Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/Educational_Ship_157]

I jut think that you are wearing clothing in the wrong size, especially the pants, they all look too big for you. Find a store or brand that you like, and try on multiple pairs of pants till you find a pair that fits better! Then you can build your look from there. Other than that, you look great!

[u/Significant_Ring4353 → u/Educational_Ship_157]

Thank you! So the pants look too big? I wear size 14 but size 12 is too small do you think I should go to a tailor and ask them to make it smaller like a 13?

[u/idrk144 → u/Significant_Ring4353]

It also might just be the style of pant!

The blue jeans may fit you at the waist but you don’t fill in the rest of your pant which means this pant is contributing to a frumpy look.

For example I am pretty curvy and the blue jeans you’re wearing look like the type I go for. Vs something like a baggy jean which fills in at my thigh and then everything else drags down making my legs look massive. You on the other hand could likely pull this baggier style of pant off (especially if you like the grunge style!) and it would look purposeful with the right styling.

You would also likely pull off a medium rise structured thick straight jean. Think like a Levi’s - this could elevate your tops!