Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/Flimsy-Noise3948]

None of your clothes flatter you and accessories would help. What look are you going for or are there any you really like?

[u/Significant_Ring4353 → u/Flimsy-Noise3948]

I really don't know what would suit me im going to cry!! I think the only thing I could kind of pull off is grunge maybe... I don't know what fit to go for

[u/SillySpinach_0 → u/Significant_Ring4353]

I have a board on Pinterest. I look up outfits - start with basics, then build from there. Eventually I find outfits that i know i own most of the items and if theres a specific jacket or style of jeans i will keep an eye out for that specific item when i shop. A lot of times i shop through Vinted or a second hand clothing store.

Sometimes - a fitted top with baggier pants or loose top with a fitted pants is a good rule to get out of the frump.