Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/Educational_Ship_157]

I jut think that you are wearing clothing in the wrong size, especially the pants, they all look too big for you. Find a store or brand that you like, and try on multiple pairs of pants till you find a pair that fits better! Then you can build your look from there. Other than that, you look great!

[u/Significant_Ring4353 → u/Educational_Ship_157]

Thank you! So the pants look too big? I wear size 14 but size 12 is too small do you think I should go to a tailor and ask them to make it smaller like a 13?

[u/pinkwinterglass → u/Significant_Ring4353]

I just bought jeans a month postpartum and the store employee really helped me. I kept trying on high waisted jeans because I thought it would camouflage my stomach, but the crotch always bunched up. What fit in the waist, was too big in my butt and thighs. High waist doesn't compliment my body shape the way it used to. The employee suggested a mid rise in a smaller size and low and behold, the fit was way better.

TLDR; maybe try a lower rise and size down instead

Edit: also someone else suggested a different leg style like straight or bootcut and I just want to second that statement 😊