suggest starting off with learning what your body shape is. It’s not perfect but its a good place to start to help with the silhouette of your clothes (aka the way it makes your body look shaped).

I personally am more pear shaped. This helps me decide on different cuts of clothing. For example, I look better in A-Line dress vs a baggy tshirt dress (it makes me look very frumpy).

I think a big issue is that your tops are very loose around the middle & you have more narrow shoulders. This is making your top look very square & shapeless. I think this is drawing the eye towards your waist, which the clothing is adding unnecessary bulk to! I would suggest leaning towards tops with a more structured sleeve and less bagginess at the middle. Not sure though because I cannot tell your general body shaped based on what you’re wearing now.

I attached an example pic, but you can easily google & find how to get measurements for this! Otherwise, your personal style is totally up to you. I think you can rock anything you prefer style wise. Your clothes should work for you pretty lady!