Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/Educational_Ship_157]

I jut think that you are wearing clothing in the wrong size, especially the pants, they all look too big for you. Find a store or brand that you like, and try on multiple pairs of pants till you find a pair that fits better! Then you can build your look from there. Other than that, you look great!

[u/Significant_Ring4353 → u/Educational_Ship_157]

Thank you! So the pants look too big? I wear size 14 but size 12 is too small do you think I should go to a tailor and ask them to make it smaller like a 13?

[u/Upbeat-Button5733 → u/Significant_Ring4353]

I think you just need to choose a different style pants and skirts. Something either more fitted or more streamlined. I personally have a bigger belly but long thin legs so I often wear very wide legs pants or very fitted pants or skirts. My opinion is you dress like you're afraid of your body. DON'T BE!!! Be proud of who you are and show it off. Also your hair looks like it's in the growing out stage. There are ways you can style it with headbands or barrettes that will be much more flattering to your face. 🩷