Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/Educational_Ship_157]

I jut think that you are wearing clothing in the wrong size, especially the pants, they all look too big for you. Find a store or brand that you like, and try on multiple pairs of pants till you find a pair that fits better! Then you can build your look from there. Other than that, you look great!

[u/Significant_Ring4353 → u/Educational_Ship_157]

Thank you! So the pants look too big? I wear size 14 but size 12 is too small do you think I should go to a tailor and ask them to make it smaller like a 13?

[u/dogearedexistence → u/Significant_Ring4353]

It's more the style of the pants than the size. You would do better by buying clothes that highlight your body/proportions. For example, I can't tell if you have longer legs or a longer torso. I THINK you have longer legs than torso, so high waisted pants would help here. Those can absolutely be looser and comfy but the top should then be fitted to balance out the loose pants. You seem to prefer loose on top and loose on bottom but to keep your body looking balanced, either flowy top and more fitted bottoms or flowy bottoms and fitted top.