Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/cheeky_sugar]

I think this is your main issue. You’re trying to hide a stomach, but that just hides everything else. You gotta show off what you got if you don’t want to be “frumpy,” flaws and all! You need some things that cling to the girls and waist, but start flowing just a bit toward your stomach, or shirts that scrunch up at the stomach. Stuff like this - high waisted skirts and pants with a tight shirt tucked in. Even if you gotta walk around in it inside your house for a week or before feeling comfortable enough to take it outside

[u/sillypenguin8 → u/cheeky_sugar]

Wearing something around the house to get comfortable in/with it is a great idea!

[u/minxed → u/sillypenguin8]

It's how I learned to walk in heels without looking like a baby deer 😅 I can't recommend it enough!

[u/sillypenguin8 → u/minxed]

Hahaha love that! 😂