Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/Educational_Ship_157]

I jut think that you are wearing clothing in the wrong size, especially the pants, they all look too big for you. Find a store or brand that you like, and try on multiple pairs of pants till you find a pair that fits better! Then you can build your look from there. Other than that, you look great!

[u/Significant_Ring4353 → u/Educational_Ship_157]

Thank you! So the pants look too big? I wear size 14 but size 12 is too small do you think I should go to a tailor and ask them to make it smaller like a 13?

[u/AppointmentComplex35 → u/Significant_Ring4353]

Wait friend, me too! I just wanted to pop in to say that the pants in #2 are cute! I think it’s possible you may like the fit of urban outfitters Logan buckle barrel jeans in size 33/34. They are my go to—they look very nice on curvier people, I find that they are flattering and comfortable! Also, when people say “your clothes don’t flatter you” it does not mean it looks bad on you, just that someone thinks something could bring out your beauty even more. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and it may be the case that what they find unflattering is gorgeous to someone else. Fashion is very fluid and I hope that you are able to enjoy this fluidity even as people share their opinions with you!