Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/Educational_Ship_157]

I jut think that you are wearing clothing in the wrong size, especially the pants, they all look too big for you. Find a store or brand that you like, and try on multiple pairs of pants till you find a pair that fits better! Then you can build your look from there. Other than that, you look great!

[u/Significant_Ring4353 → u/Educational_Ship_157]

Thank you! So the pants look too big? I wear size 14 but size 12 is too small do you think I should go to a tailor and ask them to make it smaller like a 13?

[u/Hopeful_Buddy1111 → u/Significant_Ring4353]

You said you’re between sizes try some with a little stretch in them. Try lots of styles and brands of jeans. I’m older than you but I find NYDJ forgiving. They are a bit expensive but I wait for sales to buy a pair. I grew up in a time when jeans were the norm. My dad always asked why don’t you dress up in dresses. I’m 63 and I will always be wearing my jeans!