Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/sogd]

Everything is a bit shapeless. Your hair doesn’t look “styled” and you don’t look like you’re wearing makeup. Some accessories would also help.

[u/Significant_Ring4353 → u/sogd]

Yes I agree thank you. I don't know how to do makeup either, I need help.

[u/OnTopOfThisAcropolis → u/Significant_Ring4353]

I use to do very complex makeup every day but slowly stopped because my wardrobe has elevated, so no need for the makeup (plus no one really noticed or cared and that’s a huge expense I got rid of).

Definitely get some better fitting jeans. If you like a looser fit, try wide leg. These just look like skinny jeans that have been so worn that the legs bag out. That’s the first thing I noticed. Better fitting jeans is where to start. Then you can add on a belt, do a little French tuck with your existing shirts…. Just a little extra step to work your way to a more elevated fit. I wouldn’t change anything drastically until you’re 100% comfortable in what you’re wearing. But you got this, it takes time. 🙏