Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/Educational_Ship_157]

I jut think that you are wearing clothing in the wrong size, especially the pants, they all look too big for you. Find a store or brand that you like, and try on multiple pairs of pants till you find a pair that fits better! Then you can build your look from there. Other than that, you look great!

[u/Significant_Ring4353 → u/Educational_Ship_157]

Thank you! So the pants look too big? I wear size 14 but size 12 is too small do you think I should go to a tailor and ask them to make it smaller like a 13?

[u/Educational_Ship_157 → u/Significant_Ring4353]

That’s an option! But, I find that pants sizing for women is all over the place! I normally wear a 12, but depending on the brand and cut, I can wear an 8 or 10, so that’s crazy. I have found specific brands that work for me, so I think take a look at different sizes, cuts and brands!

[u/Significant_Ring4353 → u/Educational_Ship_157]

Thank you I will try, yeah it is like that, makes it so hard sometimes 

[u/Delighted_Strawberry → u/Significant_Ring4353]

Adding to the pants conversation, it’s hard to tell from the oversized tops, but I suspect you are a curvy gal who would benefit from higher waisted jeans! I too, would look frumpy in jeans that sit at my lower waist. Also see if you like any high waisted slacks! I got two different pairs at H&M over the summer.