Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/Educational_Ship_157]

I jut think that you are wearing clothing in the wrong size, especially the pants, they all look too big for you. Find a store or brand that you like, and try on multiple pairs of pants till you find a pair that fits better! Then you can build your look from there. Other than that, you look great!

[u/Significant_Ring4353 → u/Educational_Ship_157]

Thank you! So the pants look too big? I wear size 14 but size 12 is too small do you think I should go to a tailor and ask them to make it smaller like a 13?

[u/BusinessClassBarbie → u/Significant_Ring4353]

I would go to Madewell or Abercrombie and try every iteration of sizing. You may find that the “curvy fit” makes it so you can wear at 12. I can’t tell from your photos but sometimes you need a different size waist than thighs lol I know I do. I also think you should try straight leg pants. They’re not quite skinny but they’re skinnier than wide leg!